>>32564369
>in a city of 200k
>maybe 30 women under 25 on Tinder
>all mid or ugly
its over

>>32564369
What does your profile look like? Online dating is hard so you need a top notch profile

>>32564369
>tinder
>dating apps

Cmon man. If you say you are ugly, did you at least suffer enough? If you have, you’d at least have solidified some of the suffering into wisdom. And wisdom should tell you that dating apps are garbage. They’re meant for hook-ups, sex, non-committal relationships. Even the girls who say they are looking for serious/long-term aren’t looking for it, they’re looking for validation. When the validation gets old, they go bye-bye and onto the next swipe.

Use your brain bro. I’m certain you can at least have a beautiful mind. So use that mind and think – you think you are ugly which may or may not be objectively true – okay, so look at the thing as a game of options. Girl on tinder? Infinite options she has. Dozens of dms weekly at worst, daily at best. She will choose the most attractive profile. Nothing against you, just human nature. The hot guy could be a nice dude, a shit one, who knows. What we know is most likely it’s a casual fuck and flee, both will go back to tinder as always.

So what do you do? Stop using tinder. If you can’t play it with charm, play it with smarts. Go somewhere where the girl does not have 1,000 bloated social media options. Find a girl who doesn’t use tinder and never has. A local girl, or a girl who keeps herself to herself even online. That way you become the only option, or one of just a few. And, even if she knows a couple one or two other guys, she’ll have energy to entertain you. That gives you time to get to know her, show some of your personality. That means you’ll bag the girl if you’re at least a kind person.

Don’t believe me? I just watched a woman I know have an option of 2 guys. Fat guy and an athletic guy. She picked the fat guy. Why? Athletic guy was a tryhard, faked his confidence, too desperate and tried to be a PuA. The fat guy was chill, authentic, not a tryhard.

Get off """"dating"""" apps, they are bad for your health and your mind.

>>32564369
First of all get off of Tinder, there's probably more guys than girls on that app and most dating apps. Second of all you are only as "ugly" as you believe you are

>>32564419
PUA's are clowns lol

>>32564420
They're bad for health and mind because not being picked amongst a buffet of men is naturally a brutal undeniable blackpill that shatters any hope of optimistic bluepillism in your mind.

>>32564369
>change location to philippines
>100 likes per day
Wow so hard

>>32564893
Holy shit you're being a bit fucking dramatic don't you think?

>>32564369
>b me, ugly
>uses app
>gets judged by the only thing apps promote
>mfw I dont know what Im doing wrong

>>32564948
How? Dating apps are directly uploading your resume and saying "Here I am" amongst a batch of other men. Unlike cold approaching, they have no excuse for their rejection of you, instead you just go unpicked and the single only reason why is because you were inadequate and unattractive to women.

>>32564971
You're taking it far too personally. You are one profile in a literal sea of other profiles. Unlike real life you're not being judged on your personality relative physical appearance compared to the people around you. You're being compared to actual models. You ever seen a woman on tinder? Your profile appears and in less than a second you're swiped to the left unless your profile is interesting or you're gorgeous. The only people on dating apps who get a lot of likes are women and that's only because men swipe right on everyone who isn't deformed. If you're not a supermodel do what I did, make your profile interesting so you stand out and stop taking things so personally. Men have much worse luck with OLD. The card are stacked against you but if you have literally no luck then it doesn't necessarily mean you're ugly, just that you're doing something wrong.

>>32564369
Let's assume for the moment that you are not an Adonis. Then why would you rely on a meeting-medium that depends entirely on someone responding to your picture?

If a woman is going to fall for you, it will be because of the "you" that is inside the packaging. That means that she gets to know you as a person - a friend, a fellow student, a coworker, a neighbor.

Go out and meet people - and, more importantly, let them meet you - in the real world.

>>32564971
It's literally mostly guys on those apps, useless if you are looking for females

>>32565011
>make your profile interesting so you stand out and stop taking things so personally. Men have much worse luck with OLD. The card are stacked against you but if you have literally no luck then it doesn't necessarily mean you're ugly, just that you're doing something wrong.
Just jestermaxx bro! You just need more dog pics in your profile bro! Just be Superman and carefully construct your profile perfectly using human psychology tactics to still only get three likes from fat single moms bro!

>>32565121
Females don't exist IRL anymore. They're all indoors getting free attention online, until they get a new Chad boyfriend, who takes her places and which is the only time that she will go anywhere without her groups of friends ever.

>>32565127
Gee with a personality like that it really is a wonder that you're still single stud.

>>32565200
Awwww thanks sweetie teehee :)

>>32564369
Go into lookmaxing

>>32564375
This is statistically impossible

>>32565200
but where's the lie in what he said

>>32564369
Tinder is gay. Try other apps.

>>32564369
are you ugly tho?
maybe you're just derpy
I've seen guys who cleaning up their act would be passable

>>32564419
>Don’t believe me? I just watched a woman I know have an option of 2 guys. Fat guy and an athletic guy. She picked the fat guy. Why? Athletic guy was a tryhard, faked his confidence, too desperate and tried to be a PuA. The fat guy was chill, authentic, not a tryhard.
That's a very nice story anon, too bad it only happened in your head

>>32565516
Women here simply don't need to go to dating apps. It's all social media and friend circles.

>>32564369
Same thing happened to me.
Tinder is only for Chads
ugly - mid women have inflated egos because of this
Use other dating apps that aren't just for hookups or actually be a human and approach women IRL at hobbies, bars, etc.

>>32564375
>all mid or ugly
You don’t deserve to get laid.

The more time I spend here the more I believe that anyone complaining about their inceldom or not getting conventionally attractive girls deserves to be lonely.

I used to feel for men and their “loneliness epidemic” but anymore. You guys deserve to rot alone and no woman should have to put up with you.

>>32569761
kys you self loathing faggot