Is it reasonable to date 27-30 years old girls as a 20 year old guy?
>>32565554Yes
>>32565554all else being equal, yes, i don't see why noti have a similarly wacky picture of a desk setup somewhere, but it's not on this computer
Entirely up to you. As long as you're happy with it and not breaking any laws, do whatever seems right to you.
>>32565554ooga booga, eep eep.
>>32565554Why not? You probably will be poorly judged by some people for making that choice if the age gap is noticeable, but you probably shouldn't care.
>>32565554go for itit's legali also have a thing for older mommies as someone in my early 20s
>>32565554you do you but I wouldn't recommend
>>32565554I mean if you hate yourself that much go for it
>>32566517>>32566649Elaborate please
>>32566517guys who go for younger girls are a bit shallow and want to mold girls but they still plan to have a family with them at some point, so they are thinking about a long relationshipgirls who date younger guys are usually there to have fun with them and then just leave themthere are exceptions and maybe that's just all you want out of a relationship but exceptions don't make the rule and you'd be asking about having casual sex with older women if that was all you cared about rightwomen want some maturity out of the partner they want to have a family with and men grow up waaaaaay slower compared to girls
>>32567009Women at that age have baggage and their looks will deteriorate fast. They have a ticking clock too so if they date a 20yo it’s their equivalent of a midlife crisis so keep that in mind
>>32567042>guys who go for younger girls are a bit shallowSelecting for fertility is anything but shallow, evolutionarily speaking.>men grow up waaaaaay slower compared to girlsDoesn't make sense considering women reach adulthood only about a year earlier than men.
>>32565554No but I think you should stick to hookups with them. I think that type of age gap works for relationships when you're slightly older (like 24/25 year old guy and 32/33 year old woman) but it probably wouldn't work out right now.
>>32567274look just ask anyone, men are very immature for longer than girls, I'm not making it up, it's common knowledge, it's been studied, I've seen it, I've lived itLook my first gf was 16 when I was 26. Was I thinking about her peak fertility?not really, she was hotter than most girls my age and that was the main reason I was with her, completely shallow reasonsthe fertility is an added bonus (or risk, depending on what you want) but young girls are just better looking but less prepared to take care of kids or a household in general than, say, a 22 yoI'm not telling that anon to date a 30yo, in fact I was telling him NOT to.
>>32567316>men are very immature for longer than girls>immatureOh, sorry. I get what you meant now and you're absolutely right.>Was I thinking about her peak fertility?No, we normally don't think about those factors consciously. Unconsciously you almost definitely did.>she was hotter than most girls my ageShe had a youthful appearance and this was a big part of what made her hot. Guess what youth signals and why youth is partly found to be attractive.>in fact I was telling him NOT to.And I didn't imply otherwise.
>>32565554You’re both adults and know what’s better for the born of you, I don’t understand these stupid age gap threads.
After the age of 18 or 21 depending on your country / state you are considered by the law, the government, the police and the majority of sane people as an adult.Don't listen to idiots telling you "you cant date that person".If they are legal age you can older or younger.Just as long as legal.
>>32565554No. It is unreasonable to date an older woman, ever.
>>32569164I find most of the hate is from bitter people that are jealous an man is dating a younger woman even if its only a couple of years. Or in rare cases some bitter tards jelous some celebrity females dating some guy several years younger.Its usually pathetic busy bodies with nothing better to do.
>>32565554hell yeah, smart move, make sure you have a lotta money and big muscles though
>>32565554Is it reasonable for the other way around (switching the genders)? (Girl in her 20s liking guys that are in their 30s)
>>32565554She's only 27 years old you sick fuck
>met at like 19 and 26>start dating at 22 and 28>now 24 and 30While I was attracted to my husband when we met, I definitely wouldn't have/avoided dating him at that age. It's worth noting that I am severely socially stunted due a fucked upbringing, and he has a particularly advanced emotional/social intelligence, so we line up pretty well.The closest I've gotten to grooming is teaching him how to do his tax return.
>>32565554Keep in mind OP, that a woman single at that age is single for a reason. Considering most women lose their virginities at 14-15, the women you are speaking of have had around a decade and a half to find someone, and haven't. Why? Chances are multiple guys have passed up, would be better to build something with a girl your age who isn't damaged goods, imo. And I'm not even one of those "no hymen no diamond" kind of guys.
>>32572074Hehe
