I met a beautiful woman in late October who moved into town a few months prior and have only hung out with her at bars no more than 10 times since then, checking out music and chatting as best we could.I fell head over heals for her but she doesn't like to talk or text over the phone, so our text communication is practically nonexistent. She was honest about being hesitant to pursue anything with me because I'm a musician (her previous two ex's were musicians and treated her poorly from what I gathered) which was fine, I tried not to get my hopes up.We met Sunday and she was sitting very close to me, our arms touching one another, flirting, etc. We met again last night and the body language was so much different. Further away, almost annoyed. I told her in conversation over the loud music (because I haven't been able to get her to go out with me outside of a bar with music) that I have a gnarly crush on her. She said she liked me too but that she wants to get to know me as a person and it bothers her that while she's been in the city, everyone feels fake (except for me that's why she likes me and she can tell I mean well) and every guy that talks to her is only interested in pursing her romantically or sexually. I've seen this happen in real time in front of my face. She's a stunning woman and dudes literally 5 back to back to back would interrupt us mid conversation to try to hit on her. Also happened last night too, some younger musician who I know and have known for a while basically tried to shoot his shot while I was on stage playing when it was clear as day we were there together. Bit of a tangent but just trying to illustrate just how attractive this woman is. She mentioned last night that she didn't like the pressure men put on her when they try to pursue her, I felt bad trying to hang out with her because I am in a sense one of those men. I tried to apologize to her before she left but she didn't want to have that conversation out in the cold.
>>32566706I apologized through text and got this response. I'll just post the text conversation here. 1/4
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>>325667534/4These were sent at 7am, no response which is on par for her response patters. Idk am I fucked?
>>32566760I guess what I'm asking is am I being too much being this vulnerable with her?
>>32567014She literally only wants to be friends. Your neediness nuked any minimal chance with her. You're better off just viewing her as a friend or ghosting. You should drop the oneitus. It will destroy your life in 2024
