Is it possible to get rid of a fetish? I feel disgusted and ashamed for having one. It’s just fucked up because it’s the few things that arouses me, but I also feel like a disgusting weirdo for it.
>>32566791Don't engage in it, develop healthy habits in its place
>>32566791you dont. accept it. i have vore for example. dont know why, had it all my life and even though normal sex also gets me going, vore is the biggest turnon. it impossible though and i will never tell anyone except the internet. whats yours?
>>32566876Belly stuffing. It’s ironic because fat people actually disgust me but the idea of a big belly from eating too much arouses me. I don’t have any desire to stuff myself or gain weight, or to do that to my partner. I actually prefer to stay fit and healthy. I just get excited by seeing the act itself and I fantasize about being able to rub a full belly. I’m also attracted to toned midriffs so I think I just like bellies in general? Idk. I’m a femanon attracted to men, so maybe there’s some kind of subconscious maternal caregiver aspect behind it. I mostly blame all the cartoons I watched as a kid for cursing me with this fetish. Like the Smorgasbord scene from the cartoon movie of Charlotte’s Web. I actually haven’t had much desire for it in years, but now that I’m pregnant I guess that flame was reignited. I want to get rid of my fetish because it just totally contradicts with the person I am, and I would feel the deepest shame and embarrassment if my husband or my child were to find out.
>>32567134hey OP, at least there's nothing potential serial killer flag about your fetish if you were found out. lots of ppl like bellies/pregnant>>32566876now you on the other hand
>>32567134>but now that I’m pregnant I guess that flame was reignitedat least you can pretend to be belly stuffing lmaohonestly don't give it too much power, it's just a stupid perversion, remember yourself of that
>>32566791basically this >>32566814. if you feel disgusted by it, you'll realise that you prefer to fap to other things. and then you burn off the energy that would be feeding that fetish. so it fades over time.
>>32567164Sure, it’s definitely not as weird or gross as a scat or alien egg implantation fetish, but it’s still something I feel awkward about. Especially whenever a friend or family member comments something like “I can’t eat another bite, I’m stuffed” or “I’m developing a food baby”, etc. it makes me feel awkward. Or if we’re watching a movie or show together that includes a balloon belly gag.
>>32566791First of all you shouldn't be ashed of a fetish. If it doesn't hurt anyone then there is no problem for anyone. You are also not acting on it in inappropriate situations, so please try and undersatnd that morality doesn't play a part in this.Second of all, when one tries not to think about something it usually pops up more. First of all you should avoid porn or situations that fuel your fetish, but if you are met with something that triggers those exciting thoughts you should try and let them go, intead of fantasizing about them - ackonwlege the thought and then focus on some other thing (but not on other sexual thoughts bc Pavlov).If it's really bad try to talk about it with a therapist, but in general I think you should just learn to live with being uncomfortable sometimes.
