Been with my gf for almost 2 years now, however a huge problem for me is that her sex drive is way too low for me and she literally never makes advances.She turned me down so many times already with some lame excuse, leading to me not really wanting to make advances (but still do) but she just does not start anything. I mentioned it 3 times already now after not sleeping together for like 1-2 months each of those times and I very clearly expressed that this won't do it for me (again her coming up with excuses of her being stressed or whatever).She has a nice personality and all but I literally cannot imagine being married to her and not having sex at LEAST once a week, just seems like legit hell on earth to me. Just thinking about getting cucked for like months and being stuck in a marriage is actual horror to me. I do go to the gym alot and have a high drive in general, also been with girls before that matched my drive or even exceeded it and I was definitely happier in that regard before.It is also the first time I genuinely thought about hitting a strip club with some friends of mine or just to cheat while going out because I genuinely feel like I need this. It just seems to me that we are not compatible long term.Am I just a retarded coomer for that and about to lose a nice girl ( I know how hard it is to find an actual non NPC GF) or are my worries justified?
She hates you and I can see why. Poor girl.
>>32566830Just cheat on her man, find a better one
>>32566830Just jerk off mate, the sexual arousal is only temporary. Jerk off once a day and you can still enjoy time with her if she's great in other aspects.
>>32566854I know for a fact that she genuinely loves me, but why would you think that just because I want more sex than every 1-2 Months?>>32566928Yea might be the move, 2nd year anniversary is next month so probably better to break up with her before that?>>32566940That might fix the problem for the moment but as I mentioned I cannot imagine marrying someone with such a low drive, I refuse to be some married coomer dad that has to jerk off multiple times per week because his wife has a low drive, does not seem to be the answer to me
>>32566940That just builds resentment and anger.>>32566830Seems like you should end it honestly, you tried talking and it didn't work. Nothing more you can do. Life's too short for this bullshit
>>32567075it's either gonna be "he broke up with me right before our 2nd year anniversary :((" or "he broke up with me right after our 2nd year anniversary :((" so just do it whenever.depending on how old you are i would just say to break up with her. seems like you've expressed your feelings about the issue and it hasn't been resolved
