She VERY rarely does i mean maybe once a week?? And it's driving me insane guys, she's the most attractive girl ever and I just wanna kiss her so bad but sometimes her breath smells so awful that I just can't, I'm honestly also kinda worried about oral sex stuff (to be fair i'm a bit of a clean freak but not that much). We both drink + smoke but I brush my teeth immediately after most of the time and she just doesn't care. Sometimes she reeks of beer for full days.I've tried gently asking her to brush her teeth, explained to her that I honestly just wanna enjoy kissing her and not have it ruined by bad breath, and also that it's not that pleasant when she's talking close to my face (which she does a lot). I don't talk to her about it too much though cause y'know I don't wanna be annoying and rudeOnce after I asked, she told me that she doesn't do it because the texture and taste bother her, and also that it made her gums bleed a lot. And while that must definitely be very annoying and uncomfortable, I also think that teeth and mouth health is a very important thing, all personal reasons asides. I'm sure there must be an easy and painless solution for her but even if it is I'm not sure she'd be willing to hear my suggestions and I don't wanna make her self-conscious... What should I do?
>>32567720Fuck off dental shill!
>>32567720I mean I'm no dentist but.. your gums are bleeding because you only brush your teeth once a week. Fucking ew. Nothing signals low status like poor hygiene.
>>32567720"hey (name of gf) your breath smells like cat shit, can you go brush and keep on brushing 2x per day, thanks."
>>32567720You just need to come straight out and say "Look, I'm sorry to have to be quite so blunt about this, but I don't enjoy kissing you as much on the days when you haven't brushed your teeth. Is there any chance you could do it a bit more often?"
It boggles my mind that there are human beings with access to the internet that haven't mastered the concept of brushing their teeth on a daily basis.
Do it for her
>>32568063It's more likely than you think
>>32567720you again?break up, people with dirty habits from childhood RARELY change them specially in an environment where they receive positive reinforcementunless you're an asshole about her bad breath everytime she has it, she's not going to change itand even if you act that way, she might change for a short while because of you but never take it to heart and feel forcedshe gotta be single and rejected for her bad breath by a large number of people to realize it's a problemsadly
>>32568075Women can literally not brush their teeth and still get a boyfriend, it's so fucking over. I don't stand a chance of getting a normal gf.
>>32567720start dropping subtle hintssay your dick usually stinks after she sucks your dicksay that something smells when you notice her bad breathsay that your food smells after she takes a bitesay that her water glass stinksor you know, you could just tell her
>>32568090Hot women*Uglly women with good oral hygiene still don't get shit and aren't even thought about in this equation because we aren't even seen as people. Thank you and fuck you too
>>32570243If a hot guy didn't brush his teeth there is not a single woman that would tolerate being with him.
>>32567720She might benefit from switching to a softer brush. I recommend Curaprox. But there will definitely be some bleeding for a time, it's a natural consequence of not brushing regularly. She should also start flossing, but one step at at a time.Anyway, if you've told her that it's a huge turn-off and unhealthy, and she isn't going to change, you might want to consider leaving her.
>>32571426this she probably brushes too hard with a non-soft toothbrush...ouch.
God this thread gave me PTSD from my last relationship. A few weeks in he was talking and I noticed his apartment smelled like mothballs. Then I realized it was his breath. I told him "I think you need mouthwash". He was embarrassed and immediately brushed/washed. But that just made it smell like minty shit. And for some reason I smelled it every time I saw him after that. We never kissed again, and during sex time I'd get as far away from his mouth as possible. It turned me off so much that I rarely had sex with him despite my super high libido. My attraction to him completely went away and it felt repulsive. Broke up shortly after that.
