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I’m a straight guy, not thinking about relationships right now. Competitive, driven, I lift and I’m sharp enough (125 IQ). I'm value pragmatism and I study in stem, but I also value politics, introspection, art, spirituality, and understanding emotions. This mix seems rare. Whenever I meet guys, they are either faggy, autistic, but never the mix of both that I'm looking for. For this reason, I can’t find men that I respect and things are always tense. I'm immediately left out. I'm quick enough to understand people's emotions and schemes, but always too slow to proact accordingly. What do the guys I'm looking for do for a living? I'm deeply starved for connection. Recognition is a luxury I hesitate to even mention.
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>>32567846
Yes, yes I think so. We live in a society that favors idiotization and minimizes the amount of experiences you can have and otherwise keeps you sedated

t. idiot
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>>32567846
>I'm value pragmatism and I study in stem, but I also value politics, introspection, art, spirituality, and understanding emotions. This mix seems rare. Whenever I meet guys, they are either faggy, autistic

You are just like them. They also think they are just like you.
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>>32567846
have you tried not being a fag?
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>>32567846
>understanding emotions
What is there to understand? Emotions are irrational by definition.
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>>32567876
I wish they would tolerate me
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>>32567846
Specialization makes this a disadvantage in traditional measures of success (money and women). Neither the job nor dating market care about you being well rounded and so guys only pursue it when they stop caring about those things, which is much later in life if at all.



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