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>Girl smiles at me
>I look away quickly/autistically
We see each other daily. Is there a way back from this? Or is this over?
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>>32568137
Stare her down next time you meet her to reassert your dominance and everything will be fine.
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>>32568137
women are especially sensitive to perceived rejection so don't avoid her eyes again. but yeah i think if you smile at her the next time you see her you'll be back to square one
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>>32568137
She might like you or she might be laughing at your stupid fucking face or the way you dress/walk/look
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>>32568161
Not OP
A few years ago I actually did this.
>I became even more convinced that the girl liked me.
>One day she came into my work (she was a customer at ___ fast food chain)
>I could barely talk and I'm pretty sure I half fuck up her order / don't give her the drinking cups
>Rest of the shift she is there talking with her friends till we close the lobby
>LITERALLY CAN'T FOCUS ON ANYTHING
am constantly thinking of getting in her line of sight so she notices me
>Her friend group is laughing at something (probably unrelated)
>Realize that I'm dressed like a fag and am covered in pimples
>Go home in shame
>Never talk to her again
>later on I get the same class with her in school
>my friends start bullying her and her friend group
>I just sit back and laugh nervously when they target her
I'm probably 100x worse than OP on the autism scale
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>>32569577
wow that is sad. she probably thought you hated her lol
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>>32569638
> probably thought you hated her lol
I think so.
It was literally the perfect woman in my mind (still is as it's only a couple years later)
Have not seen her since.
I think there's something wrong with me, I've tried smiling at them etc.
But I can never muster up the confidence to go talk to them.
I can't even think about a conversation starter that won't make me come off as a creep.
I feel like I've somehow missed the memo on talking to people that I find interesting / attractive.

I was like 80% sure that she liked me back too.
I remember one time when I was fucking around trying to be funny in class she was one of the only people giggling at what I was doing.
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>>32568137
How do you know her?
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>>32569577
This is really fucking sad, breaking from society to defend someone is har
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>>32572529
Hard*
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>>32568137
Just smile at her next time you see her retard.



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