hello i know it's not becoming of an adult man or anything but i got my first job at 32 and it's very stressful and i want to be proud of myself so i am working hard and doing the best I've ever donei was super spergo as a kid and i overcame it all except when i am stressed all day i do have to stim for a few seconds once in a while. i get a feeling literally preventing me from doing anything else unless i hum and wiggle my fingers and rub my earlobes back and forth rapidlymy CO workers are all much younger because it's a shit wagie job and asked if i was retarded or somethingi don't know how work works but how do i get them all fired? there's some one i go to that has to let them go for violating the Americans with nonneurotypical tendencies act or something, right?
>>32569994Take a toilet break, go sit in a stall and play with your earlobes in private, and then get back to work.
>>32569994> Americans with nonneurotypical tendencies actIs that real or did you make it up?
>>32569994First off, I want to congratulate you for getting your act together and being able to get out there in society as a non-nerotypical person and get a job. It takes a lot of grit and strength to be able to cope with the stress that comes with social interaction and job responsibility. So congratulations.That being said, try to be the bigger person here. Look at these young kids is what they are. Young juvenile kids. They're working the same job that you are so they're not exactly in a place to criticize you. Everyone develops at a different pace and you are struggling or were struggling with many things that they weren't. Congratulations. Look at yourself as the bigger person because you are. You were able to overcome what was holding you back and engage in society and get a job while these children are still stuck in the mindset of not improving themselves like you did and instead are trying to tear you down. Don't let them. If they persist with insults, then I would recommend talking to your boss, but I would say you're concerned gently. Say that you're trying very hard and keeping to yourself, and yet they relentlessly insult you, and it's making your performance suffer.Good luck, man.
