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Im the offspring of a set of parents who have shit personalities and are borderline sociopaths and narcissistic. Frankly I believe they don’t even love each other. I wanna just not be like them. I hate that I am like them at times and frankly wish I wasn’t even their child. Can you fix your own personality despite it being a result of poor parenting, genetics , ect.
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>>32570246
>Can someone overcome having a shit personality if both parents have shit personalities?
Yes. Stop wasting time blaming your parents (no matter how right you are) and start working on being a better person.
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>>32570248
this
personality isn't genetic.
If you can articulate a question like this then you are old enough to control your environment in ways that do not force your personality to be a certain way.

THAT CHILD IS UGLY! I HATE SEEING HIM EVERYWHERE. I WANT TO STOMP ON HIS HEAD! STUPID FUCKING CHILD, WHY ARE HIS CHEEKS SWOLLEN LIKE HE HAS A BEE STING? HE LOOKS SO INCREDIBLY FUCKED UP AND UGLY! IT IS NOT CUTE! HE NEEDS TO BE KILLED ASAP. THE CHILD MUST HAVE NIGGER GENES OR BE SOME SORT OF MUTT IF HE LOOKS LIKE THAT!
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>>32570246
You can blame them. Mine are retarded so I did the exact opposite and I have money. I do have a shit personality though. I was not focused on that part.
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Certainly can
look up the 12 steps
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>>32570262
>personality isn't genetic.

Genetics have a massive weight in it, just not the only weight. He can work on himself, but No need to lie.
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>>32570246
there's a neuroscientist who found out he was a psychopath technically

https://www.smithsonianmag.com/science-nature/the-neuroscientist-who-discovered-he-was-a-psychopath-180947814/

he has issues with empathy but doesn't kill people, because he had a regular life outside of that

there are people who get addicted to opiates and not steal to get more when they start to withdraw, because their natural tendencies towards neuroticism and conscientiousness would make the humiliation of being a known addict thief feel worse than dopesickness

there are people with crippling comorbidity at the intersection of social anxiety and autism who stop eating dino chicken nuggies everyday and adjust to not overloading carbs and are able to hold jobs

there are all sorts of negative personality tendencies you can be born with. the sort of lifestyle that you give yourself can turn a behavior that will get you shot in the hood to something that's never an issue when you have a stable routine and take care of diet and exercise

a gene that gets expressed as a less desirable personality tendency doesn't guarantee a particular outcome in life because epigenetics and environments are both confounding variables



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