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Anonymous
01/09/25(Thu)06:49:32 No.32570582

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Anonymous 01/09/25(Thu)06:49:32 No.32570582

>The step dad of my childhood best friend passed away two years ago .
>He went down a path of drugs, crystals, as far as I know.
>His cousin knows ,
> one time his plug told me he didn't want to sell to him anymore and wanted to give me the number of the plug of the plug.
I spoke to his mother today , as he just went home, because he felt sick and we happened to travel on the same bus with his mom.I told her I was concerned about him and I hinted that I know something she might not (that there's drugs involved) .He's been on sleeping pills for the last couple of months , since one day he just said he felt like he was dying and that there was liquid in his head.
She straight up asked me whether he's on drugs, but I couldn't do it.
>1)We're not as close anymore
>2)I thought things might get too sour for me and for HIM as well parents relationship wise
>3)He lies about everything, he might lie his way even out of this one.
I am not sure what to do.I want to help him, but I don't know if by telling his folks, I'll make his situation worse.
What to do?

Anonymous
01/09/25(Thu)08:39:36 No.32570880

Anonymous 01/09/25(Thu)08:39:36 No.32570880

>>32570582
bump

Anonymous
01/09/25(Thu)10:27:20 No.32571236

Anonymous 01/09/25(Thu)10:27:20 No.32571236

>>32570582
Tell his folks.

He made his situation worse, not you.
Let him lie as much as he wants.

Anonymous
01/09/25(Thu)12:32:24 No.32571698

Anonymous 01/09/25(Thu)12:32:24 No.32571698

>>32571236
as this thread is anonymous, I can honestly admit , that I don't want to seem like the bad guy .It might be my ego talking?
Also, his mom is wayyy to busy with taking care of his younger half-brother by working two jobs, I guess that's the reason why she hasn't noticed the obvious signs so far.
And is it my job to take care in their family affairs?Is it worth it to be hated , for my whistleblower activities in the aftermath?

Anonymous
01/09/25(Thu)19:40:03 No.32573384

Anonymous 01/09/25(Thu)19:40:03 No.32573384

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>>32570582
Wait what the actual fuck are you saying in your post? You want to tell your dead drug addicted friends stepdad's mom about his drug use? And you want to help him but your worried about him (your dead drug addicted friends stepdad) lying to his mom about his addiction, or ruining the relationship?

Nigger I spend like 10 minutes trying to understand this post. All my advice energy has been spent sifting through your retardation.

Anonymous
01/10/25(Fri)00:39:10 No.32574432

Anonymous 01/10/25(Fri)00:39:10 No.32574432

>>32573384
my friend is addicted, his stepdad passed away a couple of years ago

Anonymous
01/10/25(Fri)00:40:19 No.32574438

Anonymous 01/10/25(Fri)00:40:19 No.32574438

>>32573384
yes, I believe you understood me correctly

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