Alright, I know for like 99% of humans, this isn't really feasible. We're social creatures, and what not. Plus, most people are genuinely capable of moving past whatever issues they're suffering from in the short term. But take the select few cases where some of us just fail time and again to connect with people on a meaningful level. I can't help but think... it's time to throw in the towel. Maybe don't become a complete shut in, but just do the bare minimum needed to function in society?
>>32580142Don't give up anon!You just aren't mixing with the right crowd.The way you are thinking now is just cope. You don't really want to be alone but you can't stand to be around the people you know.
>>32580142Some people are introverts
>>32580142I have some good friends but women are completely spiritually draining, without exception.
I wither in connection. I tried, I really have. My best is not good enough to make it not hurt. So I stay away.
I was worried about not having connections so I decided I want to be a music teacher, teach dumb kids and interact with other people in my profession with the music educator association.
>>32580142I think it is fine for some of us to take society in very small doses. Doing the bare minimum needed to function in society is basically what I do. I enjoy being alone most of the time. Occasionally, it is good to have some social connection. But for some people, they just don't need to guzzle at the social interaction trough on a daily basis the way most people need to. And that's ok.
>>32581086Pic related is true
>>32580142OP i really dont want to be but im so tired of people latelyespecially, i dont know, it feels like everyone i used to know includinng everyone i tried to be friends with last year is just a wash, worthless, empty, ive been terrorized by this bullshit for years and im justimim so tired
The people who shouldn't be in relationships ie BPD and Sociopaths will always be in relationships. I've thought the same thing you've said about myself but really it's just cope for me repressing my sexuality cuz I'm too much of a bitch to approach women.>>32581086I like being alone but after a few years it gets lame. That pic looks like it was made by some twitter chick that gets dicked down every weekend. Not that there is anything wrong with that but a real recluse has more... fringe interests.
>>32581086I would get tired of not being alone way quicker
>>32580822>You just aren't mixing with the right crowd.I don't know man, it just seems like it's not meant to be. Not too long ago, I thought I found my cliche, but it doesn't seem like it's working out with those fellows either. It's not even that they're bad people or anything, I'm just too far removed from how those people think or feel. For instance, whenever they talk about their adolescence or school years in general, they seem so elated about those times. They even talk about how many close, lifelong friends they've made from those times. Meanwhile, I'm just sitting there thinking "Yeah, that seems nice". I just feel like some alien that shouldn't even be around them.>Is just copeYou could be right, I'm no stranger to being delusional.
>>32582555Are you gong to put yourself out there? Are you still in a self loathing phase.
>>32581566Is that fulfilling for you? Idk, becoming a teacher isn't what comes to mind when it comes to foraging for relationships.
>>32580142https://youtu.be/lqZehFAwoTM?t=32It's over as soon as you turn 18 and leave the school system without a well established social circle. You go to work, but you won't make any friends, just coworkers. You join a sports club, same deal. It's over, because everyone already has their social circles locked in since childhood. You'll be nothing more than a coworker, destined to be alone for life. Social life and relationships are like trains you have to catch at the quay, a race against time that takes place during adolescence. And by extension, logically of course, no social life and no women.But normies don't understand this because they are clueless normies who think you can walk into a bar full of strangers and magically form a social life like in The Sims. Only women can start from scratch and create a social life and get a boyfriend from scratch because of their status as women.Whether you're lonely or not it doesn't change anything, maybe for the normies, but for you and me Chud, a year is like any other, the sands of time flowing towards nothingness, nothing less.. nothing more.
>>32584763It hurts, because I was none the wiser of this back when I was a kid.
>>32581383Well... you have friends for companionship, so go to a prostitute to let out sexual frustration?
>>32584763stop dragging other people into your selfpity abyss you piece of shit faggot crab in the bucket cunt there are other alone people as well, they are not all coworker normies who have their social circle formed there are other lonely people that a lonely anon can meet its far from overyou fucking shit
>>32584763I wish you incels were right about life being that much easier for women socially. I’m struggling out here:(
personally, my main issue is that i simply have no interests that i can really talk to people about, especially not IRL. i do a bunch of very autistic academic stuff for work and i sorta enjoy that, but there's like 5 other people on this planet that are sufficiently deep into my niche that they get what i'm doing, and it's all other autistic guys who don't really seem to be interested in non-work social activities (not to mention that they all live far away). i couldn't even talk about it here because that would just directly dox me.i don't really do anything else. i come home from work, scroll through social media, catch up on the news, jack off, do chores around my flat. on saturdays i'm usually too exhausted to do anything else other than my usual routine and on sundays i sometimes go for a pointless lonely walk while wondering how all those other people that are out and about are coping with their pointless existence and otherwise just do the same stuff i usually do. it has been this way for many years and there's no real point to my existence other than work.in general, i don't really find talking to people difficult and even enjoy it if the other party is interested in the conversation, but there's just nothing i care about to talk about. i've lost all past interests i used to have and now just find them boring and stale (e.g. music, vidya, sailing, playing guitar, photography, bike trips, hiking, swimming). i can't think of any activity that sparks an interest in me, either. so at this point, i've just given up on social interactions entirely (other than the occasional anonymous post into the void).>>32587231i think it depends on the source of your loneliness. for incels, a lot of it is about a lack of desire or people being repulsed by them by default, so obviously their view will be that since women are less likely to suffer from this, they won't struggle like they do. but obviously there are other sources of loneliness that also affect women.
>>32587213Ironically enough, that shit never works. Because surprise, surprise, people with a lot of emotional baggage just aren't fun to be around no matter what.
>>32587231Try not to be a born ugly next life you fucking worthless bitch.
>>32589562Has anyone told you that you’re not a good person?
>>32587231>>32587310well one things for sure its not physical as most incels think and are insecure abouttheir problem is in the head, social skills, not just going out and relaxing and talking to peopleif it was physical (muh chads and shit) we wouldnt be looking at disgusting ugly people all around us hooking up, marrying and making kidsthis fact is what incels and /pol/cels are unable to answer and are running away from it because they want to believe its only and always about the looks because that way they can just give up and not have to try and blame everything on genetics, when in reality its not the looks, its the brain
>>32580142I think one always needs to ask themselves, particularly at folked decisions, >> what value do I provide the world. >> What do I produceIn either of the scenarios. Because if you aren't providing value, and you aren't producing anything, then you are just a burden on the world. Not just human society, the planet as a whole. You're just taking. If you just lock yourself away from the world, what value do you provide? And if you provide none why should you continue to exist? If you just want to be away from everyone, why is hermet an option for you but roping isn't? And if you don't want to rope, why can't you provide value to earn your way in the world?
>>32589639fucking kys you fucking soulless corpo manager
>>32587213>seething normgroidThanks for confirming everything
>>32589644Did you just do a "I know you are but what am I" with suicide? lol.
>>32589639Wageslaving is entirely independent of forging relationships with other people. Hell, many people end up rich business guys but still have jackshit in terms of close connections.
>>32580142You can stretch the concept of meaningful social connection pretty far. Just reading 4chan posts is enough for me. I also won't get into a relationship with a woman unless she's hot. No point in having a bunch of average looking or worse kids and bringing stress into my life when I could just play video games in peace and have enough money to always eat good food.
>>32589639why does the world deserve my value? why should i produce anything for a world that denies me anything I want.i am happy to take anything and everything, giving nothing back. that is what the world and society have earned from me.
>>32589650only in your schizo mind did I confirm anythingthanks for being a miserable defeatist crab in the bucket tho
>>32580142I feel youI have no desire to have friends except for maybe like 3 times a year where I get lonely. As soon as I do something to fix that loneliness I want nothing to do with other people again. I don't think I actually like them.
>>32589639He didn't say he didn't have a job. A hermit can create value by making good compost wtf you on about.What value does casual friendship bring to society?
>>32583337> I just feel like some alien that shouldn't even be around them.Just because you had a different story doesn't mean you can't be around them. You're the odd one of the group, but if people care for you, it's all that matters.
>>32580142>Are some people better off alone?Yeah I am> some of us just fail time and again to connect with people on a meaningful level.Why do you continue to try and why do you continue to desire connection if it's not successful?Well, whatever that reason is, if you haven't simply opted to be satisfied while alone, you must want to be with others, and you probably aren't better off alone.
>>32589915He's clearly a guy who's made the 9 to 5 his way of life.
>>32589994I just can't believe they can see me as an equal or genuinely like me as a person. I basically have convinced my self anything they do or say concerning me is done out of pity. I know it's crazy, but this is what my feelings have culminated into.
>>32580142I am with you, if so many people are to fall for this Jew psyops, they should end their bloodline. The great reset is inevitable and this is one of the actual fair and square ways to control the population. It is much better than mosquitos drugging us against our will. I think people who can’t get married should get the better tax break.
>>32580142Nah it's like kinda fun to play games and eat things with people if you can
I am better off alone around dogs than humans. Perhaps you haven’t found the right species.
>>32593727That's some low esteem right there. Maybe you need some therapy, or doing things that uplift you, make you feel more confident. I have felt an outcast since childhood, doesn't mean I feel bad around people, I just stick to the people I like. Even simple interactions can be enough, they don't have to love me deeply, just acknowledge me is fine.I get invited to parties and get-togethers, so I guess I'm doing well. You don't have to be as interactive as everyone else at such events, just some interaction is fine.
>>32589718You aren't providing your value to the world. You're giving value to society to eatn your place in it. When you do not, you are a parasitic leech and we can deprive you of food, water, shelter and life. No one owes you anything. You owe society everything. When you take neetbux, you are the biggest slave possible. If you serve no benefit, you shouldn't be here.
>>32589915A hermit by definition does not interact with others, ever. Thusly they cannot have jobs. >> A hermit is a person who lives in seclusion, alone and isolated from societyTo be a hermit, you cannot have the internet for example. You cannot have town water, sewage or rubbish disposal services. OP talked about being a hermit in the woods. A self made shack in the mkddle of nowhere. Like the una bomber. I'm saying he should skip that and just rope instead.
>>32594189It literally says >maybe don't become a complete shut inIn the OP.
>>32580142oh my god its the tenth doctor
>>32580142Just develop some tact in polite refusals for your scheduled "you time" where you are alone and just recharge and relax every couple of weeks.
>>32595670How can anyone bother to know all this?
>>32589639Why is value valuable?
>>32594189>A hermit by definition does not interact with others, ever.But that's wrong you fucking idiot.
aight i waited a while on this and i must say my opinion hasnt changed, safe and alone is better than surrounded and unsafe
