>>32584399
>asking
she is essentially your property so just dive in like a starved beast
You may need to program her first

>>32584409
"Asking" is just being polite. I get what you are saying though. I am just tired of initiating 100% of the time. Sometimes I just want her to show some skin or do something risque. Touch me sensually or make an innuendo here and there. She says she does not think about sex outside of having it. But I have brought this up more than once. Why can't she just do it?

>>32584399
>>32584423
Time to bring up consensual non-monogamy. No point in trying to only sleep with a person who doesn't want it from you, or at all.

>>32584399
>I don't know how to react without blowing a gasket, so I just sweep my irritation under the rug and find myself resenting her throughout the day.
Open your mouth and communicate your feelings to your wife, OP. If you really needed someone to tell you that the best way to resolve issues in a marriage is to communicate with your partner then you truly are fucked. Stop bringing your problems with your wife to virgin autists on the internet. Bring your problems with your wife to your wife. Jesus.

>>32584434
Not an option. This would basically mean instant divorce.

>>32584446
I bring it up after I cool down for a while. I never go more than 24 hours without having it addressed.

>>32584423
She will need to be programmed
Memory is incredibly fallible but routine is a little more sticky
She will need to have a serious and traumatic mental breakdown that can only be seen as her own fault, especially by authorities. During this time you need to do the work of presenting yourself as something you know your wife wouldn't resist and mold her recovery around this that she remembers you always being so desirable

>>32584399
Work out, make more money, go out with other women

>>32584399
She's cheating on you either emotionally or full on physically.

>>32584399
Next time ask, but take a picture of the face.

Then show her that picture when she expects anything from you.

I dont understand how this happens. This kind of thing should be resolved by the third date. Did you not have sex until after you got married? Did you bother to ask you ask why she dislikes physical contact?

It could simply be that she doesnt like way you are touching her. Maybe she was a victim. Maybe she thinks every time you touch her it leads to sex and she doesnt want to. Based on your post it sounds like you think her body belongs to you, she senses that and is turned off. You need to talk to her. Not retards on here

>>32584409
This is rape

>>32584492
Are you 8 years old?

>>32584451
>I never go more than 24 hours without having it addressed.
Jesus Christ dude. No wonder she hates it. It's no longer about the sex for her, it's about your constantly being a pain about one issue. Drop it for a while. Lay off on those sort of physical advances for a few weeks. After a few weeks have a mature, give-and-take discussion with her about the issue, say how much it means to you and ask if there's anything you can do for her in return. Maybe even ask about the broader state of your marriage.

>It fills me with rage, but I don't know how to react without blowing a gasket, so I just sweep my irritation under the rug and find myself resenting her throughout the day.
Don't let it leak out in other ways anon. It'll sour your marriage.

It might also be that you're no longer attractive to her on some level. Are you the leader in your group of friends? Are you sufficiently dominant compared to other men? Try to up your Chad game. Supermodels and MMA fighters rarely have your problem.

>>32584399
Have you tried beating her?

>>32584447
Then she either agrees to marriage counselling or you agree to a sexless marriage.

>>32584597
No if there is a problem I bring it up. Not going to bottle shit up forever.

I also don't think I need to be a prime model or MMA fighter to attract my 30 year old wife who already told me she thought I was out of her league when we met.

>>32584578
We fucked within 3 hours of meeting eachother. We were in a relationship for 3 years and had sex all the time. 6 months after the wedding she started acting suddenly prudish about sex in general, even talking about it made her act shy. It's not just me, because she now becomes visibily upset at sex scenes in movies when she didn't before. I have no idea what the fuck happened. There is no explanation for this behavior.

>>32584640
Genuine reason: you don't have kids. In nature she'd be pregnant by now. The fact she isn't pregnant, by natural standards, could only mean infertility (the subconscious doesn't factor in birth control). And consciously she has no reason to have sex for material gain, since she has half of your stuff after the marriage. So from every perspective this relationship is failing. If you do not get her pregnant very soon she will cheat on you and you will be raising another man's child. Because her material needs are met but not her biological needs.

That's it really: get her pregnant or leave her.

>>32584640
There has to be an explanation you just dont know it yet. If it was a sudden change something definitely happened and you should talk to her about this. Hope its something that can be resolved but I wouldnt expect it to be quick

>>32584399
Don't go straight for sex. Go for hugs. If in the course of a hug you happen to cop a feel, it will seem more loving than crass

>>32584706
>My wife scrunches up her face whenever I ask for any kind of sexual/intimate/sensual physical touch or connection outside of sex.
Did you not read OP's post? Even when just looking for nonsexual intimacy, she rejects.

OP, you have to do three things:

>better yourself physically and mentally. think about how you want to be if/when you enter the dating scene and strive for it
>ask her to go to marriage counseling. if she says no, go alone and let her know you are going. it will help you figure out how to change the situation, live with the situation or leave the situation
>if she gives you the "you only think about/want sex" line, explain what you want is a "loving, intimate, sexual relationship" with her, and that you promised monogamy but not chastity.

>>32584399
>this is what normies are telling you that you are missing out on
Most of them are in loveless marriages like that. Pathetic

>>32584640
>t's not just me, because she now becomes visibily upset at sex scenes in movies when she didn't before. I have no idea what the fuck happened. There is no explanation for this behavior.
I'm going to guess that sex scenes trigger her because she knows sex (or lack thereof) is an issue between the two of you, and watching one with you brings that issue up.

>>32584578
It's not rape if you're married.

>>32584777
Oh yes it is

>>32584796
How is that rape?

>>32584798
>how is it rape to force myself on someone who doesnt want me
Figure it out, chimp

>>32584807
??
Half the whole point of marriage is that you're consenting to be together for life

>>32584399
How are you, physically? Are you weak/skinny/not muscular/fat? Hit the gym and workout. Wammin universally respect men more when they're strong and fit, even if they're unattractive. Plus it makes you more attractive. Also, lose weight if you're fat, because nobody wants to sleep with a fat person.

>>32584871
>half the point of marriage is that her body is mine to do as I please

Be sure to mention this at the alter in front of both of your families at your wedding

>>32584597
>I never go more than 24 hours without having it addressed.
>No if there is a problem I bring it up. Not going to bottle shit up forever.
You bringing it up every single fucking day is what MAKES it a problem you retard. You're constantly badgering your wife about something, so she's come to resent you for it. It's no longer about sex, it's about you being a pushy jackass.

>I also don't think I need to be a prime model or MMA fighter to attract my 30 year old wife who already told me she thought I was out of her league when we met.
Maybe she doesn't feel that way any more. Get in better shape and be more socially dominant to cover your bases.

>>32584399
It's over. You cannot negotiate attraction. You're just roommates at this point

>>32584399
Women don't like this shit and think you're a faggot for wanting it.

>>32584399
She's not attracted to you and has little respect for you. She'd let a more attractive man fuck her brains out. You need to leave or work out some way you can fuck someone else with her permission.

>>32584399
L wife.
Why'd you marry her if getting you horny and getting you satisfied wasn't something she enjoyed, though?

>>32584640
Oh.
Not your fault then sorry. Divorce time

>>32584777
>marital rape is not rape
found the indian

>>32588367
Why is there so much racism on this board lately?

>>32584399
ignore the retard foid ITT trying to make you feel bad for having sexual needs.
understand that part of monogamy is that you are dependent on this one single person for all your sexual needs for life, that's part of the deal. if she's not holding up her end of the deal then the contract is void.
tell her to get her shit together and do her job or ditch her.

>>32588795
good morning saar

>>32588124
>Why'd you marry her if getting you horny and getting you satisfied wasn't something she enjoyed, though?
OP didn't say this, so this might not be the case, but a lot of the time, the wife begins to withhold sex after marriage

>>32588126
>>32588860
>>32590034
You guys are missing the part where OP said he badgers his wife for sex on a daily basis >>32584451 >>32584633

If somebody bothered me for ANYTHING on a daily basis, I'd want to withhold it from them just for being a clingy little shit. Women will feel the same way. The harder OP pushes, the more his wife will dig her heels in.

>>32588795
SAAR PLZ NO BOBS N VAGENE

>>32591895
Seems more like the other way around. Sex is 90% of a relationship when it's bad. Sex is 10% of a relationship when it is good. Complaining exists because there is something to complain about. That is the root issue. Stop white knighting prude bait and switch behavior.

>>32592147
You don't understand human beings anon. You can talk about the way a marriage "should" be all day long, but you're just being tone deaf if you expect
>WHY AREN'T WE HAVING SEX?
>WHY AREN'T WE HAVING SEX?
>WHY AREN'T WE HAVING SEX?
>WHY AREN'T WE HAVING SEX?
To work

>>32584423
>>32584399
is she over the age of 30? Women lose their sex drives over time, I recommend only dating 18-24 year olds if you want horny women who actually want to have sex and not out of duty

>>32584640
>It's not just me, because she now becomes visibily upset at sex scenes in movies when she didn't before. I have no idea what the fuck happened.
another victim of woke culture

>>32584399
Watch this in full, it’s concise and practical
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>>32591895
>he badgers his wife for sex on a daily basis
Thays why I said this >>32587230
>It's over. You cannot negotiate attraction. You're just roommates at this point
If you have to talk about it, it's already over. Badgering her over it? It's beyond over

>>32584399
I'm sorry to hear about that anon. Unless you have problems regulating your emotions and feel like you'll go primal rage mode if you open up about something this serious, then why not just tell her how it makes you feel? A relationship is a meaningful bond and if you and your partner are mature then there should be no problem discussing it.