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I'm in my final year and i've basically been doing absolutely shit the entire time, partially because i'm dumb but also because I just don't give a shit.

I'll be a 24yo incel this year, I did my 6 month internship last year and even thinking about going back into le office makes me want to kill myself.
I think I want to become a bartender instead and SEAmaxx every few months while living with my parents, I want something social to unautism me and my gay tech degree won't help me with that.

Should I try my best in this last semester or just drop out?
I completely bombed the last semester, didn't even bother doing some easy assignments to watch porn and play video games instead.
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>>32587344
Just finish it. A degree is a useful thing to have
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>>32587344
Jeez lol don't drop out so late into it, it's just a semester xd I'm also in my last semester starting feb high five
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>>32587344
Hmm I can't pretend that I don't know how you feel. It seems that you are giving up at life. Don't do that. I am technically in a similar situation as you but my outlook is more optimistic because I have recently regained some ambition. Like if the goal of life is to be happy we really need to collect two things
1. Respect (from ourselves and others)
2. Money (= freedom)
Also watch this short motivational video
https://youtu.be/SJ2d1GVPHCc
Plus, some personal advice, throw yourself into social situations and let your instincts do their thing, it has turned me into a much less anxious person at parties
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just finish the last semester dude. at this point its too late to drop out. even if you dont go into the same field and end up as a bartender , having a degree makes you seem at least a little more competent.
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>>32587344
You're too far in to drop out, just finish and get the degree. Try to cut down on porn because it kills motivation.
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>>32587392
I will be 24 in a few months, not sure I care since my “best” years are already behind me, I got a taste of what it’s like to be an office drone and doing that mind-numbing shit for a shit salary anyway to just come home to my parents’ basement doesn’t sound good to me.

>>32587410
Yeah maybe. I already have one failed module from last year I need to repeat. I’m sure my fails will pile up this year too. I dread for my results to come out.
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>>32587424
sunk cost fallacy claims another victim
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>>32587431
>I will be 24 in a few months
>my “best” years are already behind me
Kek
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>>32587498
yeah okay
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>>32587466
Better than to be a learned helplessness victim like OP. Listen OP, research shows that learned helplessness is the default state of the brain, meaning that you have been feeling like it's joever since the day you were born. Seriously, don't give up on life. Don't give up on the chase for money, respect and a social life. You're depressed right now but you're gonna want these things eventually. The only way to start doing things, is to start doing things
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>>32587510
he's not talking about missing social developmental milestones retard

if you're normie it's great to be that successful homeowner in his 40s
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>>32587526
No it isn’t lmao, go look at what 40yo men’s lives are actually like.
Theyre fat bastards with fat wrinkly wives raising NPC sons and whore daughters. Life ends at 25 - 30.
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>>32587544
then kill yourself at 30, problem solved
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>>32587544
You really need some role models in your life because you're supposed to try and do better than the men that you don't respect. Stop spreading this doomer shit, this board is full of it already anyway
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>>32587518
OP has already mastered helplessness, there's no reason to run up the tab. If you're already determined to be a failure, you can at least fail as quickly and inexpensively as possible.
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>>32587344
U
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>>32587564
Flunking out during your last semester is more expensive than finishing it because you dont get the degree in return

You just want other people to be losers because you are a loser
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>>32588997
The degree itself is worthless though, and OP has already indicated that there's no way he'll actually get the degree as he keeps bombing his classes.
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>>32589875
I will get it if I want to, it’ll just be with barely passing grades so pretty worthless probably.
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>>32587344
I gave up on life in my early 20's but one day it'll catch up to you. Now I'm in my mid 30's trying to get a shitty trch degree. So no, dont quit, I'm you in 10 years if you quit and I can tell you its absolute hell. Just finish the degree then you can go horse around if you wish but finish the degree for the love of fuck.

Also youre delusional if you think bartender work is nothing short of hell, it kills your back and arms, people humiliate you and scream at you, and get payed peanuts. And no, women wont fuck you as a bartender unless youre chad. In your tech job at least you have air-conditioning and get payed a decent amount compared to a fucking bartender and can actually have adult money for prostitutes blow and your SEA escapades. Just grin and bare it, youre almost there
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>>32590714
>Also youre delusional if you think bartender work is nothing short of hell, it kills your back and arms, people humiliate you and scream at you, and get payed peanuts. And no, women wont fuck you as a bartender unless youre chad. In your tech job at least you have air-conditioning and get payed a decent amount compared to a fucking bartender and can actually have adult money for prostitutes blow and your SEA escapades. Just grin and bare it, youre almost there

Depends where you work as a bartender. Some super busy college club? probably not a good idea. A somewhat lively but not overcrowded bar? Looks fun honestly.

I don't care about air conditioning, or my gay morning coffees or talking to HR roasties about their hiking weekends or sitting down for gay little meetings with a bunch of fat STEM autists.
Any "man" that works in an office should have a mandatory vasectomy.

Also my starting salary would be 34,500 euro, 40,000 after a year which is peanuts anyway. I live with my parents and no matter what job I get won't allow me to move out, so who fucking cares honestly?
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>>32590714
>youre almost there
I'm almost at the point where I finished a worthless degree that will get me a worthless gay woman job.
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>>32587431
You just did the meme.
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>>32591176
except i'll be 24 in 3 months. Holy shit wtf... 3 months?? It was just my birthday..
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>>32587344
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>>32591869
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>>32595757
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>>32587344
Nigga just finish it. You are in the home stretch - it isn't that hard to just commit to it and then take a break after you have finished.
You can do anything you want afterwards - but the best thing to do is to just finish the fucking thing.
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>>32600021
I know but I already basically wasted 4 years there. Isn't that the definition of sunk costs? I just want to start working. But yeah I guess I only have 12 weeks of it left.
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>>32600054
>Isn't that the definition of sunk costs?
NIGGA YOU SUNK THOSE YEARS ALREADY - IF YOU LEAVE NOW YOU HAVE WASTED 4 YEARS WITH NOTHING TO SHOW FOR IT
>I just want to start working
FINISH THE FUCKING DEGREE AND USE IT TO GET A JOB YOU FUCKING RETARD
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>>32600604
>FINISH THE FUCKING DEGREE AND USE IT TO GET A JOB YOU FUCKING RETARD
any job I get won't be related to the degree.



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