Im 32, white, US, virgin. im just barely under 5x5 on my best hardest boner AND to make it worse, a grower, so i start around 1 soft no lie, i can push it in have no dick for a bit. part of why i've held off pursuing sex is that. im attractive in other ways, but even if a lady is interested in me, i'd hold off because i know it's only going to be disappointing once we get that far (im tall too, she expects more) and thatd cause more problems that i cant fix. And i dont even bother with hookups, it has to be a girl i trust not to laugh and blab to everyone.So I've had 4 gfs throughout my life, im still a virgin even though there was 1 that we've had all sorts of foreplay and slept together naked. When i break up i dont talk to them ever again and i barely have friends or social media so they dont talk to them either far as i knowNow, the stats say a little over 5 inch is average/acceptable, and the last gf i had said i was fine and made her cum (through clothes on humping), but i've never in my whole time online and at the gym seen another grown man with less than ~6, let alone guys with gfs, and even homemade amateur porn is all guys where it takes two hands and hits their bellybutton so thats prob 8 or higher. Absolute losers and scumbags have gfs, and I usually guess its because they're packing, either money or wallet.OH and the cherry on top of my cursed genes, my tongue is small too. I dont think im totally tonguetied, i can stick my tongue out a bit, but it hurt/bled last gf I had trying to french kiss her. I dont know if i can eat pussy if i tried.I feel all this effects me more than just sexually, it plays into the back of my mind on anything in my life, like comparing myself to other guys or feeling less deserving of something, and instead i just coast through not really trying because i never had a chance anyway. I could fake confidence but at the end when it really matters i cant deliver. now make me feel better or tell me to kill myself plz
I'm 6'4" with a 7" so grower and in largely the same position as you. The things you think matter aren't what really matter.
>>32587731how are you... largely... in the same position as me?
>>32587495What did the girlfriend who has seen you naked think about your penis?
>>32587495Same
>>32587495I’m 5.5 inches x 5 without any bone pressed bullshit and I’ve fucked 50 girls. It’s about your looks and having a fun social life. Your dick dimensions aren’t dangerous.
>>32587495You need to relax, your stats are fine. You even had a gf and she didnt complain even after you broke up or you would have mentioned it. I am smaller, shorter, and browner than you and I only ever had trouble getting girls when I was in my head like you are right now. Porn is largely made for MEN that’s why it’s largely men obsessing over cock size. What you see in porn isnt real life. Most couples are hot enough to make it in porn in the first placrAlso eating pussy isnt about sticking your tongue deep lol. You’re supposed to tease the outside and the clit in a way that that a penis cant. Most of the nerves are on the clit which is on the outside part of the vagina anyways. Quit getting in your own way, you will be alright
>>32588554she said it was fine but also she was a small asian girl and treated me like garbage most other times. even slapped me for little things like because i was late to pick her up sometimes. her friends would always tell her she could do better than me. and i put up with it cuz i loved her. i ended up breaking up with her because she got too bitchy>>32588622if she complained i wouldnt know because i cut her out of my life and didnt check in after that>>32588595so that means you've gotten laid by a bunch of randoms, but did they like it? did they make fun of you, tell their friends etc?
>>32587495>the last gf i had said i was fine and made her cum (through clothes on humping)Really? She must have been lying. Sorry anon.
>>32591516i felt her getting soaked and she was all shaking and stuff though, i dont think she faked that.
>>32587495That sucks dude. Honestly I think it's largely the same phenomenon as teenage girls getting depressed because they spend so much time staring at Instagram models and can't measure up. Ironically, those girls don't realize most guys' standards aren't that high, and most of us don't browse IG models anyways. Likewise most women aren't as picky as we make them out to be, and most of them aren't spending hours looking at dicks in 'amateur porn.' But the anxiety is understandable. 'Success' in most modern domains of life has largely been redefined as meeting the bare minimum of adequacy. 'Freedom' and 'individuality' just means you start at 0 and have to build your own sub-civilization for survival. It's a brutal, toxic culture. If your impression of people comes from the projected cultural paradigm instead of real people, you're completely justified in being depressed and anxious.My advice is to stop worrying about impressing them. The best girls I've dated and would prefer being with do not correspond to the best fucks of my life. As a matter of fact, the girl I had routinely the best sex with of all of them is someone I should never have been dating to begin with, and it ended as I expected it to. Some of them had parts of their bodies they were self-conscious about but, go figure, it didn't matter to me. I wanted the person, not just an especially inviting hole.
>>32591567>they spend so much time staring at Instagram models and can't measure up.well, they can. they can work out, diet, get surgeries and boob jobs, their effort can equal results to look and feel better, just like us, but men are stuck with our dicks. and stuck with a fake culture that embraces 'body positivity' yet never calls off the dick shame/jokes>>32591567>the girl I had routinely the best sex with of all of them is someone I should never have been dating to begin with, and it ended as I expected it towhat happened specifically?
>>32591591>they can get surgeryI think you're missing the point on purpose here.>what happened specificallyTurned out she already had a bf when she started banging me (was cheating on him with me) and a lot of other unresolved baggage that I consciously ignored for lack of options. I knew she was a bit unstable but she was so different from me I literally justified it with "curiosity." Dumb. Best thing about her was her sex skills, but if I'd had someone more stable available I would have gone with that.
What are you seeking ADVICE about? If you want someone to make you feel better, talk to your mummy. That isn't what this place is for. It's for advice. You've acknowledged your physical shortcoming can't be fixed. So why are you even obsessing over it? My advice to you is to get a therapist and talk to them about why you write badly made up stories on the jnternet. Maybe they can help you get over your critical loserdom.
>>32587495i am like OP but mine is 4...is it over for me?
>>32587495You need to learn acceptance. Acceptance is the first step to peace. I’m 36, Virgin. I accepted the fact that sex is something I will never know. My life has IMMENSELY improved since then.
>>32587495find younger women. date an 18 year old
>>32591699thats kinda sad. youve just totally given up? what else do you do with your life? you can still have sex, most of them will just not be as happy as they would with chad and laugh at you later>>32594660hows that going to help them 18 y/o sluts have known cock since middle school
>>32587495Stop looking for fornication my fren, thats hurting your soul
