When using dating apps, how do I filter out the women that are only talking to you for attention and validation and not actually wanting to date you?I've had this happen to me on chat roulette sites as well. Feigned interest.
This is going to be like 90% of your matches. You have to move things IRL as fast as possible and drop them if they string you along.
>>32588368There is no such thing as a "dating app". Those are casual sex apps. 99.9% of the women on those apps filter into one of two categories 1. They're looking for likes and attention to validate themselves, or promote something. 2. They're looking for a ONS0.1% Of the women on those apps are dumb enough to think they're for actual dating. These women are easy to pick. They're the grotesquely obese single mothers that tell you all about how they're looking for a dad to their kid in the little bio those apps give. Get off your phone and go outside. Meet real people in real life social situations.
>>32588368Suggest going out to a lunch or coffee date. Something not virtual. Though, if you come across as someone who just wants to fuck they probably will lose interest unless they are there for the same reason
>>32588368Dating apps exist only to make money from lonely and desperate men.
>>32588464So true brother!What is this site for btw?
>>32588368I have the same problem with males online. You'd have to act disinterested so they don't get any validation off you in the first place. They will be sending screenshots of any compliments to their ex or person they can't have.
>>32588368"Hi. Are you free this weekend for a date at *random restaurant*."If she says no, then just give up, she isn't there to date.
>>32588481Lmao GOT 'EM
>>32588413I wish you could live like this in the west , this is what my ancestors probably did for 400 years just chilling in the countryside and hear I am slaving away at a walmart trying to get a degree on the side and a side hustle off the ground just to fricken have anything above paying the bills leftover.
>>32588534>I hope our star signs matchJesus Christ, that pic is so accurate. I've had women unmatch me for the dumbest most insignificant shit.Literally one chick ghosted me after she found out I was born in July instead of August.
>>32588368STOP APPROACHING WOMEN.STOP USING ONLINE APPS. STOP GIVING WOMEN ATTENTIONStop Asking Women On Dates, stop texting them thinking you are interesting because you are not. The reason you are getting ghosted is because you text and try to be funny, try to make her laugh or sound interesting. If you do manage to go to the next step and are actually meeting up and then get ghosted, stop taking women on dates. That stuff doesn't work anymore in the current year.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pyEdsrfTd6QMost importantly stop approaching women, at least for a while. They are already seething and this will only get worse and worse as they get less and less attention from men.If men can't display a modicum of power over society, this world and women, then I guess they don't hold much power at all.
>>32588413ThisThought DESU I've discovered double-messaging once in a while can get you an "in" if it hasn't been longer than a couple of days
>>32589099Bang bang
>>32588368>and not actually wanting to date you?by closing down and uninstalling the dating app
>>32588368Filtering out women who don't want to date...1. Doesn't smile in her photos2. Has a limited or no bio3. Lists her instagram / snapchat / etc. in her profile4. Put A LOT of work into her photos5. Has expensive tastes (dresses / backgrounds / etc.)Filtering out undesirable traits in women...1. Fat2. Tattoos, excessive piercings, non-natural hair color3. Any sort of backhand insult in her bio / self brag over something that's not worth bragging about4. Any sign of a kid5. Any sort of photos which would represent you in a negative light (leggings, showing cleavage, etc.)6. Low effort bio / captions7. Party photos (where she constantly has a drink in her hand)8. Picking up male hobbies where she's clearly atrocious at and has no intention on ever taking it seriously.9. Short (usually below 5'7")10. "Dog / cat mom"Long story short, stop taking people seriously who aren't taking themselves seriously.
>>32591041>5. Any sort of photos which would represent you in a negative light (leggings, showing cleavage, etc.)You'll have to explain this one to me, dawg. Cause a chick in leggings and showing boob is hawt.
I enjoy talking to women. Guys are weird to talk to these days. They feel more like women than women.But I don't know how to feel about the fact that I talk to women and have a good time doing so, but I don't want to fuck anyone. I lost my feelings completely many years ago. I've found myself alone with women in a bedroom and didn't even think of having sex. I'm pretty sure they think I'm gay or I have a sexual impediment. I think I settle into an area that is in a sense even less masculine than the friendzone. There's no pretense that they owe me affection for talking to them so there's none of that shit and it gets weird. I'm not even like a gay friend. It's just not meant to happen that a straight man talks to a woman and doesn't want to fuck. It's against the natural orderToday I realized that I forgot all the women in my life. I can't remember the faces anymore. I don't recognize them when I see them. I think I don't give a shit anymore, while I used to feel so intensely. Is this what happens when you stop giving a shit? You stop feeling and you stop remembering? I don't even have a longing for a waifu IRL. I'm not even sure I would be able to love a soulmate if I met her today. Feels bad man, imagine the shit I had to take from my exs to become like this.
>>32591063What Anon thinks that only a cuck would let a woman walk around in leggings or showing cleavage. But Anon is KHHV so doesn't have any actual experience with women.
>>32591339hahaha ok I get it
>>32588368bidet
>>32588368Set up a time and place to meet
>>32594523What?
>>32591041That’s the whole dating site market
>>32588368>When using dating apps, how do I filter out the women that are only talking to you for attention and validation and not actually wanting to date youThis is pretty much ALL women on dating apps, if they really wanted a relationship with a good boyfriend they'd go out and meet one or, more likely, the guy would have approached them first and they would have been hitched 1-2 years before they ever decided to go on the dating app.For men, it is sort of understandable why they may seek out a dating app, men actually have to try to get a mate, and they have to try with every ounce of will in their body to find an actual respectable woman.For women it makes no sense for them to be on a dating app other than they value quantity over quality, they want as much validation and free meals as they can get before they finally settle down with the chad that has been chasing them for years trying to impress them with gifts, 100k+ salary job etc.
>>32589099based and correct
>>32588368>When using dating apps, how do I filter out the women that are only talking to you for attention and validation and not actually wanting to date you?Impossible to tell at an early stage. Only time will tell.
>>32589099This indeed makes sense theoretically. I have heard (and is probably true) that attention for women is like sex for us, they crave it A LOT, and they will do everything in their power to get as much attention as possible, with giving as less what men would want/like in return as possible, the bare minimum.So yeah, on paper this is what men should do, a tactical decision - starve them out of their attention, and make them finally start moving their asses and doing things how we want for once.However, there is one major flaw with this tactic. You are trying to starve women out of attention.... In the 21st century, where they have access to all the social media, and 999+ simps messaging them every day on 9 different social platforms, not to mention all the orbiters and other simps in the real life too, ready to go far and beyond just to have them look in their direction, and all the other men they can get at any period of the day at command.So how exactly are you gonna do that? This can only work if most men start to behave like this, and that aint happening anytime soon. While I like the idea and even try to live accordingly myself, it's ultimately absolutely useless. GG go next.
>>32599192>>32599417>>32599422Come on man, there has GOT to be at least ONE fucking woman out there on the internet that actually is serious about a relationship and is willing to give you sex in return for whatever attention she wants from you and only you.There's gotta be. Seriously?!
>>32599746One? Sure why not, there's probably like a thousand, but it'd be like going in the ocean and fishing for a mermaid. 99.99% of the time you're going to be pulling some buttfuck small ass fish.
>>32599746one, and 1 million dudes tryna hit in her matches. Women only match with like 10 dudes at a time. TOo overwhelming. What if you have 10 fat bitches in your matches? Would get exhausting.
>>32588368They are finding out if they can trust you duh
>>32600096>pulling some buttfuck small ass fish.kek that made me giggle a bit
>>32588368Date em
