we all know women hate it and that acting on a femdom kink will ruin a relationship. hookers arent my thing and fetlife is all men, what are my other options?
>>32592150Be the opposite and be the dominant one.
>>32592150Just go to the gym and find the most roided up gorrilaclit bulldyke and ask her if she can bench your bodyweight. 50% chance you will get pegged that night.
Play Second Life. There are entire communities built around femdom. I don’t know to what extent you want to go. Most people are fine communicating through text. If you want to do voice chat or webcam, you’ll have to get extremely to find someone who’ll agree to that. Also a lot of femdom in SL is tied to findom, people who want to make a quick buck from the findom fetish, so the scene is kinda tainted and you’ll need to be able to navigate past the findom people.
>>32592175>people who want to make a quick buck from the findom fetishSo like 99% of women into "femdom". yeah thats gonna be a no from me dog. If i wanted cyber femdom id just use an LLM
>>32592175findom is the cringiest shit ever
I am married to a small cute chinese girl and have been slowly getting her into femdom. This has taken years honestly. Basically we were already married before I even realized how much I liked femdom.Anyway, it started with basically me jerking off around her getting normalized. Like going to bed or whatever if I wanted sex and she didn't I'd ask her if I could fap. She was almost always cool with this, and even would show me titty or moan for me to encourage it.Eventually I decided to just tell her about my foot fetish and she was totally cool with that as well. Eventually I offered her 20 dollars to let me smell her feet while I fapped. She was totally down and it became a regular occurrence. After that was normalized I told her basically that some verbal humiliation would be great and that I have a humiliation kink. I made it clear to her that while I love it when she calls me for instance a beta loser that I really enjoy that. I also made it very clear to her that I don't actually believe that I am a beta loser, I just love the humiliation of it. So now I'm regularly jerking to her feet while she's telling me I'm a beta loser. She does cum countdowns for me while I do it, and rushes me or will tell me to slow it down... It's great.We still have regular sex as well, and she loves face sitting especially now that she knows I love it too.I think my next goal is to get her into keyholding and chastity...We have been married for almost a decade now, but keep separate finances and each have our own jobs we are relatively successful at. I never brought up the femdom stuff till probably year 3 of the marriage. Obviously this won't work for everyone, but it works for us and honestly our relationship has never been better. Just being honest with women can work, just make sure to do it slowly and steady, and make sure you make it fun *for her* is my advice.
>>32592150bump
>>32592150Femdom here in straight relationship. We exist although it's hard to find a woman secure enough in her femininity to take on a dominant role.
>>32593436male hands wrote this
>>32592150...what kind of "femdom" are we talking about? Do you just like wearing a blindfold or is it something more like being forced to dress like a girl? Everyone will be okay with the former, but the latter... you'd have better luck just getting therapy to get rid of that fetish.
>>32594148facesitting, farting, foot worship, trampling, and maybe scat
>>32595655Facesitting = finefarting = questionable if you will ever get a girl whos cool with thisfoot worship = you can definitely find this easilytrampling = you can definitely find this easilyscat = i would never bring this up to a woman i cared about also gross man.
>>32595802All of this can be found sure, but deep down women hate it and will eventually cheat
>>32596009I disagree, especially if you manage to make it fun for them as well. It is entirely possible if you are self aware and find the right person. You have to dom sometimes too.
>>32595655The farting and scat are fucking disgusting, get rid of those. Foot worship and facesitting are a bit cringe but normalfags are generally okay with them.
>>32592150I'm in the same boat, although im not into shit like scat and farting. incredibly unlikely you'll find a single woman willing to do this. its best to drop these fetishes or segregate them to porn or something.im just looking for a woman to peg me while not losing respect for me as a result
>>32596593>ts best to drop these fetishesDo you mean scat/farting or all femdom in general?
>>32596604the extreme stuff. you can definitely get a girl into the other shit easily, and it wont negatively impact your relationship provided you arent a complete fucking creep about it and she actually likes you.
>>32596627yeah fr, but years of porn use have numbed me so i can only get off the extreme stuff
>>32596593whats wrong with farting?
>>32597680bamp
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>>32597680its just too weird and gross for most women anon.
Hoe cringe will women find it if I just wanna eat their pussy and ass anf get my fsce sat on alot and teased a little?
