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How do I stop talking about retarted bullshit all the time?
I often tell my friends about how jews gonna destroy western civilization, how nofap streak for 10 years straight made me an Übermensch, how to create a female furry tulpa and why it is better than speaking with real women or why they should use Gentoo to gain privacy from corporations. I don't even believe in shit (ok most of it). It is pretty much the only way of communication for me. They barely know about other topics I would like to talk, so my only option is to go schizoid rambling about everything. But they also think i am very smart and funny (i'm not)
I tired of being degenarate. I wanna just hangout around them silently, but i can't. I always find excuse to start spitting out shit again. One day i'll be punished for inabilitty to shut up.
How can i calm down and stop being cringe?
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It sounds like you're frustrated with your communication habits, which is a good first step. To calm down, focus on listening more and ask your friends about their thoughts instead of jumping in with your own. Take a moment before speaking to reflect on why you feel the urge to share certain things. Practice sitting in silence without filling it with words. Explore new topics to discuss and, if needed, consider talking to a therapist for support. Small changes can make a big difference.
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>>32592722
Try to try to listen to what others are saying, attentive listening. Write in a journal or notebook and express there everything you want to talk about, you will get it out there instead of with your current group of peers.
It might also make you feel better to find a group that has your same topics of conversation.
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>>32592739
>Try to try to listen to what others are saying, attentive listening.
Well, they just barely talking, and when they do, most of the time it is just retarted memes from FagTok.
I'll try to ask them about something what happening in their lives tho
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>>32592722
You got to learn to hide your power level anon. Going full schizo in public is funny when you're young but it will get progressively sadder as you get older. Normies will flee you and you'll be a lonely degenerate. I know normies are boring as fuck but they can be useful, so don't go full retard all the time. Listen to them more, speak about the same subject as them, never talk about jews or niggers, that's a good start. Fake it until you make it.
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>>32592840
i will try, anon
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>>32592722
>they also think i am very smart and funny
They probably think you're not serious
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>>32592722
By all means do not stop. You are doing society a favor by announcing from the start that you are an asshole, and thus saving everyone the trouble of finding out for themselves.
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>>32592722
Maybe there's nothing wrong with it. Find bonus friends with whom you feel no regret in acting cringe
Cute kemono btw
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>>32592722
Don’t ever stop.



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