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How do you make a girl feel self conscious about wearing bikinis and have her consider wearing a one piece?
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>>32593110
Like anything, depends on the person. Is she insecure about her body? Stranger validation? Play on it. Does she just feel comfortable with more exposed skin? Basically just make her feel like showing skin is a bad thing, whether through her not being attractive enough, or it being a nuisance for multiple people. Herd mentality is your friend for affecting behaviours.
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>>32593110
You shouldn’t get to keep living
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>>32593115
How is it a nuisance?
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Why? Do you want her to be modest just communicate that and say how its actually hotter if she leaves stuff to fantasy. However if youre just some low T beta who needs to overcompensate for his lack of masculinity by trying to make some woman have self doubts, please know that you're lower than a jew
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>>32593110
Why would you do that?
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>>32593197
>However if youre just some low T beta who needs to overcompensate for his lack of masculinity by trying to make some woman have self doubts, please know that you're lower than a jew
nta but many women don't want direct communication
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>>32593221
Exactly, I feel like she'd be sexier in a one piece. What's be good indirect communication to maybe make her reconsider l.
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Bait thread
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Not a tattoo in sight
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>>32593160
Not everyone wants to see that much skin.
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>>32593110
honestly, kill yourself fag
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>>32593110
Stop being a shit person and manipulating people's feelings. Just tell her you'd find her sexy in a one piece, buy her one.
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pic is so hot i can't breathe
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>>32593582
Congrats, you are either a gay male, resentful incel, or jealous female. There is no 4th option.
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>>32593110
"Gee, it's really brave of you to wear that. A lot of girls would be too self-conscious about their stretch marks."
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>>32593110
Don’t go making her self-conscious. That is passive-aggeessive woman shit, female tactic. If you’re a man and it’s your girlfriend/wife who is incessantly dressing slutty and you don’t like it, tell it to her face.

>”We’re not going out with you dressed like that.”
If she asks why:
>”Because it makes you look like a slut.”
If she gets pouty/angry/defensive
>”I’m not saying you are a slut. But it makes you look like one. Find something more modest, then we go.”
If she stays angry/upset/defensive, remain calm but don’t give in keep your foot down. Also accept you ain't going out that day. She prob won’t have proper beachwear alternatives and will need to buy it. Also ‘her’ day will be ruined, so she’ll want yours ruined too and won’t go and get all pouty. Again, just stay chill.

Next time she should have a better outfit ready for next beach date. You gotta be tough but patient with women OP. Speak as though it’s non-negotiable, but don’t go making her self conscious about her body, only about the clothing.
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>>32593110
Depends how well you know them. It might work to say "nice belly ya hog" or point and make pig sounds.
Lots of girls are self consious about belly fat that is sometimes non-existent on them so that is a pretty vital spot to aim for in regards to beach attire.
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>>32593110
How do I make you feel self conscious about your face and force you to get a plastic surgery?
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>>32593110
show her people fetishizing tummies
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>>32599083
Lmao.
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>>32599083
>t. someone who is totes married and wakes up with bitches every morning because he never turns off his swag
>>32600147
kys
t. tummy appreciator
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>>32593121
You will never be a woman
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>>32593110
>>32599083
>inshallah your body is meant for my eyes only
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>>32601461
Unironically yes. Take ownership over the woman you love. This whole fake confidence attitude of allowing your woman to dishonour herself is closet-cuck shit. Those same other men who pretend they enjoy showing off their women to other men are the same ones who dump their gfs nudes on goon cave boards and websites. They get off on turning other men on using their own woman. It’s gay and cucked and is less about loving your woman, more about loving sizing up to other men using your girl as the medium.
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>>32601476
>gf wears a 2-piece bathing suit? that means you're a cuck!
pathetic lonely incel logic. thankfully you've never been within 3 feet of a woman
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>>32601495
>thankfully you've never been within 3 feet of a woman
See there you go again, trying to shame another man using female validation as a currency. It’s like when a child hide behind’s mommy’s skirt while blowing a raspberry. Gay as fuck.
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>>32593110
>tell her she looks fat in them
>then she'll tell her tell her friends
>then everyone will pile on her to support her
>then she'll post bikini pics
>thirsty orbiter drool all over her
>more people than you'd like will know why she did all this. It was you.
>could be reputation destroying for you even.

Life lesson kid. You can't control people. If you hate women wearing bikinis that much, you find a girl who doesn't wear them in the first place to give your attention to.
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>>32601476
Youve never spoken to a girl in your life, have you?
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>>32601512
Typing to one right now apparently
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>>32593110

Why would you want to do that?
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>>32601506
>having this much of a meltdown over seeing a woman in a bathing suit
just admit you're a homo and move on kid
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>>32593110
Have you considered signing her up for shock therapy?
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>>32593110
>how do I make a girl engage in performative modesty and traditionality while doing absolutely nothing to address the root problems of female misbehavior in the modern world
Kill all trad-larpers
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>>32593110
Take a picture of her next to a hotter girl. The hotter girl is wearing a one piece. Share the picture on social media. Show bikini girl the comments.
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>>32593110
buy a reveal men's speedo and she'll be so embarrassed to be seen with you she'll want you to cover up. when she asks that you do you can ask the same of her.

OR

buy a rash guard and cover up on your next beach trip. then replace the sunscreen with some other white substance. then when she gets burnt all over and you don't, she'll want to invest in a rash guard,
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>>32601515
Clever aren't you.
Alright pro tip. If you try to "take ownership" of a woman she'll suck 70 dicks. They don't like that.
You pick a woman who doesn't do the things you don't want her to do in the first place. If you gotta boss her around and tell her no to wear certain things, you picked the wrong woman for you.
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>>32595645
Muslim
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>>32601536
Jihad
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>>32599083
Bruh
If a guy refused to take me to the beach because of what I was wearing I'd go by myself and expect him to have all his shit moved out by the time I get back
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what a slut
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>>32603037
So you’d care more about making sure your ass cheeks were visible for onlookers rather than respect your man’s sensibilities and because he dared to insist upon them, you’d sabotage the entire relationship. Lol.
>have all his shit moved out by the time I get back
I like how in this made-up scenario, it’s him moving out of the home and not you. Like your default attitude is the home belongs to you, or that he’s the one leeching off of you and boss lady that you are, you own the property. What would you do if it’s his house?
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>>32603071
she would access another beta provider from her ancillary pool
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>>32603071
I wouldn't move into a guy's house, they come to my apartments or we rent one that we share.

And it's not about my ass cheeks. It's about respect. I'm not a doll or his child and make my own aesthetic choices. Him treating me like I belong to him and am not there by choice is how you get me to leave.
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>>32603033
Religious nut is also an option, yes, though there is a heavy overlap between that and the "gay" and "resentful incel" categories.
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>>32603076
>And it's not about my ass cheeks. It's about respect. I'm not a doll or his child and make my own aesthetic choices.
>I’m not a doll
But you’d insist on dressing up like one. And ‘aesthetic’ choices. Okay, sure. You might want to understand what those aesthetics mean though. Makeup for example is designed to imitate how a woman’s complexion looks after sex. Blushed cheeks, reddened lips from increase of blood pressure, etc. It’s sexually provocative by design. That’s why makeup makes faces look more ‘attractive’. Same is true for a lot of clothing. The design choice to reveal ass cheeks and cleavage is not a happy coincidence, femanon. It looks aesthetic and nice because it’s attractive. It’s meant to attract attention. So while you aren’t ‘his doll’, you’re certainly the fashion/make up companies doll lol. Point is, demanding to keep putting out that attraction in public at all times just tells the men you are dating that you are still looking for attention elsewhere.

>Him treating me like I belong to him
You don’t seem to understand commitment. You give yourself to someone else and they give themselves to you in return. So yeah, you’d belong to each other.
So when a guy says ‘MY’ girlfriend, guess it’s not real yeah? After all, that would imply you belong to him. And that is super icky and evil apparently, right?
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>>32603163
>dressing in a way that pleases you is looking for attention
This is an extremely played out version of this conversation can you at least spice it up a little with something different

And commitment is literally a choice dummy. You don't just decide and do it automatically from there on out without any thought.
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>>32603075
>borg voice
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>>32603173
>This is an extremely played out version of this conversation can you at least spice it up a little with something different.
No, it’s cutting right to the heart of the convo. It’s just willful ignorance, or, a lack of awareness or even caring about the fact that clothes that accentuate and reveal asscheeks and tits are designed like this on purpose to attract attention. Doesn’t matter if the wearer has different intentions or not, still is what it is.

>And commitment is literally a choice dummy. You don't just decide and do it automatically from there on out without any thought.
Yep. It’s a choice, and then a continuous choice over and over. And all I’m saying is, if a woman rescinds that choice at the drop of a hat all because she doesn’t enjoy respecting her man’s objection to her need to show ass and sideboobs and cleavage out in public, then all we can conclude is she feels her feelings trumps hubby’s every time, and if he don’t like it, she sets the relationship on fire and it goes byebye.

Not exactly partner of the year now is it
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>>32603231
>then all we can conclude is she feels her feelings trumps hubby’s every time
When it comes to what I'm wearing yeah my feelings do trump his every time. Stop being such an insecure bitch about it.
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>>32593582
Then don't look. Simple as.
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>>32603265
Honestly you’re a straight up whore just like most Western women but you placate it with “standing up for myself” and “womens rights”. Its just some bullshit so you can go around acting like an asshole. The problem is there aren’t consequences because beta-cucks support your bullshit and will cater to you because they want to fuck you. But just know that you literally have no personality and are the scum of the earth. No one has ever considered you for who you are, which is shit. The more you act and dress like that the more everyone sees you as just a hole. good luck turning 45
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bump
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>>32603265
>Stop being such an insecure bitch about it.
Or, alternatively, I can just refuse to marry insecure bitches and pick a better woman. Insecure women typically crave to prove their own looks to the rest of the world, aka insecure bitch. Not marriage material imo.

Way to go tho. You just admitted how you feel about clothing means more to you than how your man feels. Fucking clothing, literal fabric has more humanity to you than who you’d date. Good luck to your future man
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>>32603772
I know you can't see me but just know that I'm rolling my eyes
>>32603937
How I feel matters most.
I do what I want within reason. Wearing something he doesn't like doesn't hurt him so I don't give a shit how he feels about it unless we're going to see his mother.
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>>32601512
>>32601495
>>32601573
Your mentality is abnormal outside of liberal america
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>>32604298
>How I feel matters most.
Narcissism defined
>I do what I want within reason
So narcissism defined. I bet ‘within reason’ only means on YOUR reason.
>Wearing something he doesn’t like doesn’t hurt him so I don’t give a shit how he feels
You don’t give a shit how he feels, so you don’t know what hurts him and what doesn’t. Shit logic, narcissist.

>UNLESS we’re going to see his mother
Yeah, so you can pretend to be agreeable and nice and angelic and appease people with a false presentation of who you actually are.

Typical narcissistic shit.
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>>32605583
If he doesn't like the way I dress why the fuck did he ask me out in the first place? Him being stupid isn't my problem he can leave if he doesn't like it.
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>>32605590
>If he doesn't like the way I dress why the fuck did he ask me out in the first place?
Because as Snoop Dogg cautioned, he was someone who thought he could turn a hoe into a housewife. He’ll figure out it don’t work. Inhope so anyway.

>Him being stupid isn’t my problem
See? You admit you’d have to be stupid to date someone like you.

I hope you’re just really really dense and you’re not actually as much as of vindictive person as you’re currently signalling to be. Fucking hell.
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>>32605598
A guy who's bothered by promiscuous clothing would be stupid to date me yes.
Good thing you're not all like that.
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>>32605603
See? You finally admit the clothing is promiscuous. Before, you tried to act dumb and call it an ‘aesthetic’. So you want a promiscuous aesthetic. Aka, you want to look sexually provocative in the public eye despite having a boyfriend already.

>Good thing you’re not all like that
Good thing you won’t need to waste money on a wedding dress, would cut into your promiscuous clothing funds. (I assume your man pays for your clothes). Men don’t wanna marry shit like this, so you’ll have no worries there.
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>>32605618
Who gives a shit grandpa.
We have a look but don't touch policy in society it literally doesn't matter I could go out naked if it was legal.
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>>32603693
>runs you over with my car because I looked away from you
nothin personnel, slut
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>>32605673
That’s nice. Anyway how is rehearsal going? When you have dinner at bf’s parent’s place? You rehearsed your lines about pretending to be a modest and nice young lady? Got the fake act all figured out?
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>>32605743
Only one of my bf's moms has disliked me. She went to church 3 times a week, Catholic, there was no fooling that one.
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>>32605745
One of your bf’s. You juggling multiple dicks or you mean an ex? Also I’m not surprised. Catholics are really good at identifying the spirit of Lilith in fake women. You’re pretty obvious though. Your deception was sloppy, I could see through it easily, you might wanna work on that more.
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>>32605762
>deception was sloppy
Are you larping as his mom now fucking weirdo?
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>>32605777
Nah, But you Larp as a modest girl to other people’s parents tho lol.
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>>32593578
Beautiful, isn't it?
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>>32607354
Truly
I myself have every reason to get marked but I keep myself clean because I expect the same of my partner
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>>32593110
Is she fat or are you a muslim?
Either way you shouldn't eat pig.



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