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Where do the people go who have lost all romantic hope? Besides 4chan.

I'm basically looking for more depressing incel boards/forums
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>>32594107
Any reason you don't want to improve things?
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>>32594107
I think r9k is that
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>>32594111
I'm 25 years old. Never had any romantic experience of any kind. Eventhough I go out and have a busy social life.

Moreover I recently discovered all my female friends just sleep around constantly. And they apparently all decided I wasn't good enough for that.
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>>32594122
Thanks!
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>>32594137
step 1 is realizing that women are you inferior in every measure. nature needed a extremely specialized baby making/infant care machine and the more specialized in one plane something becomes the more it has to sacrifice in another. nature basically nerfed women hardcore for the sake of perpetuating the species. even if you areva below average man the average woman is your physical mental and spiritual lesser and not much significance should be put on their opinions.
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>>32594137
You're 25 and want to give up? You've barely started your adult life.
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>>32594122
>>32594141
/r9k/ is no longer the incel board. The 4chan board full of angry low IQ incels is /pol/ these days.
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>>32594266
>Moreover I recently discovered all my female friends just sleep around constantly. And they apparently all decided I wasn't good enough for that.

Dude, this. I'm already going to the gym, mind you.
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>>32594380
They're not the only women in the world, you know.
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>>32594107
Unironically, online dating is almost entirely guys like this.
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>>32594137
>female friends
Are you gay? The only reason to talk to girls is to get laid, either with or through them. Neither has happened so drop them.
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>>32594449
Well, I'm sorry but what am I to make of the fact that the three biggest whores I know won't have sex with me?
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>>32594495
Well I dance a lot as a hobby. So I'm pretty much surrounded by women. And I'm not going to be an awkward loser just because I can't get laid.

Keep in mind, 25 year old virgin, I am not saying this to boast.
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>>32594137
>And they apparently all decided I wasn't good enough for that.
Did you ever try with any of them? Did you ever try to hook up, ask them out, or even flirt?
If you act totally asexually around girls you can expect to be treated the same way.
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>>32595052
So are you just supposed to hit on every woman you find attractive? I heard tons of women hate that.
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>>32594566
Meet more women. You can't give up on your life at 25 on the basis of your experience with 3 women.
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>>32595076
what ive found is theres a thin line between what girls think is cool vs creepy. if you are fit, you dont even have to be good looking, reliable, and not pushy, girls like that. another thing is most girls tend to go for guys who arent all over them, because lets be real, most girls have tons of guys who they can choose from. if you are those things but still cant get laid, you might just be around the wrong group of people, or theres something wrong with u.
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>>32595076
If they hate it, they're not interested. It's not like if you don't express interest you'll have more possibilities with her.
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>>32595087
They are promiscuous though...
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>>32595097
Well my goto strategy is: treat them like any other person, and if I see any potential in a relationship I try to act on it. But I never flirt, I'll give you that.
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>>32595087
>>32595107
And I do! I dance four different types, and one of them is ballet, I am quite literally surrounded by them!
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>>32595107
Don't determine the course of your life based on 3 women, regardless of how promiscuous they are.
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>>32595113
>treat them like any other person, and if I see any potential in a relationship
You're not supposed to wait, you make your intentions known and move on if she's not interested. Just waiting around gets you nowhere
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>>32595226
But how then?? Like you can't just go out of the blue say: "Hey you wanna do something sometime?" How do you properly make your intentions known, without sounding tactless? Seriously, I want to try.
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>>32595255
>Like you can't just go out of the blue say: "Hey you wanna do something sometime?"
You literally can just do that.
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>>32595319
Dude, that's way too tacky. I at least got to know the person better before just saying that.
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>>32595340
Oh look, another excuse
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>>32594599
Try your hand at more masculine hobbies and try to make some friends. Just guessing but I reckon you have too much feminine energy and women aren’t attracted to that.
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>>32594107
I'm here bro. I don't go anywhere
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>>32595497
Whose choice is that?
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>>32595503
Yes.
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>>32595444
I'd say I give off neutral energy. But what hobbies do you consider masculine?
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>>32594107
Remember, never help a woman, always fuck over a woman, beat a woman if you can get away with it.
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>>32594122
r9k is a trannyporn board nowadays. >>32594107
op you wanna real blackpill board go to wizchan
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>>32596175
Damn, that design is ass.
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>>32595076
They hate it if theyre not attracted to you. Never try never know. Lots of women you see complaining about getting hit on online are magligant narcissists who are humblebragging about it its why you always see fat chicks doing it but most women are rational.

Just dont be pushy thats it, if she says no or doesnt express interest back thats also a no, if you just throw it out there women generally arent bothered theyre very used to it.
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>>32594107
>>32594137
Tbh I think long term/romantic relationships are pretty much pointless in 2025. I feel like the only point in getting one is so get validation. It’s just not worth it. Women have so many options that they have no reason to stay with you. If you want sex, just meet girls on instagram and see if any are willing to fuck you sometime in the future. That’s what I do.
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>>32596291
and the people are even worse, if those are people. wizchan is nothing but a pit of despair. far worse than here. incels.is is filled with retards. i wish there were a place to commiserate with our loserdom in a positive way but there really isn't anymore. best we got is here.
but you wanted depressing, wizchan's it. but you're 25. wizards are 30+ 5 years to save yourself. too late for me
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>>32595345
he's got a point. you can't just straight up ask people to do something with you, that's cringe as fuck
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>>32595052
>If you act totally asexually around girls you can expect to be treated the same way.
I thought they wanted this, and that making your intentions clear was a surefire way to not get laid. That's the impression I got from metoo/modern feminism.
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>>32595892
Combat sports like boxing or Muay thai are really good. You get fit, learn a valuable skill, and the competition between other men is a massive test boost.
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>>32596371
wwyd?
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>>32597447
that's the million dollar question, isn't it
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>>32595319
I don't think OP will get Anon's advice, it takes some trial and error to come to the realization that all you can and should do is openly flirting stating interest, and being forward. Women aren't mind readers, and they most likely have people who put something on the table for them to try.

If you want to be sexually active, flirt with them, go out, try things, get rejected, eventually you'll vibe well with someone.

Got rejected? Become friends, meet her friends, rinse and repeat. There's nothing wrong with any of this.



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