>>32594606
дшлк is supposed to be like

Obviously this thread is bait but I'm just here to wait and see if that one guy who gets irrationally asshurt at age gap relationships pops into the thread, and if so I'm gonna call him a fag

>>32594626
No it's not bait, it's a real situation.

Since it's playing out in middle western Europe most people are going to be butthurt about the age gap.

look at that forehead

>>32594606
>Am I a pedophile?
No anon, a simple google search or even better, having an ounce of common sense is enough to deduce you're not a pedo for liking someone within your age bracket. You're basically both kids, don't let anyone take that opportunity away from you. Plus girls they age are already as mature as girls you're age anyway, probably even more than you.

>>32594698
>Plus girls they age are already as mature as girls you're age anyway, probably even more than you.

That is definitely the case :)

It's, like I said earlier, quite frowned upon in western europe. The moment you hit 18 it's a no-go.

Thanks anon

>>32594709
Yeah I can see what you mean, I'm from southern europe and here's kind of the same deal with most normies, even tho it's still legal in most countries. It's kind of nuts.

>>32594606
This is why 4chan should be changed to a 21+ website

>>32594606
SHE’S ONLY 17 YEARS, 11 MONTHS, 29 DAYS, 23 HOURS, 59 MINUTES OLD YOU SICK FUCK

im 19 and date 16 and up exclusively

>>32595351
where are you from

>>32595567
none of your business mossad

>>32594709
not the western europe i'm from. i thought that stupid way of thinking was an american thing. which country are you from? i'm from germany. and i had a 15-y.o. girlfriend when i was 18.

>>32595629
Do you think you could get away with that as a 20+ year old? If not then it's kind of the same deal as in america, just less extreme.

>>32594606
It bleeds, it's a sexually mature woman.
It's ok you like her.
Obviously, don't try anything sexual with her because it's illegal.

>>32595627
Fuck cover blown

>>32595629
Servas Piefke! Grüße aus Wien! Ich nehme an die Zeiten haben sich geändert.

>>32594606
ugly as shit. Move on brother and try to look for more mature women

>>32594606
No.

>>32595673
It's in Europe so that's unlikely.

>>32595887
What part?
>>32595822
I can't help it brother

>>32594626

You fag.

>>32594606
You're an idiot I had a 15y old gf when I was 18 nobody gave a crap my grampa was 22 when he got my grandma pregnant she was 16.
The numbers are made up.
Unless you like them under 13 you are fine

At 18/19, you're in the same dumbass level of neurological development as a 16-year-old. If she were like 14 right now it'd be weird. If you were 23+ trying to get with a 16-year-old it'd be weird. It's about where you both stand on the line of neurological development - Not just social, but shit like executive function and critical thinking.

>>32595731
Grüezi! Kann schon sein. War schon damals vielleicht an der Grenze, aber noch toleriert. Dieses Lied kam zufällig ausm Nachbarzelt, als wir zum ersten Mal Sex hatten, auf nem Open-Air-Festival: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zA8tA1mr-jU
War sehr lustig.

>>32596025
Based gramps. Similarly, my grampa was 24 when he met my grandma at 16 and got her pregnant right away. I wish this was standard practice again.

>>32596257
Damn, that's must've felt great for your gramps

>>32596025
Son 14 is ok to feel attracted?

>>32594606
The feeling is really great. I was 18/19 with a 15 year old girl. It's a great dynamic. It hurts a bit when it ends.

>>32596292
I mean if you're that French. Sure. Bon appetite.

you're not a pedo, but at this point definitely a bit too old for her, wait till you're both in your twenties or at least close

>>32594606

Bait post aside, I just want to highlight something everyone including OP seems to have missed. If a 16 year old child looks like Rachel McAdams at 35, then what do you suppose she'll look like at 35? That would be a hag.

What's weird is that when I was 17 years old I thought I was sex RPing a 16 year old, but soon a year later it turned out she was 14 years old when I was 18. She had the height of a short woman and looked like a classmate in my high-school yet was a minor who pushed me to do consensual rape Rping with her. Which now she has proof of and I fear everyday the cops knocking on my front door about the incident I had. That was literally the stupidest fucking thing I did my entire life.

>>32597036
>Bait
It is not

>If a 16 year old child looks like Rachel McAdams at 35, then what do you suppose she'll look like at 35? That would be a hag.

She looks similar for christs sake

>>32597063
just considering: what does she think about it?
you're so locked in your own head imagining the future you've missed her as a person

lowkey you shouldn't be worried. she doesn't think about it negatively and is just a kinky thing for her. women rarely realise the shit they put men through, but blow ups are always as a result of active vengeance.
so this girl is a femcoomer, and just wanted it, and it was good or alright, so nothing will happen. let go anon, if this is the biggest 'mistake' you made then you're doing alright :)

>>32594606
not really
you're both teens
if you were older you'd be considered an ephebophile, but you're also a teen so it's just normal attraction towards someone within your range
I like 16yos too
thankfully it's legal in my country.

Nah. You're 18 and she's 16. Only in today's world ( and only in the west) is that seen as problematic. I wouldn't even think twice about this. She's not a prebuscent girl either, so even if you were older ( and your attraction more taboo) it still wouldn't be considered
pedophilia, just morally wrong

I'm 30 and in a similar situation. I have a crush on this barista where I drink my morning coffee. Cute face, long blonde hair. .Not like stunningly beautiful but beautiful in a cute way. A bit like that blonde barista girl that went viral for a bit. She has tried making some small talk with me two times now and I always shoot it down. Sometimes our eyes meet each other and you know there's something there and I feel jittery like a teenager. She's early 20s I think. It's the first time I've felt this in years. Maybe because I'm 2 months out of my previous relationship idk. I know I'm not acting on it tho

Do what I can't and go for it I'd say

As a younger guy in this thread(25) ill say at one time you would have been seen as normal. But even in my day when i was your age i was still called a pedophile at 17 when i flirted with a 15 year old i had a class with. Any form of age gaps are really frowned upon nowadays as some "power imbalance" thing as if age is the only power imbalance there is. What if she has more experience dating than you? Thats a power imbalance, what if she is actually more mature than you due to life experience? Thats a power imbalance. Not only that, ive also learned people only say this to guys who they know wont kick the everloving shit out of them. I knew big ass black dudes who were 20 dating 15 year olds and literally no one said shit because they didnt want him and his gang to stomp their neck into a coma. Its all a ritual in bullying weaker men into waiting decades before they can feel love. Even though dating in high school is shown to help you later in life, the ideal for a lot of women is these weaker uglier guys staying tf out of the way tell the age of 30, where they hopefully have careers(because these guys tend to be nerds and nerds can make a lot of money), which they can use as an escape plan when their decades of partying, fucking and general debauchery is over.

If you persue her definitely arm yourself or start working out because that system is going to be supported whether you like it or not.

>>32599050
>Do what I can't and go for it I'd say

Anon I'm an autistic loser outcast, so I guess I'll just keep it at passing by her in the hallways.

But thanks for your piece of advice.

>>32594606
no you are retarded though. 16 is legal almost everywhere

>>32599050
>I'm 30 and in a similar situation. I have a crush on this barista where I drink my morning coffee. Cute face, long blonde hair. .Not like stunningly beautiful but beautiful in a cute way. A bit like that blonde barista girl that went viral for a bit. She has tried making some small talk with me two times now and I always shoot it down. Sometimes our eyes meet each other and you know there's something there and I feel jittery like a teenager. She's early 20s I think. It's the first time I've felt this in years. Maybe because I'm 2 months out of my previous relationship idk. I know I'm not acting on it tho
30 and 18+ is completely fine. Not morally wrong in anyway