I felt good, I think she didn’t know but I told her after

>>32594844
Lost mine at 30 to some 4/10 that I matched with on Tinder. I was disgusted by her but just really wanted to lose my virginity.

There's no way that she didn't know. I just had her sit on top and ride. Took me like 20 minutes to cum. It wasn't enjoyable at all.

For the love of god don't become me. Wait until marriage.

>>32594895
>Lost mine at 30
>Wait until marriage.
You are very sad.

I was 24 and it was with a girl who I loved at the time. I felt great.
Then we moved in together and she was a slob and put no effort into the relationship and now I'm single again. And frankly I'm relieved because I did not want to marry her after living together...

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>>32594844
>Did she knew?

The phrase "did she knew?" is grammatically impossible because "did" already serves as the auxiliary verb in the past tense, and only the base form of the main verb ("know") can follow it. Adding "knew" creates a redundancy by using two past-tense markers in one clause, violating English grammar rules. The correct phrasing would be "did she know?" because "did" already conveys the past tense, leaving "know" in its base form.

>>32594844
I was a plapjak and horny.
Ended up doing it with a woman who was older than me, clearly fat, she looked way better in photos but hindsight says I got catfished, irl she had more gut than titties or hips, which is the worst type of fat.
Still nutted though, she had a great attitude.

Post nut clarity at the moment made me feel like I was raped, I just wanted to leave and take a shower immediately.

I thought about it for a few weeks but I got over it pretty quickly, like it never happened but the experience is there.
I guess that’s the benefit of being older and not getting easily scarred nor having my life defined by this event.

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>>32595122
Thanks.

>>32594844
>How did you feel the day after?
Kinda bored, kinda foolish
>Did she knew?
Yes

>>32594844
I hired a prostitute. It was actually a very interesting experience, because I lived with my mom, so I waited until she had gone out to do some errands and hired a prostitute, hoping that my mom would be gone long enough that they would never meet.

Overall, it was pretty unsatisfying. I regret it, and I've regretted every sexual encounter I've had since. I wish I was a virgin. It's not like it was awful, but I considered it a waste of money and I enjoy masturbation more.

>>32595408
>I wish I was a virgin.
You'd rather not. If you were, you'd be obsessing over it for the rest of your adulthood until insanity creeps in. It's good that it's done, no matter how unsatisfying the experience was. Better be unsatisfied than a bitter incel.

25 isn't late?
but yeah she knew, she didn't care because she was also one (bboth autistic)

>>32596274
It's late but not very late.

>>32596274
25 isn't late for autistic people but i think normies find it weird if youre older than 20 or so

I lost it at 29 to a 45 year old prostitute. Something in my body said I'm not married to this woman so I paid, thanked, and left afterwards. I made an omen after that that no matter how hard it is I will have sex with a woman I am married to.

If you all really want to know there is no damn difference before and after you had sex. It's all a myth.

>>32596941
Wrong. There is peace of mind.

>>32596274
genuinely is kind of late. how do you live 25 years and never have a girl spread her legs...literally unfathomable for me as a 19 year old

I lost it at 29 out of desperation to a fat girl. Huge mistake. I felt disgusted during the entire event. The only thing that was going through my mind was "i want this to be over". I didn't like her touching me, i felt disturbed when she was making out with me, and really grossed out with her pussy fluids on me. I ended up going soft halfway through, and told her to leave. I went to the shower and sat there for like 30 minutes just scrubbing her off of me.

I'm 37 now and havent had sex since. I don't want to now. It was a terrible experience.

>>32598466
>how do you live 25 years and never have a girl spread her legs
you're not having sex when you're 5... the average human begins puberty at 13.

>>32594844
I lost it at 24 and I just felt relieved. And yes she knew. I tried to keep it a secret but the first time we tried to fuck, the nerves got to me and I couldn't get hard so I just told her. Worked it out after a few more tries and a couple weeks of dating.
The day after I just felt relieved more than anything. Otherwise I didn't really feel much. It's not that I was disappointed or anything, but I realized how it wasn't that much of a big deal. I felt like the same person afterwards.
After we broke up though, the knowledge that I had sex boosted my confidence a lot just because it confirmed in my mind that I really was just a late bloomer and wasn't destined to die a lonely permavirgin. I could in fact score if I tried and was patient.

>>32598540
some teens and kids have sexual experiences, sorry you missed out

>>32598555
What does it mean if you lost it at 17 to a hottie where you only had sex once + blowjob but haven't had sex ever since and are now 35?

>>32598637
It means you have done the necessary service to your brain as a man, and you can now live free and enlightened while pursuing for personal interests and meaningful goals.

>>32598703
wrong. It means hes a virgin again.

>>32598614
>kids have sexual experiences
Well they shouldn't.

>>32598466
because you're unattractive and no girl likes you? it's really not hard

>>32598614
Yeah well that's a symptom of poor housing.

>>32594844
I dated a girl for the first time at 26. We went on a couple dates and then fucked. She knew. It was just okay; I don't remember that I felt any different afterward, or like anything significant had occurred. We had lots of much better sex in the next year or so before I broke up with her (I could handle her particular neuroticism).

And to answer your question did she knew? Yes she did. I kind of implied to her the reason why I was doing it was because I didn't want people to believe I was murderous or homicidal or suicidal for sexual reasons. It was one thing to be called gay for not having sex, but another to be called a murderer. Fortunately no one except me had to go through that.

>>32594844
Losing your virginity is one of those things (like graduating) that looms large in the future but hardly affects you once it happens.

>>32594844
>How did you feel the day after?
disappointed since I didn't cum. But she was hot and I did eventually cum in her so it was all good.
>Did she knew
No I think she might have found out when my pc rebooted and loaded up an /adv/ thread I made onto my tv. No joke. Fuck winblows. She never brought it up but broke up shortly after.

>>32598614
rage bait lol

>>32598540
Most people have sex for the first time when they are teenagers. Because they're all filled with hormones that makes them want to fuck and they have poor impulse control on top of it. If you didn't, it's probably because you're a loser and the girls didn't want you.

>>32599268
I’m 30 and so horny I have to go 5 times a day just to function. And I can fantasize with my eyes closed. But I keep feeling this dread that grabs me and pushes me down because I never got to date a teen and now women my age are old wrinkly covered in tattoos and piercings and vomit skin and have had sex with more than 2 people(also racemixing).

>>32595069
I was in a very similar situation. I was 36 and she was... well she was legal. In my country. I think. But she knew, we talked a lot and had dirty talk before. It was good, a bit difficult for me beacuse im very tall but overall enjoyable. Then we lived together for two years. Her mask slipped more more and im glad that bpd demon is gone.

>>32599268
Post hands.

>>32596941
This level of gaslighting is criminal

I haven't yet. 21 in a month. Honestly it sucks because I always compare myself to the dude my 15 yr old sister is fucking. Like, how lucky do you have to be to not have any social problems, and get to fuck whoever you want before you're even old enough to get your driver's license? You're not even technically mature enough to have a relationship at that age, but here they are. Oh and they drink and do shrooms too. And mom let's them do it, because I'm sure she does not want her to go down the same path as me. A bitter lonely loser who never took any chances in life.
I get super depressed about my virginity all the time. I was a way bigger loser when I was still a NEET, but now I have a job, and enough money for an escort, but I'm still stuck on the "w-well we should just wait to see if we can get some for free!! trust the plan" mindset.
I know deep down it will never happen. Women are literally repelled by autism. I'm so socially obtuse, even if I paid to get into a club or a party, I'd just exist. No one would come up to me and talk.

>>32599559
>I always compare myself to the dude my 15 yr old sister is fucking.
Where's your father? He deserves to have his balls sawed off for letting his whore daughter bring such shame onto the family.
And you right after him if you don't take his position as man of the house and do something about it.

>>32599559
>but I'm still stuck on the "w-well we should just wait to see if we can get some for free!! trust the plan" mindset.

I lost my virginity to a whore right before my 19th birthday. The 5 year anniversary is in less than a month and I still haven't had sex without paying.
I've had girls approach, ask me out, even ended up in a bed with a girl from the club but we still didn't have sex. Women are repulsed by non-NTs.

>>32598425
>>32599549
Its the truth. The only people that put pussy on a pedestal are the men who feel pussy is out of their reach. Once you discover its not, then all that changes is that you realize how stupid you were for thinking it ever was.

Sex isnt a religious experience, it isnt an eye opening moment, its just an animalistic impulse, no different from breathing or shitting. Absolute losers have it.

>>32599588
Cope, more gaslighting.
I'm an incel but even just kissing a girl puts me in an amazing mood for days, even weeks, it's like a drug.
I remember once when I almost had a gf almost 2 years ago now.
I remember sitting down in a bar with her, talking, making out, her telling me she masturbates thinking about me.
It felt so amazing feeling normal for once despite the fact that I wasn't super attracted to her.
What you're saying is basically the same as "food isn't all that good bro" to a homeless starving negro child.

>>32599602
The n**ro child wouldn’t be starving around white people. Whites love to give it all to them even their women.

>>32599529
Loser detected

I'm a virgin at 28, currently talking to a 33yo woman who lives in another city. We are going to meet up in a few months. I told her I'm not a virgin and she legitimately has no idea, but it's giving me a lot of anxiety cause I'm scared she's gonna know lmao. I'm even doing kegels and all the exercises.

>>32594844
>How did you feel the day after?
Exactly the same as I felt the day before. Virginity is a meme - it's not a real thing. If you had a team of experts and the finest medical diagnostic and scanning equipment in the world, you couldn't reliably determine whether someone is a virgin or not. Absolutely nothing happens to the body or the brain as a result of having sex once. Literally nothing. You are exactly the same.

>Bonus question: Did she knew?
Yes, I told her. A very, very good decision.

>>32600007
>I told her I'm not a virgin
Bad move. You should've kept silent. And if she was the one who asked you should've turned the question around and switch topics. Women hate liars.

t. Femanon

>>32600167
post hand with timestamp, "femanon".

>>32594844
Lost it at 26 to girl on tinder while overseas. She didn't know I was a virgin and I dont think she realised because I am athletic and sex just felt normal and like excercise to me. We had hours of sex that night and next morning and she keep hitting me up afterwards

The next day I felt good just knowing I'd lost my virginity but the feeling didn't last long. Almost bitter-sweet because I finally knew what I missed in earlier years.

These days I made up for the lost time and for me sex is good but it's not the be all end all. I like the periods before sex and after sex better. Before sex when the tension is in the air and I get a rush when I make the move and we start fooling around as foreplay.
And after sex is great just laying in bed next to a woman I love and having slow chats about nothing and laughing

>>32599465
sounds brazilian

>>32596941
wrong, if you remain virgin you get to cast Fireball

>>32599588
it is still a milestone that men need to reach, otherwise you are failing as a human.

>>32594844
Lost it at 29 to a girl I loved (I’m still with her). Honestly, I felt no different afterwards. The affection and tenderness that she heaps onto me is way more desirable than sex, which I’ve never cared about in the first place.

NO POINT IN LOSING VIRGINITY. WOMEN SUCK BLOOD, MONEY, AND TIME. WORTHELSS FUCKING GENDER I'm HAPPY BEING 28 Y/O KHHV

F
I lost it at 24
I finally felt at peace, I felt a little nervous that I’d be “different” but I’m still me

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>>32594844
Lost it at 24. In fact I was even kissless until just 3 months earlier

I didn't tell her but it became fucking obvious, specially because days earlier we failed to have sex because I didn't know what the fuck I was doing.

The night it finally happened, when I was about to enter her I got nervous again and then she asked me, but a lot of the itme when a woman asks, she already knows the answer and just wants to confirm. Then she took the initiative and helped me relax until I was finally able to score.

Next morning I was on the clouds. At 24 you don't have much innocence left, by then I was already cynical and didn't expect much. I knew from other people the first time was usually underwhelming or straight up bad. But fuck me for all the misfortune I've had in my love life, my first time was so damn perfect.

Even if she only dated me to forget about a painful breakup, even we only had sex once more before she cut me, even if I spent the next 7 years sexless, even if I had to resort to hookers ever since. I'll always have that, and I'll always treasure it, and be able to remember and smile a little bit.