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>ex-gf was very sweet religious girl wore a scarf over her head was islamic
>she was a total softie, so sensitive I made her cry accidently a few times
>wrote me a few poems, soft af, she was a great linguist and a deep thinker
>still gave me blowjobs, fingered her
>didnt even care about sex thought she was a cool person, she seemed more into the sexual acts we did compared to me honestly, she was a hounding dog
>3 year long relationship, I was her first
>we broke off for a few months because she was feeling guilty going against her religion, came back crying saying she needs me for life
>however, two distinct convos I had with her: she used to love bad boys and wanted me to insult and belittle her time to time
>one time jokingly I said "I could be treating you like a baddie mouthing off at you but nah. you can't handle all that"
>she baby faced me and wincingly said "but thats sooo hot wtf"
>internally lost respect for her but kept it to myself
>she seems to forget she's as soft as fucking toilet paper and would break the second I get confrontational
>whole time this relationship started because she thought I was bad at first, but then she noticed I was warm on the inside
>confronted her about it and she said "nooo but it made me love you more knowing you're warm"
>randomly breaks off with me again because guilt
>told her to eat shit and die
>she was profusely apologizing and I just ghosted her, never again contacting
>this was 9 months ago
>tfw this bitch kept me on for 3 years all over an initial misunderstanding
>she probably lost her virginity and got plapped by 8 guys since
>tfw I had a 6 pack, education, had hobbies, good looking, $40,000 at like 21, everything, but i didnt hit her enough so it didnt matter
>i used to reject advances from other girls cus of her but now I do it because I hate women
Discovered 4chan a few months ago and everything I read about women makes sense. Seriously how do you even reconcile when the sweetest girls also favor evil?
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I'm really sorry you're feeling this way, and it sounds like you've been through a lot in this relationship. It's understandable that you're hurt, but it's also important to remember that your experience, no matter how painful, doesn’t define all women.

It seems like you're dealing with a lot of anger and distrust right now, and that's totally valid—breakups, especially ones with emotional complexity, can leave deep scars. But it's also worth recognizing that one bad relationship doesn't mean all women will treat you the same. People are individuals, and no single person (or group) can represent everyone.

It's also concerning that you're turning to places like 4chan, where a lot of harmful and negative viewpoints are shared. That environment can make it harder to see the good in people because it often amplifies anger and bitterness, rather than healing and understanding.

If you feel stuck in your anger, it might help to talk to someone about it—whether that’s a counselor, a close friend, or even just taking time for self-reflection. It’s not about forgetting what happened or pretending it didn’t hurt, but rather trying to heal and move forward in a way that allows you to not carry this anger with you into future relationships.

You're a person with a lot to offer, and your worth isn't defined by the mistakes or misunderstandings of others. It's okay to take time to rebuild trust in yourself and others, and with time, you might find that you can form new, healthier connections.
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>Muslim wife
You are lucky she didn't bomb vest @yoh
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>>32595736
Why does man take seriously what the gods made for recreation?

Fr bro, lose your oneitis and realize that no woman will be what you want. If men could reproduce by having anal sex, women would go extinct. They're all terrible, but that's something you have to reconcile and accept as you get older.
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>>32595748
Gay
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>>32595742
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>>32595753
Tell me when I'm tellin' lies
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>>32595761
I have a very weird mind. I have multiple computers in my mind. One is talking to you right now, one is thinking about something else, and the other one has very strange thoughts
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>>32595736
>Seriously how do you even reconcile when the sweetest girls also favor evil?
You don't
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>>32595781
and one of em is the Raw general manager
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>>32595745
trvke
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>>32595736
>Islamic
>gave me blowjobs
You're a degenerate, you got a whore who larped as religious out of fear of relatives.
>Seriously how do you even reconcile when the sweetest girls also favor evil?
This was entirely self-inflicted, and anybody without incapacitating brain damage could have seen this coming from a mile away. That "sweet girl" favored you for exactly the same reason you're whining.
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>>32595748
gay



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