How can I hint at wanting a submissive bf on dating apps? I don't want anything explicitly lewd, but enough so that the people who know, know.
Say you're looking for a "good boy" or something
>>32596999Big fan of girls that want a 'submissive' boyfriend, personally. To me all that means is they want to be dominated, but they also want to put up a fight. It's playful. They blush more than anyone else.
>>32596999Say something like "cant be insecure if I'm taller than you in heels" if you're younger or "your future wife wants a happy life" if you're older
>>32596999"strong, independent woman"
>>32597802Okay the first one is great, thank you!>>32598392but while I want a submissive bf, I am sensitive...
oh look it's another variation of the false hope threads that have been posted lately>I am an asian, how do I make white nerdy boys notice me>I am autistic, how do I find a shy boy>I want to be a tradwife, how do I find a boy who appreciates me being a virginetc etc
>>32599594It's not false hope it's a genuine question. I do indeed want a boyfriend who leans submissive. There are other women that do too, I know multiple IRL. Not saying it's the majority of women obviously, but if you want a dominant gf, it's not impossible at all. I'm also actually a virgin but that might be too much for you to comprehend or believe
>>32596999"You don't mind if I take charge."
>>32596999Just say you're a tranny
>>32596999Just say what you want, why do women have to be retarded like this. you're already gonna get 300+ simp idiots a day willing to bend over backwards for you just put in the description what you want so you are not wasting anyone's time. cannot believe i just had to type out something that should be common sense.
>>32599921I'm not though>>32599965The reason I don't want to be too lewd/explicit is because I'm looking for a relationship, and I don't want to attract freaks who are just looking to get pegged. that's why I wanted something that was a little more vanilla but still implied what I wanted it to. It's just for the dating app profile anyway, I plan to go into more detail on the first date to set expectations
>>32596999"looking for a sub"
in the pictures you can dress up as a police officer, a ceo in a corner office, and a big game hunter in africa
>>32600277Haha that's a cute idea I like that
>>32596999Go to advanced settings (probably a premium feature) and check "Liberal" in the politics section.
if you are who I think you are, just wait until the 24th :)
>>32602365I don't really want a liberal man though... I guess maybe I can convert him>>32602427I'm not, sorry
>>32596999Viking queen requires courtiers
>>32596999need a cute, submissive, mentally ill man that stinks good who depends solely on me for mental comfort because he is too stuck in his retarded moided emotions to reach out to anyone else. need idiot stupid man to be mine and only mine. my property. who will do anything to keep me, worship me, cry and jerk off when im not at home.
>>32596999Fake.
>>32603618literally say you want a submissive guy, but not someone who's into pegging.
>>32603673I can kinda see the appeal but also how do you build a functioning life with someone like that?>>32603640I like it>>32603711I wish it was!>>32603717I do want him into pegging though. At least vaguely interested maybe
>>32596999"I don't like the bad boy type, I like good boys"
Say you're a dominant woman seeking a "good boy" or some shit like that. Also I'll drop my contact info if you respond kek
>>32604348>I do want him into pegging though. At least vaguely interested maybeok i hate to have to tell you but you'll have to hunt feeld or fetlife. you're just going to create awkward situations if you're not explicit about that. even guys that are very into kink-alluding tinder profiles will absolutely melt down if they weren't expecting to be receptive partners for anal sex, to the point where they won't want to pursue relationships with you anymore
>>32605929I appreciate this perspective, and I get what you're saying. What % of men who would identify themselves as submissive would also be into, or just open to pegging, do you think? Pegging's not a end all be all for me but I think it would be interesting to try.Also, I've heard of Feeld but I got the impression that it was more for poly people or people looking just to hookup. Are there many monogamous people looking for long term relationships on there?
>>32596999Say you play DPS in video games, and you're looking for a guy to play healer.
>>32596999Just put some esoteric sex toy in the background somewhere, the perverts will notice.
>>32599965>why do women have to be retarded like thisbecause they want men who figure these kinds of things out themselves. in their minds it makes it more interesting and the guy probably makes for a better partner (even if it's not actually true)
>>32596999better question how do i make my profile attract women who want a submissive bf? i feel like if i make a profile that doesnt give dominant vibes it gets way less likes.
>>32605960what are your standards in a partner? its going to be more difficult the more conventionally attractive and masculine they are. not saying you have to date an ugly troll, but 6 foot + chad is not gonna be into getting fucked in the ass.
>>32609641Honestly I think that's probably because there's a lot less women who want submissive men. So if you make your profile obviously submissive less women will send likes, sadly. Whatever you do I would say to avoid including things that are overtly sexual, if you're looking for a relationship, at least. Men who include lewd or sexual things on their dating profiles just strike me as immature and honestly, slutty...any mention of "mommy" in a dating profile is just cringe and so watered down nowadays. I feel like half of the men who have some mention of the "mommy" in their dating profile aren't actually serious about wanting an actual power dynamic they just want a gf with big boobs who will coddle them. which isn't a crime but it's an ick to me
>>32609677Not super high. I already like guys who are shorter than me (I'm 5'8) and I like a broad range of men, including ones who are unconventionally attractive (like acne, weird facial features, slightly overweight, etc).
>>32609686I'm not trying to be that guy, but if thats the case i think we could get along. I am shorter than you, and im not really looking for the overtly freudian "mommy" dynamic.
>>32609696I appreciate that! But I'm looking for an IRL relationship
>>32609748Fair enough. Unless you live in the northeast US. Good luck
>>32609686I am trying to be that guy and more. I'm 5'11", slim athletic build, assertive and open minded, and awesome. Southwest US ; p BIGETY BAM!
>>32609904>>32609882Sorry I don't even live in the US right now
>>32609927It's alright, babe, one day we'll cross paths, I just know it.
>>32599594The 2nd and 3rd but unironically
>>32609941I don't think the 2nd and 3rd are impossible to find at all desu. I'm technically diagnosed autistic but I don't think I am, I want a shy bf, and I am a virgin who probably leans more trad in terms of family/life goals and general political ideology. I know two other women who are similar
>>32610120>I know two other women who are similarall chad only
>>32610495Maybe one of them. But the other is exclusively into super nerdy looking guys (albeit tall ones).
>>32604348>I can kinda see the appeal but also how do you build a functioning life with someone like that?I'm making enough money to support my own personal neet. I had one before, but broke up because he didn't want kids. le sigh
>>32610558>albeit tall oneskek
>>32610560Interesting. I think it could be fun being the breadwinner but also it seems difficult to raise a family on one income in this economy >>32610571take it up with biology idk what to tell you
>>32596999why "hint"?
>>32610701It's just a kind of intimate part of my personal life I don't really want to explicitly broadcast in a semi-public way. I'd be happy to discuss it more in person with someone.
>>32610675>take it up with biologyi too think women are vapid by nature
