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Essentially, I have a coworker who is my work crush. We have been friends since we joined the company at the same time two years ago. We often hang out in a social setting with our other coworkers, but not together individually. I have no interest, however, in actually pursuing a relationship with her even though I find her very attractive. This is because I really like my job and wonder if dating a coworker could impact my prospects for further promotions.

Lately, she has been acting a little strange. She has not been saying hello to me when she sees me in the hallways at work sometimes and then avoids eye contact. And otherwise, she gives me kind of confused and strange looks.

The flip side to this is that she has been texting me, asking me how I’m doing, etc. we text pretty often but I’ve started dialing back my texts due to being worried about her behavior. she just texted me happy birthday after ignoring me at work all day yesterday. Been texting me a lot more than usual.

We had a work party where she completely ignored me but introduced her new boyfriend.

Did I do something? Do I ask her? Does it have to do with the boyfriend?
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you posted this already
move on, she has a bf and is probably not interested, plus shitting were you eat, etc
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>>32597143
Are you this guy?:
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>>32597143
Don't shit where you eat



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