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how do you deal with drifting apart from friends in your mid twenties?
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Drifting apart from friends in your mid-twenties can be tough, but it's natural. People change and priorities shift. It’s okay to feel sad about it, but also acknowledge that friendships evolve. If it matters to you, try reaching out and have an honest conversation about it. Sometimes it’s just about finding a new rhythm with each other. And if it fades, that's okay too. Sometimes friendships run their course. Just stay open to new connections as well.
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>>32597934
make an effort to maintain relationships you want to keep
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>>32597934
I reach out every once in a while and make new friends. I also write my messages more long form and epistolary so that they know that there isn't any pressure to respond quickly
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>>32597934
This is a normal part of life. People change as they age and they drift apart. I just focus on my job and earning money.
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>>32599176
>just focus on my job and earning money.
bleak as hell, this isnt how life is meant to be lived
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you really need to develop a dedication in brainstorming new ways to make new friends after you leave college
this is the challenge I set up for 2025 and I am in the same situation as you. currently I managed to find a weekly international meetup in my city, the first impressions were good and Im yet to see what I can gain from it by being a regular
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>>32599176
This, all the wagie cattle are going through what you are going through OP. The only value these worthless goyim wagies have is their labor hence why most of them lose their wagie friends which are also in the same situation as them.
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>>32597934
staying closer with the ones worth it and just let it happen wit the rest
it happens to all of us
at some point I think I had over 50 friends, I was very socially active
now I have around 10
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>>32597934
It's schizomaxxing for me. I talk to myself out loud. Full dialogue; only I can hear my collocutor. I laugh at my own jokes that nobody else hears. I was destined for this. I make a great friend.
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>>32597934
You're supposed to be married by now
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>heh, sometimes im really amazed at how long term i think
i broke up with all of my friends and the clique when i turned 20, burying even the longest and best friendships.
idk anon i dont have to deal with it
i think one just moves on as they say
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>>32597934
I just watched this a few hours ago, it's pretty reasonable what she's saying
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kxw8vzgswGA
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>>32599320
based and chudpilled, literally me



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