I have a friend who I have mutual feelings for, but I want kids and she doesn't. We agreed that a relationship would likely end in heartbreak and disaster so we never got into one.Around when we first met, I went down on her and in return she gave me the best handie I've ever received. Some time soon after this we had the relationship talk and our differing plans regarding kids kind of killed the possibility of anything. We stayed friends and it's a genuine delight to be around each other.The other night she texted me and I think she was hinting at wanting to fuck. I pretended to be oblivious to her comically obvious hints because I didn't want to risk either of us developing stronger feelings for the other.I saw her a few days later and she was pretty touchy-feely and was clearly trying to get me to make a move.The way I see it, my options are:>Remain friends as we are now>FWB scenario and hope my mild crush doesn't turn into something more intense>Get into relationship and abandon the idea of children>Get into relationship and try to convince her to have kids/hope she changes her mindThe other compounding factor is that I think the temptation is stronger for both of us due to our lack of success in dating. She's struggling to sift through the sea of betas and pajeets and, though my dates are usually decent-to-high quality, I'm struggling to get past the third date with most women because they either ghost me or I realize how dumb or immature they are and dump them.We both know that if at least one of us could get over our plans regarding children then we wouldn't have problems finding someone any more because we would get together. And the longer it goes on the more tempting it becomes.What do?
>>32598162Just fuck her and see where it goes. Maybe if you fuck her stupid, she'll forget not wanting kids.
>>32598162why would you ever have a female friend. If she says stupid shit like shes lesbian or asexual just go dennis reynolds and explain: "how could you not understand that the reason i went out with and talked to you - was to bang you" shoo away from me
>>32598162Gee, you’ve been simping for a thot, how swell.Something’s wrong with the girl diffuser.She ain’t your buddy, tell her to go away!Can’t she go bother someone else?Tell her to hold still and let you dump herGood riddance, you almost got burnedYou found the commitment, she can’t try to keep up.I guess you should be thankful.
>>32598162just fuck her. you don't want it to be 5 years from now and you're going "damn i wish i fucked her when i had the chance"
>>32598394youre the type of embarrassing mf that thinks hes cool for emulating tv characters
>>32598394Because I am a normal and social member of society.
>>32598735i am cool, nerdi like to emulate serial killers like richard ramirez ted bundy and jeffrey dahmer it gives me an aura like no other
>>32598162Why tf would you want to convince her to have crotch goblins? She's been clear to you she doesn't want any. Take her seriously (respect her unlike all men on this board) and find a woman who wants to ruin her life by breeding.
>>32598803you sound well adjusted
>>32598803You’re absolutely right. All men should desire women who don’t want to have a family. The sexiest woman of all is the one who sits there, spending money on material consumer goods, doomscrolls social media, and just sits there doing nothing other than existing day to day, making no meaningful connections, nurturing nothing except addictions and depression. What a fantastic life to share with a woman.
>>32598162how old are you two?if she's too old she won't be swayedand kids are very important to people who want them, you're gonna resent herfwb is the best case scenario but are you sure you can manageI have a fwb but she was very angry with me for a while because she wanted something moreshe actually moved here for a short while while going from house to house when this happened and she left without a clear place to stay in at some point because she was so hurt/angry at menow she has a bf but we're still fwbshe thinks I'd do the same if I get a gftruth is, I wont. I hope she doesn't get mad if/when that happens
