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>Ex broke up with me
>Dont know why since she only named bullshit reasons and kept denying that she simply didnt really love me
>Loved her and did things for her like no one else ever did
>Also was extremely attractive to her, would have sex with her daily, made her shake and squirt all the time, she loved passionately sucking my dick everywhere even one week before breaking up
>Starting to resent her so I'm forming a plan in my head
>Know I was the only person to make her feel special and like a girl, not a whore
>Know that she will just get treated like a whore by other dudes (meaning they will leave once they see the obvious redflags or just use her for sex and then leave)
>She'll probably come crawling back when her ego is completely destroyed because she thinks I'll make her feel like a person again
>When she does that, I'll tell her that she's a generic worthless boring whore, that I was blinded by love and she's not special to me anymore, just some whore
>Gonna tell her that I will not get back into a relationship with her or even be friends with her, I'll just treat her like the whore she is
>Know she'll also probably like it since she always wanted me to do stuff like choke her, called me daddy and so on
>In short, I just wanna make her my whore
What do you guys think about my plan? Should I go differently about it?
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nigger, my ex cheated on me for FIVE years with God knows how many dudes, and I only found out because I read her diary while she was asleep, just to see if I really am 'jealous and controlling'.
The shit I read would make a lesser man retch.
Just let go and move on. There is NOTHING to be gained from vengeance.
Also she's probably passionately sucking off the guy you were told not to worry about -- women only dump men once they've secured their next catch.
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>>32598593
>Also she's probably passionately sucking off the guy you were told not to worry about
Thats just extra motivation to treat her like the whore she is though
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It's tough to tell you to "be happy" right now, because obviously what she did hurt. But when someone tells you who they are, believe them. If she's going to break up with you for no good reason, and move on with someone else, then try and be thankful you two didn't get married or have kids. Vengeance does nothing but harm the soul, eventually you'll find someone who actually loves you and respects you for real.
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>>32598577
>She'll probably come crawling back
You just sit there in your basement and keep telling yourself that, while she's getting on with life.
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>>32598831
Maybe you're right, but I'm more or less sure on my decision, I'll find out through experience
>>32598976
I have a pretty active social life and am already talking to multiple other girls
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>>32598577
The opposite of love is indifference. Planning this whole revenge fantasy just keeps you stuck on her, someone you claim is worthless and not worthy of your time or energy. It also shows her that you're not over her. You shouldn't be doing shit from the perspective of wanting to hurt her, for the reasons above, but also because the most hurtful thing you can do to a person like that is to forget them and move on. Hell, she may even *want* you to hate her, to give her some emotional response that shows that you still care on some level. Don't give it to her. Let go, detach, move on and live better for yourself. No words you could say can sting nearly as much as her seeing that you don't think about her at all, and that you're happy with yourself or someone new, that her relevance in your life has ceased irrevocably.
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>>32598577
>What do you guys think about my plan?
That you are a profoundly sad, pathetic little man.

Try moving on instead.
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>>32598593
>The shit I read would make a lesser man retch.
share it please



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