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i have a fetish for women stepping on insects which is basically impossible to find one who would *not* be wierded out by it - is it better to hide such things?
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>>32598590
yeah thats gross, hide it and hope you forget
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>>32598590
im open to a lot of fetishes, and i mean a lot. but killing insects is absolutely a no from me and i dont think i could be with you if i found that out
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>>32598590
Could you recreate that feeling using models or stuffed animals?
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>>32598590
What the fuck is that cartoon mammal? I keep seeing zoomers post it. Tf does it mean
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>>32598590
so yesterday I had to step on a cockroach and I can swear it exploded like it was only liquids inside
it was the nastiest thing I've seen in a while, and I had to clean pipes some months ago because our maintenance guy was grieving.
how can someone be turned on by that baffles me to no end
some kids should have died as infants
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>>32598590
You and the Pink Panther

(dead ant, dead ant, deadantdeadantdeadantdeadant dead annnnnnt)
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>>32599107
???
how old do you have to be to understand that reference/joke?
70?
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>>32598590
stop reposting on here faggot.
sage
sage
sage
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>>32598590
Anything that involves killing or hurting living beings against their will should probably be hidden, yeah.
If you really, really, really trust a girl I guess you could tell her you look at hentai images of it but would never do it irl or something.
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>>32598590
why do you freaking have that disgusting fetish?

honestly, scat fetish is leagues less disgusting just because it's 100x less sociopathic and cruel

you shouldn't hide it because the girl should have a right to know
-f
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>>32598590
>i have a fetish for women stepping on insects which is basically impossible to find one who would *not* be wierded out by it - is it better to hide such things?
Well, sure as fuck don't lead with it when talking to anyone.

Here's the thing.
There are fetishes a person loves that they actively want to pursue. They should tell a committed partner about them because if they can never engage with them, it will cause issues. A person with such a fetish might be better off leaving a relationship than never telling their partner about them.
If you *need* this, tell a committed partner.

Then there are mild fetishes that a person enjoys, likes, and would like to engage in, but can easily do without.
For me, this would be latex and PVC clothing. Hot as fuck but if it were a deal breaker, I can live without it forever.
If you can live without it, don't mention it unless you're very deep in the relationship and then expect your partner to be grossed out and make fun of you for it.

Then there are strong, intense fetishes that a person desperately wants to engage in but is sane and rational enough to know the difficulty involved. So they don't pursue it.
For me, knives and blood play might be a good example. I love knives. I can keep them out of the bed because it's dangerous. But I still occasionally fantasize about it and would engage in the fetish if I could.
If you want to engage in this fetish before you die, cautiously feel out your committed partner before bringing it up. Lots of chaste, non-fetish conversations can be had about squishing bug and how relatively gross it is. I'll kill any bug in my house for trespassing, bare skin or whatever, but I never kill bugs outside.

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>>32599301
Then there are black box fetishes. A person can develop a sexual interest in something that simply should NEVER be explored. You can imagine several I'm sure.
Mine is that I developed the idea of stabbing a woman and fucking the hole. It's ridiculous, stupid, and lethal. There's no way to do it. So I never think about it. I never engage in thoughts about it. I literally only allow myself to remember it when unacceptable fetishes come up on 4chan.

And that's the the thing about fetishes. If you ignore them, they literally don't matter. That desire of mine won't ever matter.
If you want to explore your fetish, I recommend AI art and deep fake videos. Or maybe researching a professional photoshoot.
But there's no reason to explore a fetish that you're not enthusiastic about and that is difficult to share. Yes, it's hot to you. So are other things. Focus on the other things.

Chasing a fetish is a losing game because it is a pleasurable IDEA, not a reality. The more you focus and refine it, the more it becomes about an ideal instead of the pleasure. It's the Death Grip effect on your mind. Eventually, you can't get hard unless the fetish is involved in some way. It's a losing game.

Sex is fun and pleasurable. Seo explore and have fun. Don't fixate or get bogged down in shame. Don't do anything you wouldn't be proud of. Fap with pride.
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>>32599305
I have an extreme gore/snuff fetish and I just want to say I relate to you a lot.
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>>32599285
>cruel
>>32598825
>killing insects is absolutely a no from me
>>32599254
>killing or hurting living beings
Grow the fuck up. They're fucking insects you sheltered children. Do have any idea how many living beings need to be killed in order to make the food you eat?
Squishing is a better death than poison.
They're fucking insects. They literally kill and eat each other. They're going to live and die.
At least wait until anon moves up to fish before clutching your pearls. Sweet fuck.
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>>32599334
Yes, insects kill and eat each other and are going to live and die. Humans kill them routinely without thought. But there is a difference between insects killing each other or humans killing insects for 'necessary'/'circle of life' reasons, versus some dude trapping insects to kill them purely for jacking off purposes.

Guy kills ants to stop infestation in his house: Normal.
Guy tortures ants to death while furiously jacking off: Needs to be in jail, needs to not reproduce.
-f
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>>32599326
>an extreme gore/snuff fetish
Yeah. That'd be what I call a black box fetish, personally. Very difficult to engage in on any level with any degree of responsibility.
Whereas I have a touch of necrophilia that I feel fine about fantasizing about because I don't need it to be real to be enticing.

That's another aspect. Some fetishes are enticing due to aspects that don't require it to be real. Like my necrophilia is about pale, cold, passivity, and Beyond Death. No one literally needs to die.
But play pretending to stab a woman would be lame and stupid. I want to actually stab her, actually fuck the hole, and then have her be fine and dandy afterwards. There's no way.
I also want to stab and slash people non-sexually, but that's just a knife thing. Hopefully never need to.

For you, you should explore why you like what you like. And what elements are necessary for you to like it. And why.

Like most of the reason I love short hair is because I falsely associated it with a free spirited attitude and I love necks.
Oddly, I would never cut or stab a woman's neck. They're for kissing.
I understand why I like what I like.
And that must others wouldn't understand it.
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damn bro, I can tell where does your fetish come from because I have a femdom + high heels fetish and my peak sexual satisfaction is a woman trampling my cock on a CBT table wearing worn heels that I find appealing
but this insect crush shit is just way too disgusting for me, I don't embrace the food crush shit as well. I know it is somewhat attractive when putting the femdom lenses, but this would definitely enter in my hard limit list and I can't even fap to it
I struggle to uncover my fetish and put it in action, so what I mostly do is visiting a fetishist escort when Im too horny. I am still too insecure in introducing it to vanilla girls
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>>32599374
>Guy kills ants to stop infestation in his house: Normal.
>Guy tortures ants to death while furiously jacking off: Needs to be in jail, needs to not reproduce.
You people genuinely can't see how much you define the fictional term "normie", can you?

Hmmm? You know... You know what I've noticed? Nobody panics when things go "according to plan." Even if the plan is horrifying! If, tomorrow, I tell the press that, like, a gang banger will get shot, or a truckload of soldiers will be blown up, nobody panics, because it's all "part of the plan". But when I say that one little old anon will fap to a woman quickly killing bugs, well then everyone loses their minds.

The difference between me and the Joker here is that he wanted to create chaos and I want people to not lose their minds and not permanently condemn a human life over a bug.

It's literally fucking nothing. Stepping on an insect is literally the go-to example for a low consequence, nothing effort.
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>>32599075
>how can someone be turned on by that baffles me to no end
100% understandable. Completely normal take. Even among the fetish community.

>some kids should have died as infants
Eh, technically not untrue but hyperbolic here and I believe very few fetishes stem from infancy.
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>>32599452
>understandable
I meant respectable. It's time for me to get coffee.
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>>32598590
Hide it and try to remove it in secret. There's a good post on looksmax.org on how to get rid of fetishes.
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>>32598590
I'm a pissfag and I've never told a single woman I've dated. I'm too scared of the reaction.
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>>32598590
Can you please explain the appeal? Genuinely curious
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>>32598590
Any woman who would be willing to put up with that WILL be insane, and more insane than you are.
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>>32599436
>It's literally fucking nothing. Stepping on an insect is literally the go-to example for a low consequence, nothing effort.

Explain the appeal of the fetish, then.
Pretty sure it's: "Woman is so cruel that she's snubbing out an innocent life."
Otherwise why not play with dirt and mud. Non-sentient things.
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>>32599374
fr man, everyone here acting like im hitler
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>>32599197
Zoomer here. I cracked a laugh.
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>>32598590
reminds me of the video of a praying mantis eating a girl's nipple
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>>32600224
Ew
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>>32598590
how many times have you posted a thread about this same fetish? answer is the same every time - if you want to find a woman who will do this, you will have to pay her.
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>>32600239
why does it bother you so much?
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>>32599057
chill out
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>>32600250
it doesn't really bother me, I just don't know what you're getting out of posting about it so much. is having people on here discuss the fetish part of the fetish?
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>>32599075
you're not supposed to smash them thats how eggs spread
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>>32600051
>>32599301
whats the appeal of vore? you think theres a reason i have it? i just do, always have.
had to look up what PVC clothing is. to me this is just latex but tighter. hot. slightly more out there than normie kneesocks but why the hell would any woman be grossed out by a clothes fetish?
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>>32600051
>Explain the appeal of the fetish, then.
Idunno. It's not mine, but there's a lot of connotations to made there.
I mean, does it have to be a real live bug? Would a realistic fake one work?
I don't know. It varies.
A fake dead girl would work for me but not fake pain. It varies.

But making a snap judgement and basing further snap condemnation upon it is never a good look.
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>>32600382
>why the hell would any woman be grossed out by a clothes fetish?
I saw true crime story where a wife thought the idea of wearing vinyl red boots to bed was insane and would have no part of it. Admittedly she found out her husband later killed a bunch of prostitutes.

>whats the appeal of vore? you think theres a reason i have it? i just do, always have.
It depends on what about it is appealing. The idea of the process or the idea of the concept.
I read something about the eaten being permanently a part of the eater and that having resonance.

And sometimes it's oral fixation but the nuclear option.

What aspects do think about and why do you like them? Remove elements until it's unappealing and figure out why.
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>>32600051
its hybrystophilia at its core..i like sadistic women
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>>32600416
i like soft vore, not the hard bloody death reality kind. so thats one thing. and its gotta feature at least one hot human woman since im straight. dont care if shes eating or eaten, giantess or normal, long as the quality's good. and i dont like the really fat stuff. i think at the core it has something to do with domination/submission but idk. i just like to see it, and grew up on a lot of media that featured characters getting eaten in some way. im also childish so i can imagine away and forgive it being only a fantasy without the rules of reality. but other than that, no idea why. ive always had it even before it was sexual past puberty.
>oral fixation but the nuclear option.
explain more on that? one way i like to manifest it in reality is watching a girl's mouth in porn, like when she swallows with her mouth open, or listening to my gf (when i had one) belly after eating. i'd never tell her though
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how does someone get off to woman stepping on insects? not the "weirdest" thing ever but like how?
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>>32600508
plenty of guys like to be stepped on by women. op just considers himself to be less than a man, a bug. makes sense to me
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>>32600508
see this
>>32600435
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>>32600435
yeah so you jack off to the real torture and murder of innocent things. probably not even restricted to bugs for you.
also, to reiterate, you are yourself getting pleasure from this despite there being a 'messenger' of a woman faciliatating it.
i truly am disgusted by that and not in any sort of sexy way. i sincerely hope you rid yourself of your sadism against torturing and killing living things. goodbye.
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>>32599718
on my second hookup with a guy he told me he wanted to piss on me. i was totally fine with it but he never did end up peeing on me
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>>32601308
I'd rather be pissed on honestly; and that's the problem. I feel as though no woman would view you as a respectable man after that.
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Oh yeah

>>32599197
The source was last used in 2006 so, older than about 15, I think.
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>>32600508
>not the "weirdest" thing ever but like how?
You have no idea how deep the rabbit hole goes
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>>32600382
I do have a reason for my fetish, it's not always "illogical"
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>>32598590
Eh, it's odd but not harmful. I'd say share it
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>>32601350
id be fine with that too, but im a bit freaky
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>>32599197
Zoomer here, I used to watch Pink Panther clips on jewtube while I was at my grand parents.



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