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When you are alone and get the urge should you suppress it or not?
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>>32599173
No, crying is gay
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>>32599173
There is no ‘should’. You either cry or you don’t. Crying is helpful for everyone, man or woman. It’s how your body processes stress, gets it out your system. So if the goal is to shed weakness (being stressed or anxious), then you do that by shedding tears. Suppressing just pushes it all down and keeps it pent up. Makes men into bitches which is a twist of irony.
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>>32599173
cry away
who's gonna tell anyone
everyone cries
"manly tears" they used to say here some years ago to excuse them from crying from time to time
since then most have become normal members of society so they cry if they need to
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>>32599173
Just do it. It's a good emotional release. Maybe don't cry in front of others but if you're alone who cares?
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>>32599173
Nah, your eye bags will get swollen and everyone will think youre a faggot.
>"oh look, anon is all swollen and his eyes are redder, he must've been crying, what wuss"
Keep it all bottled up inside and never show any weakness
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>>32599173
Jesus man, of course. The whole point of being a man is to put up an act. If crying alone helps you with that, then do it. Doing it in front of your mother is also ok.
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>>32599269
Nothing but homos and fat girls on /adv/, same as it ever was
>>32599173
In all seriousness though, it depends on why you're crying and how often you do it. If you're moved by something external like great art, watching someone overcome extreme difficulty, ect. It's normal to feel emotion and even cry from time to time. Just don't cry in front of other people.

If you're crying over your personal problems, or because you're scared and don't know what to do, that's some straight bitch shit and it's not how an adult male should carry himself. If you do this you are literally conditioning yourself to be weak and lack basic problem solving skills and psychological resilience.



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