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Is it wrong to feel less of a man because you don't have a girlfriend?
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>>32600633
Don't worry about it. Just keep trying. I'm sure you have some redeeming quality about you.
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>>32600633
Yes, it's wrong. It's not having a girlfriend that makes you a man, it's being a man that gets you a girlfriend. Cheers bud
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>>32600664
Therefore, if you don't have a girlfriend, the natural corollary is that you're not a man?
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>>32600633
No, it's not wrong.
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>>32600633
Depends on your values, if you are the type of guy who'd take in every mangy cat you pass by. Then yeah something is wrong if you don't have a "pet" 80% of the time.

If you have any sort of perimeters for what that cat should be (type of breed, appearance, health, loyalty, cost of upkeep, lack of rabies, acceptable catnip use, etc). Then it shouldn't be surprising you haven't found anything since your last one ran away or got hit by the neighbor's car.

The real question is: are willing to BECOME less of a man in order to accept a girl (or a method of finding one) you normally wouldn't, or are you willing to remain single until you get what you are looking for.
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>>32601855
making life a little easier for a surly feral cat is 100x more rewarding than getting a cat where you know the breed and all that
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>>32601871-/*851
Then go groom some middle-aged homeless crackhead if you think my metaphor works like that.
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>>32600633
I think this the problem with most so-called incels. It's not that they absolutely must have a girlfriend in their life. It's that they feel inferior to other men because they don't have one.
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>>32600652
If he had any redeeming qualities, he already have a gf.
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>>32603806
I don't socialize though. That probably doesn't help.
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>>32605405
Honestly try online dating. Don't bother "using" them. Just post the same picture and intro with some social media account on every website/app possible and see who contacts you. They don't lead to anything but you'll feel better phoning up a quick coffee date every week or two than privately seething over other's relationships they got using the Boomhauer method.
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Is there a point of no return? Like if I'm a virgin in my 30s, should I just give up at this point and not worry about friends or sex?
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>>32600633
You have no idea the depths of "feeling less of a man" you can reach while being with a woman.

Not saying that is inevitable, just something to think about.
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>>32606366
Not really a point of no return you just need to make an effort and yes its worth it.
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You have a dick and balls, give the tranny logic boomer edition a rest already
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>>32600633
>Is it wrong to feel less of a man because you don't have a girlfriend?
No. Women are fucking annoying. You are better off without one in your life. Trust me.
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>>32600633

No. However, feeling like not having a gf might make you less of a man, ironically does make you less of a man.
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>>32600633
Yes. Women do not create men's value. You create if for yourself and then have to guard it from ill meaning women who want value without working for it'
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>>32606366
Yes it is, and I did. If that makes me biased so be it, but I can learn from mistakes.
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>>32606366
More like it gets exponentially more difficult after college and once you’re 30 the 20 year old girls will be less likely to hang out with you if you’re not loaded
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>>32600633
Yes. Your ability to attract women reflects your worth as a man. Humans literally evolved to be this way.
>inb4 cope



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