I need some advice regarding my relationship. Me 26 male with a 19 FTM, we have been together for 6 months at this pointWe always tell to each other how much we love each other, but he has been living alone with his step father for 2 years at this point and its giving me serious trust issues, i have hard time believing nothing has ever happen between them. For the record my bf has severe trauma related to abandonment and SA. Any advices?
>>32601002Dump the tranny for someone normal maybe and live a good life or try.
>>32601011Not an option, sometimes we dont choose from who we catch feelings
>>32601025Alright, well if something happened between them which I would just have hope nothing that's still a bit incestuous and wrong on both parties. As for the abandonment AND SA obviously therapy and your friendship to get over it. Maybe get involved in Christianity together.
>>32601053Solid advice, he is already on therapy but Christianity its off the table, regarding the incestuos stuff i dont know since they are not blood related, wich is what makes me so uncomfortable
Get them in therapy if they aren't already, and unrelated but try to keep them off hrt if you can because testosterone therapy literally takes decades off the lifespan of females.
>>32601081Jesus accepts everyone but as long as you both have meaning in life doesn't matter. It's just helpful guidance. I'm glad he's going to therapy. Hopefully he gains some confidence in himself. But still a stepfather is still agreeing to be someone's father. It's still wrong. Boundaries exist for a reason.
