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How do I reconcile the fact that I can never be a beautiful person?
i feel undeserving of love for my ugliness
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I’m really sorry you’re feeling this way, but it’s important to remember that beauty is subjective and doesn’t define your worth. True connection and love come from who you are as a person—your kindness, intelligence, sense of humor, and how you treat others. Everyone has moments of feeling insecure, but no one is "ugly" in an absolute sense. How you view yourself often shapes how others perceive you, so shifting focus from external appearance to the qualities that make you unique can help. You absolutely deserve love, just as much as anyone else. Start by treating yourself with the same kindness and acceptance you’d offer to a friend going through the same feelings.
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>>32601451
Fuck off chafGPT.
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Please dont tie your worth as a person to your appearance. It’s one metric, but because you are human you have a nearly infinite amount of ways to be valuable and loved.

If you are honest, kind, loyal, and work hard. Anyone worth keeping around will recognize that. Anyone that doesn’t recognize that, you are better living without
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>>32601435
Just become rich. You can just pay people to look at you naked when you're rich.
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>>32601435
I have truly experienced this: even people who are relatively ugly have certain people fall in love with them insantly because they fulfill something the other person finds hot. I am not an attractive person at all, I am pretty much ugly. But I have had a small number of people believe genuinely I am attractive because for whatever reason I fulfill their metric of attractiveness. Vice versa for me and others as well
Point is it does suck to not be beautiful in an objective way. But you are deserving of love... 1) because your worth isn't defined by appearance etc. but 2) because there are some who WILL think you are hot. Even if that makes them psychos. Everybody has their own weird thing. You are someone's thing
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I tend to just not give a crap and float by. I've stopped paying attention to appearances.
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>>32601435
Just be a monster then obviously. Maybe make a deal for beauty or something with the devil.
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>How do I reconcile the fact that I can never be a beautiful person?
how is that a fact? did it got fact checked by the experts? more like your subjective perception
beautiful outwardly or interieur?
outwardly: do sport, clean your body ect, taking care, smiling
inwardly: building a strong character, moral compass, building and reinforcing virtues. discipline, temperance ect
>i feel undeserving of love for my ugliness
what type of ugliness?
something something everybody deserves love, even you anon(nette)
maybe you can tell your worries Christ or (your) God. He normally, always has the time and ear to hear you out.

maybe meditate or sleep on these things
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>>32601435
make a cool mask and wear it while you serial kill people with a spoon or something
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>>32601435
Ah yes, can I please order another "I'm ugly thread"? I'm feeling quite in need of having my appetite sated by those today.
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>>32601478
I can seperate my outer appearance from who I am on the inside.
The problem is, who I am on the inside doesn't want to bog others down with myself. I feel like they deserve someone better than me, physically anyway.
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>>32602185
If you don’t want to bog others down then dont bog yourself down. Others can see you much more clearly than you can, let them choose you if they chose you! I’m saying this as someone with an “ugly” ex. (She was gorgeous)

My ex did the same thing you are doing now, everyday. She’s still pretty in my eyes. But her insecurity ended up killing the relationship.



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