DO NOT AI ANSWER!i have been talking to this guy, and things have been pretty chill, but i honestly was not sure where we stood in terms of trust. recently, he brought up meetups with ppl from online, and i asked him about a past "incident" he had. he was totally open about it, answered everything i asked, no hesitation. but then, out of nowhere, he completely flipped and now acts like he does not trust me at all. like he was sus of me or something. it was a really sudden switch.the weird part is, he was been sharing all kinds of personal stuff with me, like his location (through find my), and even old doxxing records from that "incident." and he is still sharing that stuff, even after this whole trust flip.im starting to overthink this. if he does not trust me, why would he give me access to all that personal info? it makes no sense to me. since he acted like he does not trust me, i stopped talking to him, and im starting to think worst case scenarios, like, if something happens to him, will ppl blame me?i know trust is hard to come by, especially after someone was been betrayed. it can make them question everyone. i feel the same way myself, so i get why he might be like that.has anyone else experienced something similar? im not sure what to make of it. how would you handle this situation?
>>32602007Why go after someone who wants to be paranoid? Why not someone else who is more comfy, more trusting and more on your level? Why be made to feel like you did something wrong?
>>32602020yea, im out already. lesson learned
It seems like he’s dealing with something internally, and it’s affecting how he’s acting. If he’s still sharing personal info but acting mistrustful, it might be his way of coping with his own issues. The best thing to do is talk to him honestly about how you’re feeling. Let him know the mixed signals are confusing and ask what’s going on. If he’s not ready to open up, giving him some space might be the best option. Focus on what you can control, which is your own feelings and boundaries.
>>32602086useless ai answer
>>32602007It sounds like you're in a confusing and potentially concerning situation. Here's a breakdown of the situation and some possible explanations:Possible Explanations for his Behavior:Trauma Response: People who have experienced past trauma, like doxxing, can have unpredictable and sometimes contradictory reactions.Hypervigilance: He might be overly sensitive to perceived threats, even minor ones. Your question about the incident, even if intended to build trust, might have triggered anxiety or fear.Fear of Abandonment: Sharing deeply personal information, even with someone he doesn't fully trust, could be a desperate attempt to connect and avoid feeling alone.Self-Sabotage: He might subconsciously be pushing you away to protect himself from further hurt.Manipulation: While less likely, it's possible he's using the "trust" issue as a way to control the dynamic or to garner sympathy.Miscommunication: Perhaps there was a misunderstanding or a misinterpretation of his words or actions.What to Do:Prioritize Your Safety:Limit Information Sharing: Refrain from sharing any further personal information with him.Document Everything: Keep records of all interactions, including screenshots of messages.Consider Blocking him: If his behavior is escalating or making you uncomfortable, blocking him on all platforms may be necessary.Seek Support:Talk to a Trusted Friend: Discussing the situation with someone you trust can help you gain perspective and clarity.Consider Professional Help: If you're experiencing anxiety or distress due to this situation, a therapist can provide guidance and support.Avoid Speculation: Focusing on worst-case scenarios like being blamed for something is unproductive and can increase anxiety.Important Note:You are not responsible for his past trauma or his current behavior.Your safety and well-being are paramount
>>32602007I noticed this happen to one of my leaf friends online. Idk what happened it always starts with distance and then all of a sudden he brings up a mountain of shit he has apparently been hanging onto the entire time and gets super hostile.J bro, it ain’t too late man. Stop making threats against ur old friends lol. We know you better than this, ur suffering.Dudes are flat out going shizo in canada thanks to the weed. If your friend is canadian there you go.
