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Why is it so hard to get a girlfriend
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We have this thread every fucking day. Holy shit go outside.
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>>32602107
It's actually not but times are tough. Don't give up. Try to stand out and become successful.
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>>32602107
Trying to get a gf is like trying to go to sleep

The harder you focus on it, the harder it becomes. Set your life up so that you are ready when an opportunity comes, you will be ok
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Because you don't want a girlfriend.
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>>32602107
What's hard about asking 100 girls to go out? One will eventually say yes. Let me guess, you want a 9/10 who fulfills every precise criteria you have for the perfect woman.
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>>32602462
>>32602107
Also it might help if you showered and stopped posting POOP SHIT FART frogs.
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You need to naturally be friends first.
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I DON'T KNOW
FEELS BAD MAN
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>>32602490
>You need to naturally be friends first.
Literally never happened for me. They either like me immediately or they never do.
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I have a date tonight bros I have a date. if I can do it you can do it, 100% srs
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>>32602107
Would it really be worth it even if you had one. It is just better to know no love than a false one.
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>>32602107
Nothing worth getting was ever easy
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>>32602107
How hard have you tried?
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Because you are weak on a fundamental, cognitive, ontological level
Being socially strong, morally strong, physically strong, spiritually strong are byproducts of a core power
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>>32602490
Being friends first either lands you in the friend zone or just draws out the inevitable
Yeah it's easier if you're acquainted, but by the time you actually get to be "friends" something should have happened if there was any mutual romantic interest
>>32603241
Correct and same with my experience. Most women know within their first few minutes of interacting with you if they'd fuck you or not
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>>32602107
because you refuse to seamaxxx
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>>32603957
Cringe
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>>32603251
Dates are not GFs. I've gone on many dates this year and I am still single
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>>32603963
oh I know. but she asked for a second date and I'm buzzing lad. trying not to get too ahead of myself tho. you're right that things are so fragile the first times and it's hard for it to materialise into something meaningful
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>>32602107
It isn't.
At all.
It might be hard for *you* to get a GF.
My advice: talk to women, improve your own life for your own sake.
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>>32603890
So I have one anon saying the harder I try to less likely I am to get a gf.. comparing it to trying to fall asleep. Then there is you over here saying I'm not trying hard enough. So which one is it?
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>>32603975
Sorry, didn't mean to take the win from under your wings, but I do wish you good luck lad. Have fun but don't get high expectations, in fact try not to have any expectations
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>>32604072
this third anon is saying that it's both. focus on the road to a gf ( getting in the gym, clothes, teeth, putting yourself out there, the normie stuff ) not the the gf itself. it will come. only a small % of men are irredeemably ugly or broken
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>>32604080
you're right but you know how the male brain works. you can tell yourself to have no expectations but then you see her all beautiful and feminine and you're imagining a whole life



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