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She wants me to spend all my time with her and live at her apartment. I want to live in my dorm. She's kind of clingy and gets offended/stuck in a permanent bad mood when I try to live my own life. I don't have friends because she literally takes every second away from me. What do.
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It sounds like you’re in a tough situation where your needs and boundaries aren’t being respected, and it’s creating a lot of stress. It’s important to have balance in a relationship, where both partners can have their own space, time for personal interests, and friendships.

You might want to have an open, honest conversation with your girlfriend about how you’re feeling. Let her know that you value your relationship, but you also need time for yourself and space to maintain your independence. Explain that it’s not about rejecting her or not wanting to spend time together, but about keeping a healthy balance for both of you.

If she reacts negatively or becomes upset, it’s important to stand firm in your boundaries. Relationships should allow both people to grow individually, too. You may also want to gently remind her that being able to have your own life, friends, and space doesn’t mean you love her any less.

If the dynamic continues to feel unhealthy, it might be worth considering if the relationship is meeting your emotional needs, as a balance of independence and closeness is crucial for long-term happiness.
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>>32602406
What is incompatibility?
You both seem to have very different expectations as to the level of freedom you can have. Either talk it out or end it.
Quite frankly I don't see her letting you have your space for more than a week if you talk it out lol.
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>>32602406
Break up. When I got with my husband it was me and him against the world, not him and a muse he sees once in a while.
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Why is this place full of foids now?



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