It sounds like your boyfriend’s reaction is tied to something deeper, likely related to his views on black culture, as you mentioned. His extreme response to something as temporary and personal as your hairstyle might be a reflection of internalized biases or prejudices, even if he hasn’t directly expressed them before. The fact that he’s venting about it for hours and became that upset suggests this isn’t just about the hairstyle itself, but possibly his discomfort with certain aspects of black culture, which may include the hairstyle as a symbol of it.

Your choice to get braids, which are part of black cultural identity, might have unintentionally triggered some of these deeper feelings or insecurities he has, which he may not fully understand or be able to articulate. It’s possible that he feels threatened or uncomfortable with aspects of black culture, and your decision to wear a style linked to that could have brought up those feelings.

You’re right that this isn’t about you personally, but about his internal conflict or prejudice. It’s concerning, though, because this may point to deeper issues in your relationship—especially if he’s expressed animosity toward black people or culture before.

It’s important to address this directly. Have a calm and honest conversation with him about how his reaction made you feel, and ask him to reflect on why he reacted so strongly. If he’s truly someone who cares about you, he should be willing to listen and work through these issues, but this might also be a moment to assess whether his views and behavior are something you can accept or work through as a couple.

>>32602434
> why did he get so mad and flip out at me?
Because he’s retarded
>he vented about it for hours.
LMFAOOOOO WHAT A RETARD
>whats really the problem do you think here?
You did something without his permission and he is PISSED.

What are you going to do with this information?

>>32602434
>, i just like the hairstyle. It's not a deep reason
If this is all there is to it he's in the wrong.
If this is a "my boyfriend likes my hair in a bun, and my ex liked my hair braided, and I just felt like braiding my hair" situation he's in the right.

>>32602439
Yeah it is certainly something deeper bothering him. He called it a "nigger hairstyle" and i was just shocked because he told me before that he feels strongly about only the behavior & actions of the black community (BLM riots), but doesn't hate all black men.

Tbh, I don't believe him because you don't just drop the N bomb out of nowhere.

He could've just said "honestly, i prefer you wearing your hair straight".

He tried to recover from that crash out and told me "you are gorgeous every day though and you know i love you"

>>32602488
I am not really racist and I love saying nigger. it's just a fun word to say.

>>32602488
dont reply to chat gpt

>>32602465
Permission? When you put it that way it sounds a lot bigger issue than it actually is.

Asking for permission to do something would be like making a purchase on his credit card without telling him about it.

I used my own money to pay to get my hair done. I would however ask for his opinion on clothes that i wear or lingerie to see how he feels about it.

I didn't think that my hairstyle would be a big deal, its just a temporary look, sheesh.

He's with you because of the way you look.

Take it a tad bit deeper. He's with you because of what he perceives you as. Changing your hair changes his idea of you. It's like talking with someone with dementia, they don't recognize you in a different haircut

>>32602434
Braids ior dreadlocks? The latter look very silly on white people.

>>32602434
It's not actually even just black culture. He's dumb. Vikings had braids.

>>32602510
It shouldn’t be a big deal, but that’s what it sounds like to me. Maybe I’m wrong! But it sounds like something someone who is so “anti-woke” would have a problem with.

You said he talked for hours. Did he not make anything clear other than his hatred for braids?

>>32602434
get out of here you whore piece of shit this website is not for women. nigger loving whore piece of shit

>>32602811
Your boyfriend is here

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>>32602752
Braids are not new for me actually, used to have them as a child too. It's been a long time since ive worn them anyway.

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>>32602752
I love how Christina looks here. She just has a few braids in the front of her hair, think she looks hot. But i dont know , maybe he still might not even like this look.

>>32602811
so triggered by how women choose to look lmaoo im not into black dudes but whatever

>>32602434
>i just like the hairstyle
I think it absurd for white guys to dress, talk and act like a black man and so too white girls that want to fit into black culture and dress, act, apply makeup, and hairstyles. Both are imitations and wiggers. That means you OP. Now your bf being angry is stupid though he should be able to express his displeasure with your choice to fit in. He should stop bitching though because it doesn't change how you feel nor your hair style preferences but he will be a fool if he doesn't know exactly your budding proclivity to attract the attention of a black male.

>>32602905
>im not into black dudes
while doing something that attracts them

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>>32602434
This is what happens when you date immature men with no class consciousness or emotional intelligence.

>>32602434
because you look like a trashy, low class mudshark and not only are you embarrassing yourself you are embarrassing him for no other reason than your dumb ass thinks its "neat"

niggers and nigger culture is disgusting and only low class, low intelligence people partake in such buffoonery

>>32603325
facts

>>32602905
Like dude said, get outta here with your bullshit, nigger-loving ass. Probs just ragebait but still.

>>32602495
sounds like this case is different, though, and the guy is an actual racist retard, you dumb nigger.

>>32602439
What fucking AI response is this?

>>32602434
Braids are ugly and mad niggerish.

>>32602439
ChatGPT is also mad niggerish.

>>32603325
Yes, it can reveal your bad taste and that you ar ein fact low class in comparison to him.

>>32602434
Your body belongs to him (you're not married though eh) according to saint Paul (and his belongs to you (You're both not married so who knows if it will last) but the idea is that the one who shares you has a say in matters like these. This idea can participate to the reaction.
He can be ambarassed by you if you had bad taste, like if you dressed like a whore, demonstrating you are cheap and thus shaming him by participation. Maybe he should say he doesn't know you if people ask him kek.

>>32602434
Break up and fuck a black guy