starting to notice a pattern where people i just met, who i think i'm being friends with, start interacting with the local socialites (who despise me) and then magically the new person completely ghosts me.Not exactly willing to be prostrate for the worthless socialites, most of them mainly hate me because i'm doing something with my life (what i want to do) and they aren't. They veil it in some PC "think of the troons" bullshit but i mean i know they're lying sociopaths.There's no way to crawl out of this, right? i am now persona non grata? at least in circles trying to appeal to the elites.Is it worth trying to be "presentable"? nobody has a problem with me until they start interacting with these people, then i magically become this-and-that bad word.I personally know that those socialites are deeply jealous of me, they always attack what i do and often times its what they also do. Dont even think im particularly good but these people would make you think im some avant-garde hyperpicasso with how they shit on me.where do i meet people who dont fall into this loser trap?what do they even gain with befriending those parasites? my life just felt miserable with them.
>>32602900I vividly remember accidentally dropping a pen in college and some blue haired bitch went outside and told people I was “mental and threw stuff on the ground in anger”They came back in to look and I’m just casually sitting there. They left and the whispers.I’m so tired of this gay society I think we need to build a better one a better gayer society of anyone who understands what OP’s talking about.
>>32602919oh lol in my case it's 3 long haired "punk guys" (sons of american generals) and a girl who dyes her hair
>>32602900>I am extremely rude bigoted to people around me and now no one wants to be my friendYeah that makes sense. At least you still have your principals, loser
>>32602983i'm not, tho.
>>32602900>> just meet>> friendsPick one, it can't be both. An acquaintance isn't a friend.
>>32602999Man I’m pretty sure this is Cal. And I agree u ain’t. Not on purpose.
>>32602983it's "think of the troons" because i'm a crossdressing faggot, fyi
>>32603005no its eastern europe.
A lot of people do socializing as a team game. "If you want to be on my team then diss this person or we won't talk to you again" and usually sadly pick target as the nicest person they see for them to practice the diss team socializing game
>>32603007CalOx not cali
>>32603008well, i know that. But why do others so desperately want to be their friends?
>>32603006So is it because you mog them? Or because you say “troons” and aren’t trans?
>>32603018i still have no clue what that is.google says food groups and shows pics of tomatoes??
>>32603020it's because i'm not trans AND mog the shit out of them in costume. That's what they said
>>32603026...now keep in mind that the only "transgender folx" in my city are those annoying they/them girls or the girls who LARP men and get very pissy when you don't use their pronouns or some shit which is just jarring cause you need to speak in this weird half-english around them. They are very terrible and manipulative people, everyone i know who knew them just rejects them entirely and they are the butt of many jokes.
>>32603019Because otherwise they will be the target just like you. Sadly if there is aggressive socializing, the aggresser almost always wins in these situations. This is why most socializing workplace or schools are conditioned that way.
>>32603034i get that angle, but being "friends" with those people is just so emotionally draining
>>32603045True, but tbf its less draining than being the target of their bs. That's why they almost always win. They fucking thrive on the misery of others and have no emotional bandwidth other than for their slef intrest
>>32603054Not really, being "friends" with them was a fucking chore.
>>32603070>>32603054...they'd tell me shit like "you should do more art about marginalized groups" because it's "my social duty" or some shit and they'd lose their mind at the response "you do it"
>>32603087with them it's always about doing exactly what they want and if you refuse you're some new bad word they read online.
>>32602900You need to gtfo. There is no chance there unless you kill your bully. Get outta dodge or you will be the nerd forever. New Town, New reinvention.
>>32603513no because what's been lately happening is many are just rejecting them because they just do it to anyone who slightly miffs their percieved order. You csn't be a shitty person and expect people to just tolerate it because, i shit you not, "muh right side of history".the new people i mentioned in OP aren't from the city, they arrived here this or last year so they don't know. Guess they'll find out the hard way.none of my friends like those people. They really are worthless, rich, elite snobs with no talent or redeemable skill.r
>>32604097ok i get this sounds like i just said i have no problem but it sucks because i want to meet new frens and these vultures come by almost like they were told that i met someone new and they need to go spread rumors about me.
>>32604097...plus the dyed hair girl is hilarious because she's some kind of self described "woke warrior" who constantly polices others and her bf is... an unironic neo-nazi
>>32604102sounds like gangstalking by oligarchs. they're vultures. start prepping and collecting resources for a move, or try intimidating and hurting them. they're so lazy and aggravating that they won't leave you alone otherwise. this is all they do. hop on the new trend to acquire more allies and attempt to steal resources from their enemies. if you left, what would you leave behind? are they targeting that subconsciously?
>>32604777idk where you liveyeah that does happen, know a few who genuinely were affected.but uh no their worthless junkie children aren't worth gangstalking for.No it's because they are "friends with everyone" especially those who come from the province, they grab them up because they're still innocent.
Give them two giant middle fingers, get on the dance floor and fucking dance. They don't care about you, why should you care about them? They're building a house of cards and it'll take one fart from one person to make the whole thing come crashing down.
>>32602900Why do your friend circles overlap with people who hate you?Yes, what you're experiencing is predictable, but why are you in this situation?
>>32602900I just get drunk in front of the liquor store and shoot the bull with those clowns.
>>32605524because these people are massive losers who used to "look up to me" until i "betrayed" them or some shit.because they're the "friends with everyone" type of people
>>32605869i mean yeah the only real reason j ever interacted with them is because somehow they always have free time any time and i needed drinking buddies.guess when your father commands the 6th american fleet or whatever stupid shit you never learn what hard life even is.
>>32602919>I vividly remember accidentally dropping a pen in college and some blue haired bitch went outside and told people I was “mental and threw stuff on the ground in anger”Bait used to be believable.
does anyone in this thread speak english?
