My "girlfriend" just told me we were just friends. We literally fucked, made out, went on dates, supported eat other financially all to tell me we were friends and doesn't want to get into a relationship because she was traumatised by her ex who dated her for 7 years. This is what she sent me a few months ago when I asked her to stop sending me mixed messages and clarify her position:>[10/23/2024, 4:29am] S: Honestly, I love you so much, I just don't like to talk about my feelings, it's uncomfortable for me my>[10/23/2024, 4:30am] S: I'm quite cold and I find it much more difficult to deal with sentimental things>[10/23/2024, 4:31am] S: Why did you ask me this, honey? What's going on? >[10/23/2024, 4:31am] S: You've been acting really weird these last few days>[10/23/2024, 4:38am] S: I'm very quiet about feelings but I've always told you that I love you and I wouldn't know what to do without you, you're the person who's taken care of me and the one who's with me for everything>[10/23/2024, 4:38am] S: I feel comfortable and protected by your sideWhat are your thoughts on this shit? I confronted her about it and she claimed she meant to say she loves me as a friend. The fuck?
>>32603322When I "broke up" with her, she told me she was disappointed in me for misunderstanding and we should continue to be friends. I told her >friends don't sleep on the same fucking bed, fuck, cuddle, kiss and take her on dates. I have female already and I haven't eaten any of their pussies. Never been to the pharmacy to pick a condom together. I don't want to be in a relationship with you.She started fucking crying and throwing a fit. Like WTF.WTF is this? I don't understand women. She always tells me this shit. Are all women like this?
>>32603322>10/23/2024You've not moved on yet?
>>32603379We broke up today
>>32603322Stop treating them as a gf then. No slow down contact on messages. Hang out less, stop paying for them except for rare occasions.
>>32603348>Are all women like this?Unfortunately most are, if they don't tell you intentions they aren't worth the time.
>>32603379Sorry I meant to say we "broke up" today. I just stopped hanging with a friend who happens to be a girl, who I fucked in multiple countries, clinged on me whenever we walked and told me everything about herself.I'm disappointed in myself for not seeing that shit. I must have been blind.
>>32603386We had a massive argument last night, and she said some pretty fucked up shit about European culture compared to Latinx (sub-human) culture. Then proceed to insult my Asian friend and the European men claiming how they like to be treated like princesses and a woman shouldn't ask anything from a man, just given shit, ignoring the mountains of shit I have given her without her asking. That night I literally suprised her with an expensive dinner date and she still had the balls to bitch. She made fun of European relationships because of how open we are with our emotions. She expects the men to just "know". It's all fake and full of hypocrisy. I corrected her in saying how can open relationships be fake? They're a great filter for pieces of shit like muchismo latinx (sub-human) men who treat you like a pussy to fuck. You enjoy the comfort and freedom here because I sweat to make sure we are open. I want you to express your feelings and to feel free. You are home here.She then changed the subject and told me about her future being in SA. I told her if she went we'd have to break up, our goals wouldn't be compatible enough to sustain this relationship. Then she acted surprised brought up that we were just friends. Which was the last straw.
>>32603428>open relationshipsWrong use of that term. Anyways this is completely different context than the OP. This is faggot shit and stip reddit spacing.
>>32603443Emotionally open you dumb ass. Tyrone isn't fucking my "girlfriend"
>>32603322Is her irl name Madeline? Either way, doing a hamfisted 180 and lying through your teeth about not having feelings for the guy who's been your de-facto boyfriend for the last couple of months is pretty cruel, OP. May you find inner peace and the strength to keep moving forward.
>>32603428she sounds like a cunt dude, bullet dodged.Dated a girl like that myself, she got dumped after 8 years and became damaged goods, sad, but you could have wasted a lot more than just 2 years.
>>32603807Ironically the whole openness thing filtered her out. I'd hate to be the muchismo guy that married her and realised half way through the marriage.I honestly can't believe this shit, I wish I had filtered her faster. It all started by me accepting her indecisiveness. I should have dropped her then. Listen to your gut. Drop her fast.
>>32603322you have a friends with benefits I'd say that's excellent
>>32604304friends with benefits don't make good mothers. I thought I had a future and was ginna pop the question in a year. It would have been a fucking mess if she said no, we're just friends.
>>32603394the fact that this is true just makes it hard to carry on
