How did you move on from the bullies who tormented you in school?
>>32603730I was bullying people and one of them got out of it by befriending me. He saw i had yugioh cards so he brought his to class and we bonded
>>32603730You probably feel bothered by those memories because you have not personally developed to surpass them yet. What I mean is that if you are proud of yourself now and don’t still have any insecurities, you can easily ignore what happened to you. Those memories still bother you because deep down inside you believe that what they said is still accurate to this day.Once you have some accomplishments that you can be proud of, you will stop thinking of your bullies. On the occasion that you do think of them, you will feel good that you are no longer that person or that you know with confidence that you never were that person they made you out to be.
>>32603730I realized they're dumb idiots who hate themselves and are complete failures. All of my grade school bullies went on to become complete losers in life, getting ugly girls knocked up and abandoning them, becoming really fat, getting addicted to drugs, not being able to hold a steady job, hell multiple of them have actually killed themselves. It's not a coincidence, people who are bullies are losers, they're just the first ones to know it. And I don't pay any attention to losers because then I would become a loser too
>>32603730Understand that you're better than them and that's why they bullied you. They hated your peace, your individuality, your innocence. You have something they could only dream of.>>32603926This too. The only one of my bullies who did well actually deserves it, he did a complete 180 in high school and befriended me because he realized how much of an asshole he was.
>>32603775good advice
>>32603926That won’t help if your bullies went on to become successful people. That’s why you should focus on what you yourself have accomplished rather than compare yourself to others. The only one that needs to be proud of you is yourself.
>>32603730develop self esteem and it'll all get put into perspective. if you can't then maybe you deserve to be defined by your trauma.>>32603751best thing I've read all day
