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How do I stop ignoring and forgetting simple details? My mind is very "zoomed out" I'm usually not grounded in the moment and often look very foolish, not listening, repeatedly getting the basics wrong at yet performing at a high level overall given time?
I tend to make bad impressions and fuck up critical procedures that are implicitly communicated rather than explicated in a detailed way
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You cast doubt on uncertainty?
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You could’ve written that in one sentence.
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Well that's the big ole problem with uncertainty and the implicit. It can fuck you over easily and be misunderstood easily, arguably that's the reason its used in the first place. You can retreat to the explicit for safety, but big fucking surprise the explicit is monotonous and sterile and absofuckinglutely not romantic.

So to survive - be autistic and demanding for the explicit. Lay out clear terms and expectations. Just realize yeah you're gonna be missing out on quite a bit



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