>never gone out at weekends>zero friends or connections I could go withI want to try it out tomorrow. I think I'm too old for nightclubs at this point (31 yo) so do I go to a bar and just sit there and see if something happens?How do I not set myself up for complete disappointment?
>>32604610just don't expect anything good to happen. then there will be no disappointment. it will most likely be shit and boring and awkward.
>>32604610i did this a couple dozen times and nothing happened.i am increasingly convinced that you need shared interests to meet people and retain them, which is impossible if you are a boring fuck without interests like megood luck anon
>>32604622This. I'm the same as you and I don't expect anything good from life anymore. >>32605183>i am increasingly convinced that you need shared interests to meet people and retain them, which is impossible if you are a boring fuck without interests like meSame here.
>>32604610if you live in a destitute and depressed enough neighborhood like me you'll be welcomed as a friend by the regulars if you show up enough. i showed up on newyears eve and got free drInks from the middle aged crowd.
>>32605500Boring is relative.If you like *anything* at all. If you like youtube videos about watching paper mache newspaper figurines dry, someone shares your bland weird tendencies and would love to exchange.If you don't have common interests, yes, nightclubs aren't your place probably.
>>32604610I tried going out to bars in two phases of my life: 1. When I was a boring fuck with no hobbies -> it didn't work because I had nothing to talk about2. When I became an interesting person with lots of hobbies and things to say -> it didn't work because people in bars and clubs are just randos with whom I had nothing in commonI honestly think that if you want to make friends, first ask yourself where people whom you might like go to
>>32605744>Boring is relative.It isn't, there's some standards for human interaction that you need to meet.
