I know this seems childish and I'm just old enough to be on here , I may or may not have used this site for years even though I'm not allowed but I know there's some good advice here.A few years ago me and a girl made a promise we'd wait for each other and go no contact till we're ready to communicate again because our families were against our relationship, long story short I've waited and I've rejected 5 girls 2 of which were dead obsessed with me and It got to a point where they were constantly stalking my socials and I had to delete my social media accounts, she really was the girl of my dreams and I was really dedicated to be a better man for her , it's been a few years and I moved out of my parents house , got me a very good car and also an apartment from the businesses I've been doing, I checked her social media and she had a boyfriend and i have no idea wtf I should do , did she think I forgot about her and moved on or did she never really care about our promise, it was pretty serious as I remember both of us crying in each other's arms that day..
>>32605174Young people are stupid. Young girls tend to not know what they want. People in love are emotional. Emotional people are stupid.It doesn't matter if she did it out of malice, or if she wasn't serious about, or if she forgot. The point is that you could have been with all these girls and missed out because of someone who didn't care about you. Also more context is needed, why the family was opposing? And why did you wait years for that 'promise'?Lesson learned, buddy. Next time don't be a fool and don't miss out on life like that for a stupid thing. That's not how the world works. Making these mistakes and getting punched in the face is part of growing up, welcome to adulthood nigga.
>>32605206>why the family was opposing?Honestly it was just hers,Her family didn't approve because of a wealth disparity between us , I did turn my life around now but 2-3 years later it wasn't like how it is now.>And why did you wait years for that 'promise'?I couldn't move out and she couldn't at that time so it was till we both can But damn ur right , truth fucking hurts and I'm in a state of shock
>>32605227Well friend, lesson learned. Next time you don't put such a blind trust over someone, and not especially for years without talking or seeing each other.It could have been a silly teenage promise for her for all you kno. But the reasons don't matter. What matters is learning. And applying what you learned. Does this mean that you'll be bitter and never trust someone again? Of course not, but you sure as hell won't be cockblocked for a stupid promise again.
U dumb
>>32605174Congrats, you wasted chances to have relationships during your once in a life youth. -but you learned that women are whores. also congrats!
