I take life too easily. An example>lose my job>decide to sell apartment but have a buncha money saved up>"I'll just do it later">money runs dry >decide to sell apartment now>nobody wants to buy>all my assets are almost liquifiedI keep having these moments where if I just fucking did it, I wouldn't be fucked. I don't know how to fix this, it's like my brain simply does not care. I have zero stress or urge to do what should be done, I can only do what needs to be done. I want to change as a person
>>32607488Get a new job, that's your solution ffs.
>>32607496That's the plan, but you have to understand that this isn't a thread asking how to get out of the current predicament, but rather a thread about the bad mindset I have that let this situation devolve into what it is. Thank you though, I appreciate you wanting to guide me to a solution.
>>32607488OP, I don't have a solution for you, but I will pray for you as I have the same issue. I think the only solution is to make "keeping up on things" on autopilot.What I mean is, right now my room is incredibly messy and genuinely hasn't been vacuumed in a year or so. It'll take a long time to clean, but afterwards I can just spend 20 minutes a day straightening it up, like 10 every morning 10 every evening. Make it an autopilot twice daily habit.Also make sure you apply for tons of jobs ASAP!!!! it's too easy to fall into the unemployment pit of despair which is a nightmare to climb out of. The way you avoid that despair pit is simple; when you have a job, make sure you have your resume updated and an ongoing list of jobs you could apply to if you ever get fired from your current.
