i found out about it 2 days ago and haven't slept since i am so full of rage and its affecting my ability to do anything
I'm so sorry you're going through this. It’s incredibly difficult to process, especially when there’s no justice. Your anger is completely valid, but it's important to care for yourself, too. Talk to your girlfriend if she’s open to it, and offer her support. Try to channel that anger into something productive, like speaking out or seeking support from a counselor. Take it one step at a time, and allow yourself to feel without letting the rage take control of you.
I was molested and the police scrambled my mind to protect the parent who did it and drugged me so you know I would just stay quiet about it
>>32608533Been in this situation twice in the past. Not a good place to be. Honestly there really aren't any good options.
>>32608545she blames herself and its so hard to hear this happened over a year ago i am failing her if i do nothing
you have to jelq it
Rape him.
>>32608558I don't know, man.
>>32608533Rapists may sometimes not face legal consequences. But they will face other consequences. I don’t just mean in some after life either, I mean in this life. Not because of magical woo like karma, but from the basic fact that psychos typically die early. They always do. It’s their nature to take extreme risks and to commit extreme acts, non-stop. Rape is just one of them. They’ll get killed sooner or later. That or they’ll kill themselves, either quickly through suicide or slowly through drug abuse. They always reap it, and it’s unavoidable.
>>32608533if you have friends you can trust and who are willing to do sometthing about it, you could take revenge. alternatively, you could plant illegal substances in his car, place of work, at his residence etc and have someone else call the cops on him
>>32608558>she blames herself and its so hard to hear this happened over a year ago i am failing her if i do nothing.You are not doing nothing though, dude. You are presumably loving and protecting her just by being her boyfriend. That means something. And I can bet you any amount of money your gf will not want you to enact vengeance or to seek him out. Because she will be terrified that you will be hurt, killed, or if you’re successful - arrested. And that means she loses (you), her protector.
>>32608572the issue is the outcome of this is he gets a couple broken bones, recovers, and continues the way he was people like this don't change, I'm afraid of jumping him i just don't see it justice
>>32608583you're 100% correct but im stuck between doing what i believe is morally correct and risking hurting her, i feel like less of a man either way
>>32608558>she blames herselfif it happened after she turned 21 then yes, it is 100% her fualt and its 100% her fault he isn't being punished or dead
>>32608603>what i believe is morally correctWell thing about morals are, we don’t create them. What we believe is moral does not always add up to what is actually moral. What is moral is to avoid acts of vengeance. What’s moral is for justice to be done. Vengeance is Justice’s dark shadow. The reason why it’s not good to seek vengeance isn’t because of weak reasons, or pretending to be peaceful namby pamby goody two shoes saints. It’s because to avoid vengeance is to be wise. Vengeance means the person you wish to protect, will most likely lose (you) either to violence or arrest. So then she is defenceless, she loses her protection, she is vulnerable again. Let’s say you beat the rapist down and put him in a hospital. You get arrested. Rapist heals up, yet you’re still doing time locked up. Know what it means? Your gf is defenseless, all alone, no protector. And the rapist is healed up and filled with anger of his own at what happened to him, and he notices your girl is alone and defenceless and her attacker boyfriend (you) can do nothing to stop what will happen next. Forget strength for a minute, Play it with wisdom.For now, keep her safe. If that rapist approaches you or her again and is hostile, then go all out, and do more than break his bones, break his entire skull until it caves in. Self defence.There’s a time to be strong and a time to be wise, anon.
>>32608533Why will he not face legal.consequences? Courts are insanely pro women these days, the only reason he wouldn't get thrown in prison is if she lied.If he actually did do.it you can go.kill him if you care enough it shouldn't be that hard if youre careful
>>32608610not that it applies to us, we are both younger than 21 but that sentiment is disgusting, im not going to discuss the actual situation on here but you are part of the problem, she tried to discuss this with people and asked for help, including her parents they all brushed it off and this happens to so many people
>>32608652it happened over a year ago, tried to get help and was told to stay quiet, she has no evidence but her testimony, its also not a movie, where i am from we have little to no murders, if something were to happen like that it would be national news, also i would be directly risking causing my girlfriend further harm which is the main issue, I'm not scared of serving time itself but i am scared of the consequences it will have on those around me
>>32608641issue is while i know you are correct i can see his smug face knowing most likely he did what he did and got away with it, the possibility of future victims also makes me sick, i have an opportunity and if i make either choice i will not be happy
>>32608704It’ll require your girlfriend to make the choice, brotha. She got her choice taken from her, that was taken when she got raped. She has to find it in her to make a choice to report the rape and seek justice. You can’t make the choice for her, bro. Even if you tried, your gf will muddy your plans and try to stop you from it out of her own fear surrounding all this. It’s what trauma does, so try not to feel frustrated with her either. Traumatised people want to find a place to hide, and never come out. In this case, she wants to try to forget the rape, and never relive it through memory or through fighting for justice. She’s scared.
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>>32608673Why would it make to national news? Is he rich and powerful? No one cares about some nobody dying in some flyover state in bumfuck nowhere.
She probably lied, my GF lied too. Don't trust women and ask for proof
>>32608657as an adult there are no excuses for getting raped. children and teens are a different story but if you're old enough own a carry a gun then getting raped is simply you being a negligent adulthere's a simple two step process to not get rapedstep 1:>dont put yourself in a position to be rapedstep 2:>shoot and kill anyone that tries to rape youeasy peasy
>>32608879>there are no excuses for getting rapedYes, because there doesn’t need to be an excuse. No one should have to live life perpetually hyper-vigilant against rapists. How about instead we put all the responsibility and accountability on the rapist
>>32608533Well, honestly, the first thing you should probably do is stop trying to make this about you. Your job at this point is to support *her*. What she is going through is a million times worse than anything you're experiencing, so your feelings are essentially irrelevant at this point. Make it about her, not about you.If you want something practical to do, I suggest you investigate the possibility of going after the guy with a civil lawsuit rather than a criminal one. The standard of proof in civil cases is much lower - they're decided on a balance of probabilities rather than "beyond reasonable doubt" - so sometimes a civil case can succeed where a criminal prosecution would not.
>>32608641We have screwed up the world so much that we can’t even beat rapists anymore without being taken off the streets. This is what happens when you defund the police, they don’t collect evidence on the right thing.
>>32608641>Let’s say you beat the rapist down and put him in a hospital.What kind of limpwristed faggot wouldn't kill the rapist?
>>32608924>What kind of limpwristed faggot wouldn't kill the rapist?A smart one. You don’t kill the rapist, you accidentally cause an unforeseen fatality during your act of self-defense. Yknow the kind of accident where the rapist’s brains fell out of his ears during the altercation. Wink wink nudge nudge.
