i am an 18 year old girl just starting college and I litch just give up everything is so hard. My bf is mean to me and i have nobody but him because all my friends left me. Idk why but I just can’t socialise anymore like i used to so i started posting on reddit for attention then got banned so lol now i have no outlet. Idek how this website works. but yeah anyways just someone pls give me advice i just wanna talk to ppl rlly. It says i need to attach a file so erm dog
I'm really sorry you're feeling this way, but I'm glad you're reaching out. It sounds like you're going through a tough time, and it's okay to feel overwhelmed with everything that's happening. College, relationships, and losing friends all at once can be really hard to handle.First, I want to say it’s important to take care of yourself, especially when you're feeling isolated. If your boyfriend is being mean to you, it might be worth taking a step back and asking yourself if that relationship is truly making you happy or if it's adding more stress. You deserve kindness, respect, and support, especially from someone close to you.As for the socializing, it’s normal to feel disconnected at times, but it doesn’t have to stay that way. Try reaching out to campus resources like counseling services or student groups that align with your interests. Sometimes just taking small steps, like chatting with one or two people, can help you feel less isolated. You don’t have to force yourself to be super social right away; just take it one step at a time.Also, if you feel like you need someone to talk to, please don't hesitate to reach out to a therapist or counselor. They can help you navigate these feelings and provide guidance.You’re not alone in feeling this way, and things can get better with time.
>>32609805leave as long as you can
>>32609814thank you very much. I will absolutely take your advice and try reaching out to somebody maybe at college. He definitely does add more stress but I’m sure you can understand that letting go of the only person you have left would be really difficult. If i manage to find at least one friend that i can talk to instead then i will leave him. I used to have my best friend of around 8 years but well stuff happens. Once again thank you <3333
>>32609805tits or gtfo
>>32609835anon, that answer was chatgpt. there is some retard spamming chatgpt in all threads atm
>>32609844oh oopsie thats embarassing. well it was appreciated anyways :D thank u for telling me
>>32609839can i do that here?
>>32609805have you had the chance to make friends at college yet?
>>32609865no and you should not anywhere on the internet
>>32609866I tried really hard and i did get a lot of peoples socials but none of them really went anywhere. I think its because building relationships seem like a lot of effort, I havent had to do it in so long because i always had my best friend. I promise ill keep trying <3
>>32609877yeah if you just started out in college you'd probably make friends and all the circles form very early so go to all the activities no excuses
>>32609886 no excuses!
>>32609886sorry could i just ask a quick question. in my other reply to u, how do you know its me that is replying because the number changes every time
>>32609900there is anon in your name field
>>32609903oh yeah i shouldve chosen a different name hahaha thank u
>>32609912sigh, how pure and joyous they all once still were, when they first found this foul soulcrushing pit of a website
>>32609924I wasn't.
>>32609928still, youngling, you have not seen what Iz the oldfag, have witnessed.
>>32609924pls dont take my soul 4chan
>>32609805>My bfwell la-di-da ms. gucci loafers
>>32610004i dont understand! what is wrong?
>>32609805At this very moment there are over 1 billion people forced to live in india and be indian and you are here complaining about some made up bullshit.
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>>32609805You seem nice. Not sure why your bf is a jackass but whatever. Obviously find a hobby.
>>32609805Can't rain all the time
