I am 22 years old and I am married (since 19yo). Before being 19 years old I was ugly and super fat (only thing I had going was my height). However I did a super transformation. I lost over 120 pounds in less than a year. Gained muscle and became totally unrecognizable. Since late 19. I’ve had a 15% body fat. I am 6’4 and with roughly 23 BMI. I used to be close to obese. Anyway, I found my wife but for some reason, since then even if it’s been 3 years (haven’t gained a pound) I feel sooo fat, everything single time I eat a food, I panic. I couldn’t take it anymore, so last week I decided to do liposuction on my love handles, my chin and I removed my Buccal fat. On top of top I got forehead reduction surgery. It all came out to a 20k which is not bad considering everything together and I feel and look amazing but I am in so much pain, one night I came home and my wife gave me a stupid book and I grabbed her forward hair and I started telling her that I am in pain so why is she bothering me. I feel bad about it now but I don’t know what to do. I hate the fact I used to be ugly.
First off, it’s really admirable that you took control of your health and worked hard to make positive changes. Losing 120 pounds and transforming your body is no small feat. However, it sounds like you're struggling with your self-image and are putting a lot of pressure on yourself to look perfect, which can sometimes lead to unhealthy thoughts and behaviors, especially when it comes to how you treat others, like your wife.The way you're feeling—constantly thinking you're "fat" or that you need to change your body more, despite your accomplishments—could be linked to body dysmorphia or some deeper insecurities. It's important to address these feelings with compassion for yourself and to understand that no amount of physical change can fix how you feel inside unless you work through the emotional side as well.It’s natural to want to feel attractive and confident, but self-worth isn't solely determined by appearance. It might be helpful to talk to a therapist about how you're feeling and explore ways to manage your body image issues in a healthier way. Also, open up to your wife about how you're feeling—acknowledge that you lashed out when in pain and share with her what you're going through. A supportive conversation can help both of you understand each other better.Ultimately, taking care of your mind and emotions is just as important as taking care of your body. You don’t have to be perfect to be deserving of love and happiness, and you deserve to feel at peace with who you are.
>>32610080Oh, its you again. Show us a pic of the buccal fat removal. Doesn't have to be your whole face, just the "improved" part. Maybe also a before pic so that we can compare. Gogo. do it now.>I hate the fact I used to be ugly.Dumb thing to do, but then, you obviously have some serious mental issues.
>>32610080Now she has a smaller forehead but a massive scar how epic is that
