>>33575075
If this is real, she deserves death. Nothing you can do but move on.

> years of only eating cereal and cookies with milk

i bet her bones are strong as fuck. she probably knows you’re a weak boy with bitch bones

>>33575089
You have no idead how I wish this wasn't real

>>33575113
*idea

>>33575075
Man, do you know what? I wrote something about this topic, this weak. It will answer all your questions. Alright? >>33570246

99% of women are only interested in the usefulness or attractiveness of the man. Once this vanishes, everything vanishes with it.

>>33575383
Really interesting, can you provide me with where Nietzsche referenced this?

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>>33575075
I'm very sorry man. Before I got to the end, to the punchline, I was thinking about a comment another anon made in a thread I just read, that marriage/relationship is an exchange of resources such as sex, protection, love, financial resources too. And I was thinking as I was reading that like damn.. you really gave her quite a bit, to be able to have her. You did that probably without thinking that it will get you the sex, you didn't think about what's fair or what should happen, you just felt that it was right and you did that.
But for the girl - you essentially fed a puppy, and it followed you now and now you're it's owner. But this puppy is a human and she realized in her cunning ways that she can get a better deal from someone else. You were a stepping stone, you helped someone rise by falling intentionally and with good intents.
I've done that before, big no no.
Now when I go for a girl, I'm very careful over this exchange of resources. Call me a bitch or too careful, but if a girl doesn't seem crazy about me just for me - then I don't go for it, because my key word that I've been following is reciprocacy.
At the beginning of a relationship specifically, if a girl gives to me, then I reciprocate. What I mean by that is that she has to show me signs essentially, only then I'll return the favor. If she's not into it - I let it go. I'm not there to fight a losing battle, and many many many men settle for a losing battle type of girl because they don't want to be alone. This is a part of being virtuous. I'm not done prude religious fanatic, this is about me having a LOVING gf who gives because she truly wants me for me, and then I'll reciprocate in kind and even one step above that once in a while. But not too much. I don't live my life keeping track of these things, it's mostly for the beginning of relationships. The beginning dictates your dynamic for the rest of the xx years you'll be together for. Thanks for coming to my ass talk

>>33575508
>reciprocacy
pretty sure you meant reciprocity

>>33575508
>Now when I go for a girl, I'm very careful over this exchange of resources. Call me a bitch or too careful, but if a girl doesn't seem crazy about me just for me

Same ending still no matter if you go your new route. Bitches will still be bitches. You get depressed or whatever in your life that are unable to attend her needs she's gonna leave you behind. No such thing as true love like in sickness and in health.

>>33576325
I wish I could say you were wrong and a few years ago I would have. I had many happy years with a girl who was extremely into me and everything was great until she just decided she "wasn't happy anymore" after I had already bought a house with her and we were engaged, and decided to break up with me so she could go sleep with some guy we literally just met. 10+ years gone just like that.

People that haven't had this sort of experience don't understand how there's just no coming back from it. You maybe expect it of certain types of girls, but when it happens from the one you "KNEW" was different, it's over. Yes, all women.

>>33576464
Not to try and play devils advocate just for the fun of it, but this kinda reminds me how I was when I was younger. My friend as I went to the gasstation all the time. I bought the things every single time. He pre-warned me that he wouldn't buy because he was saving for something. Told him it's all good. That nagging feeling stuck tho. Told him it wasn't fair, and completely believed it without any doubt in my mind, that was he did was in fact wrong. All these years later, my mind has finally caught up. Could he have bought the stuff just once out of 20 times? Sure. He did warm me. Don't think he is even wrong in the slightest now. Fuck me and my nasty ass behavior as a kid.

My point is she owes you nothing. People change. Maybe she wasn't that into you for many years before finally saying something, and then it just seems like it was "right here and there". You only got hit emotionally, while OP invested too much. Paying for dinner once, is just an investment, while OP after giving all that stuff, expected something in return. He learned a good lesson. Again my point is that she doesn't owe you shit.

>>33575075
Didn't even finish reading yet but
>give her constant gifts and attention
Massive mistake. Let's see how this goes
>breaks up over "Trust" and is dating coworker the same week
>why are women like this?
You gave everything, to the point of skipping lunch, for nothing in return. I can guarantee she did nothing even comparable for you. You massively devalued yourself. Why should anyone be loyal to someone who is worthless? Not worthless as a human. But provides everything for free? For nothing in return? Women will take those benefits all day every day. But they will never respect that. No one is meant to respect that.
>not feeling great since fellow anons
Learn from your mistakes. Always give *reciprocal* energy. Nothing more. You probably could've had a good relationship with her if you gave her the space to put in effort. But you took over as the "good guy". Good guys always lose. You simped out for no reason. You didn't allow her to invest in the relationship, so she was losing nothing to leave and hook up with someone else.

See the truth: you needed to learn this lesson so it never happens again. Everyone needs to learn some things the hard way. So be glad that it ended as quickly as it did and didn't span years like it does most men. You're blessed, anon.

>>33576579
If you're already at the point of "who owes who something" it's already totally fucked.

>>33576635
You expected a random person to give back. That is just straight for the get go a big no-no. Like >>33576609 said: "give her constant gifts and attention" he makes it seem like it's nothing but a sugar daddy thing. She didn't fuck him up, he did that to himself. Otherwise even if she didn't want to sleep with him, she should then force herself to do those things? That is also pretty wrong. Not saying he didn't get fucked over in some form of way, but to indirectly say there now needs to be a relationship by demand is not right.

>>33575113
Well, then she absolutely deserves a painful death.

>>33575075
This is what happens when you date teenagers. Zero sympathy.

>>33575089
>>33575113
>>33577101
You're an idiot. OP did this to himself. Funny how he doesn't engage with anything other than faggotry that affirms his pusillanimous state of mind.
>>33577120
Has nothing to do with dating a teen. Has everything to do with being naive and not understanding the nature of women. Zero concept of male/female dynamics, played the "good guy" and lost, as he should. It is nothing more or less than exactly that.

>>33575075
It was actually you who defined your relationship as an economic one by building your aid on buying things for her. The impulse was honorable but you should have focused on guiding her toward self-help (getting a job, learning how to cook, etc) sooner. She began to think of you as a provider, not a partner.

>>33577181
isn't a partner meant to provide? Not op, just autistic and asking