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>What is /htgwg/?
How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro.

>What is /htgwg/ not?
These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard today, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, give up, or insist there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can pollute. BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM!

>How to ask for advice
Context is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc... Don't forget to ask an actual question.

>Resources and Books
https://wingman.live/ (AI dating coach)
https://pdfcoffee.com/318797392-mark-manson-models-2016pdf-4-pdf-free.html
https://archive.org/details/robert-glover-no-more-mr-nice-guy-id-353324692-size-612
https://www.youtube.com/@YourWingmam
https://www.doctornerdlove.com/blog/
https://pastebin.com/7U5Sdhwq (Leykis 101)
https://dokumen.pub/why-women-deserve-less-firstnbsped-1467978302-r-1917433.html
https://www.fantasticanachronism.com/p/how-to-be-good-at-dating
(new suggestions with working links are welcome)

REMEMBER: It's good to read and prepare, but don't overdo it. Get off this site: go learn and build up your social skills by meeting actual women in the real world.

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I’m setting my tinder range to 18-25 and there’s not a thing a roastie can do about it
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>>34071427
not like you get any pussy setting the range to whatever anyways kek
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>>34071441
Spotted the roastoid
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Anyone ACTUALLY met someone at a convention, concert, trade show, or similar event? People ITT seem to agree that apps are a raw deal, but what about the shit that I actually do for fun? We'd have something in common at least.
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>>34071452
keep talking to the one bot who liked you buddy, maybe one day you will get laid kek
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>>34069573
The world is oppress or be oppressed, correct.
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If I'm just looking for a hookup would it work to open with
>The bad news is I'm 5'7". The good news is that's not the only thing that's 7"
Or would that be too forward/sexual even if I'm only looking for a hookup?
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>>34071583
>I may be a manlet
>but I'm also a dicklet
Lmao
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>>34071690
Top are way more egotistical
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I think one of the biggest problems I have with women is how small my dating pool really is
I'm really only attracted to women who are the same race as me, maybe 10 percent of the female population in my city
Given other factors like age range, compatible beliefs, not obese, etc.
Probably ~100-200 available women in my area

What can I even do about this
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>>34071814
And if the bottom acted the same you still would've chosen them without even mentioning them being egotistical, stop being such a fucking hypocrite, ffs
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>>34071690
>4chan incels claim that pretty girls are dumb and smart women are all ugly chinks/jews
>meanwhile 1/3 of college/uni STEM classes is made up of extremely pretty girls who would qualify as stacies
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>>34071690
>>34072077
yeah I met plenty of very intelligent, high-earning women. Few qt3.14 software devs at work, including a beautiful asian american former sorority girl who is actually really good at her job too.

was also dating a pretty asian american lawyer who is also very smart and funny. She kinda had trouble dating because a lot of guys seemed to get intimidated by the fact that she made more money than them and also that she isn't afraid to challenge people on their ideas. less competition for me I guess
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>>34072077
i have a stem degree and there were literally zero stacies in all of my courses kek
being a stem male is brutal
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>>34072002
>What can I even do about this
Change your requirements, move to a different city or become a monk
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>>34072112
Shit, I'd date a girl who made more than me. I'll put on the damn apron and have dinner ready. And if it doesn't work out? Alimony for me. (Though your lawyer would have a prenup, probably)
Software Engineer girls are hot, expect that I'm also a software engineer and I'm middle of the road at best. Maybe if she were in a different career it would work out differently, but girls REALLY don't seem to like being smarter than their man in the same job. Like if I'm a better programmer than her, no problem. But if she programs better than me? Immediate loss of respect. I think it's a quirk of human psychology, maybe, that girls don't want to outright mog their man in the same core skill. As soon as she's in a different field, it lightens up. Or maybe I'm wrong, just an anecdote.



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