I'm entered the adult world without realizing. Bad stuff is happening to me. Today I got an inkling that it might be people, sick people.>An old faggot on a bus screwed me over and I got 100€ fine>My dentist booked unnecessary visits, half assed the job and now Im going to be late to something important>My friend is secretly praying for my downfall and I thinks it's only matter of time before he also screws me over. For last couple of months I thought it was God's will to make me life miserable. Now I understand, he finally taught me that's it's the people who make me suffer.Thing is... I don't have any defense. I don't like to be mean or selfish to people but at the same time I don't want to be controlled by selfish and arrogant people.
>>34273036What do?
>>34273036Are you the same OP from the other thread?What exactly is your question? How to get other people to respect your wishes?Make them, somehow.>I don't like to be mean or selfish to peopleIt sounds like you are too scared and ashamed to deal with people.Probably your dad used to beat your ass when you disagreed with him.
>>34273111No this is the only thread I made in half a year or so. Which thread is similar?>It sounds like you are too scared and ashamed to deal with people.I mean yeah, kind of. But how do you get over it? How do you train to stand your ground?
>>34273141>>34268912 vaguely complains about the adult world too>How do you train to stand your ground?Part of it comes automatically, I became a lot more rude to strangers after encountering enough aggressive beggars and getting enough phone calls from scammers.That has downsides though and you generally don't wanna be rude although some people use that as their main "weapon".Getting other people to do what you want is a whole art and there's a plethora of negotiation techniques out there but most of them boil down to being polite but persistent. Not being confrontative but also having red lines. Stuff like that.
>>34273178>but most of them boil down to being polite but persistenBrother... thank you so much. I used this today and I can believe I persuaded someone on something others though was impossible.
>>34273036>My dentist booked unnecessary visitsthey are mining your mouth for money. Take vitamins D3 and K2 so that you wont need a dentist anymore.
